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Friday, Feb. 13, 2009

Has it really been 2 years? Twice this week someone at school has told me they have been thinking a lot about Travis and I ask "why's that?" Then I felt sorta silly when my brain clicked on Valentine's Day. I lifted up a prayer to God, saying thank you for how far He has brought us and that we will always be surrounded at this time of year by hearts to remind us of God's love for us, our love for each other, and how lovely you all have been in caring for us.

Travis is in the midst of exiting out of the military. I believe the proper term is that he will be "medically retired." Throughout December and January he had medical evaluations to determine the full extent of his disabilities after this time of rehabilitation. He is now waiting for the process to be completed and hopes to be home by April. If you were able to read the Houston Chronicle article, you know that he is hoping to start school at the University of Arizona in the fall and be part of their wheelchair racing team.

As for the prosthetic legs, both Travis and the military gave it 100%, but it just didn't work. Picture yourself trying to lift a long pole with one hand, holding it just at the end, and you will have an idea of the struggle to control prosthetic legs with short residual limbs. But God has graciously given Travis the attitude to accept what he cannot change.

As I mentioned last week, Travis and I have decided to end the weekly updates. I will miss 'talking' to you every week, but I will never forget you. Thank you for praying for us and thank you for caring for us. If you are not in a Bible study, I hope you will take time to read and study God's word. I pray God will be glorified in your lives and His will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris (and our little one)

Friday, Feb. 6, 2009

Casey and I are joining the "Grandparents Club!" Haley and Chris are expecting a little one Sept. 2. We are excited.

I guess you really came to this site to read about Travis's progress. He and I have talked and decided we will stop the updates next week. We seem to be at a good stopping point and I'll share the plans Travis has for the future.

Have a wonderful week, I'm going to hear Beth Moore speak so you know I'm going to have a great time!

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris - and little one

Jan. 30, 2009

The Houston Chronicle ran another article about Travis. I double checked it this morning (Friday) and it was still active. I went to the Houston Chronicle website (www.houstonchronicle.com) and put "Travis Dodson" in the search box. The article is titled "Marine driven to compete in marathon wheelchair event" and is dated 1-22-2009. The article talks about an obstacle course that Travis ran. I called him to get some clarification: Travis and another wounded warrior from the CFI drove to Houston the weekend of the marathon. The other young man was in a seated volleyball tournament. On Saturday (the marathon was on Sunday) along with the volleyball tournament was an Expo where people could try wheelchair basketball, seated volleyball, and wheelchair racing on an obstacle course and perhaps some other adapted sports.

His next event is a 15K in Florida on Feb. 28, 2009. I've decided I want to keep posting a while longer because so many people are now following Travis and his marathon training. The legs may be slow, but Travis is still fast! God is faithful.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Jan. 23, 2009

Travis enjoyed himself in the Houston marathon. Casey told me his time, it was just about the same as his time for the marathon in San Antonio.

As you have been able to tell, there is not much news to relay to you about Travis. I'm going to talk to Travis about how and when he would like for me to end my updates, but I am thinking that his 2 year anniversary would be a good time to stop. I keep reminding myself that he is not a reality show. :) But I often think that when someone asks you to pray for their situation, there should be some communication of the outcome or progress. That has been our intent with this website, and I thank you again and again for interceding for us.

I'll write updates for a few more weeks at least.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Jan. 16, 2009

The Houston Chronicle ran an article and video about Travis and the marathon in their 1/16/09 edition. You can find them by going to www.houstonchronicle.com and searching for Travis Dodson. The article is titled "Iraq Vet to compete in wheelchair marathon" and the video (which is placed toward the bottom of the article) is titled "The will to wheel".

Travis is in a 1/2 marathon in Houston on Sunday. I don't know any details yet. Ana told me the guys at the CFI loaned her a bike and she rode with Travis while he was training. Casey and I are glad he has an activity he enjoys.

Casey's cousin, Howard, is home safely from his tour in Iraq. For that, we are all thankful.

Have a great week!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Jan. 9, 2009

Travis is back in San Antonio and has had several doctor's appointments this week. I'm sure Ana thinks waiting in doctor's offices is a lot of fun - ha.

I have news about my health. I seemed to have just kept struggling with that pleurisy and I didn't want to continue any longer than necessary on the medicines I'm on, so I went to see some specialists at the Mayo Clinic in Scottsdale. The conclusion is that I actually started with a walking pneumonia that turned into pleurisy. Although they are not certain what the pain is (they did give me some ideas) they do feel certain that I can wean myself off the medication without the pleurisy returning (which is what I kept fearing). My mother-in-law Helen went with me, we stayed with Haley and Chris, and we had a really fun time. She commented on the way home that I will probably start to feel better immediately just because of peace-of-mind. Oh, that attitude we have discussed so much! :)

Much love to you all,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Jan 2, 2009

Happy New Year! We are having fun, fun, fun. Travis and Ana will drive off Sunday morning headed to San Antonio.

Today I went through the huge collection of cards and letters that have been sent to us since Travis's injury. Wow. I sat there just astounded again at all the love that poured through those cards. Many of you sent several and they came from all over the country. Amazing. One person wrote to Travis, " Countless numbers have followed your story, watched your parent's faith, read the e-mails and been moved to pray for the first time in years, and many had a cold faith rekindled." I pray that indeed this is what God has done in almost two years through what we humans call a tragic situation.

May He turn all your mourning into dancing as He has ours, and may you sing praises to the Lord God Almighty all the days of your life.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

The last update of 2008 - wow time goes so fast.

Travis and Casey arrived home Saturday, then Haley and Chris came on Wednesday. We are having a wonderful Christmas holiday.

Three times this season I have been struck by the reading of the shepherd's encounter with the angels, and the angels saying, "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased." Luke 2:14, NRSV. Does the NRSV make you sit up and notice that verse? In the Bible study that I just completed, Beth Moore makes the point that true peace is not about peaceful circumstances, but about bowing down to the rule of Christ in your life.

I hope you enjoyed time with your family, and if someone was missing from your table, I pray that God will fill the emptiness in your heart with beautiful memories of your loved one.

May the peace of Christ's rule in your life be yours today and forever.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Saturday, Dec. 20, 2008

Travis and Casey are driving from San Antonio to Deming today. Casey flew out on Thursday evening so he could help Travis do some "two men jobs" that Travis needed done on Friday, then they got on the road early this morning. I took Casey to the airport Thursday evening and totally forgot about the update. I appologize.

Travis is going to be home for two weeks and Haley and Chris will be here for a few days right around Christmas. Yahoo Mountain Dew!

Yesterday while waiting for an appointment, I picked up the People magazine which has Michael J. Fox on the cover. Talk about an inspiring attitude. Wow! I didn't get to finish the article, but I think you would enjoy the read if you ever run across it.

Praying you have the best Christmas ever and learn more about God everyday.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Dec. 11, 2008

Travis is in Colorado snow skiing and to quote his text to me "it is really really fun." He ran into Randy, his physical therapist from Palo Alto, who is accompaning some guys on this same trip. When I look back at pictures of Travis from Palo Alto I'm shocked with how pale and thin he was, so I wonder who recognized who in Colorado :)

Hope your Christmas shopping is done and you are relaxed and enjoying the season.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thurs, Dec. 4, 2008

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend with all our family. We played games and laughed and ate and laughed some more. Travis is back in San Antonio doing all the activities the CFI provides. I think he is going to a Spurs game this week and next week going on a ski trip.

I am so grateful to all of you and to the military and to every other American who is making sure Travis and so many other guys know they can still have a rich and full life. And PRAISE BE THE NAME OF GOD FOREVER AND EVER!

Love,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Nov. 28, 2008

We are having a fabulous Thanksgiving weekend. Travis brought his racing bike home and he, Casey, and Lauren were in the local Turkey Trot 3 mile run. Travis came in 2nd in the men's division and Lauren came in 3rd in the women's division. Casey was on a bike so of course he wasn't competing, but Travis beat him by about 40 seconds. I was riding in the lead golf cart so I could take pictures. We had a lot of fun.

Ana is coming this evening, she's been with her family and is now joining us. Haley and Chris are here, of course, and we're having a ball playing games and eating delicious food.

We have much to be thankful for, as do you. If you're having a little trouble realizing it, ask the Lord to make you aware of the blessings He is pouring down upon you. I'm sure He'll be glad to help you see it!

With a thankful heart for all your prayers, concern, and love,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Nov. 20, 2008

You are not going to believe what Travis did Sunday. He participated in a 1/2 marathon! He was in the wheelchair division, completing the little over 13 mile race in 1 hour 17 min. There were not very many participants in the wheelchair 1/2 marathon, but he did take first place. Since it was his first 1/2 marathon, his coach, Wendy, rode a bike beside him and told him that at one point while going downhill he was traveling about 25 mph! Whew!!

I tried to contact him the next evening several times and finally texted Ana and ask what Travis was up to. She texted back that he was playing football. HUH?!? He and a few other guys each borrowed a wheelchair designed for basketball, drove to an asphalt covered area in town somewhere, and played touch football.

On Thanksgiving morning here in Deming we have a 3K run called the Turkey Trot. Casey has signed up the Dodson family; Travis in his chair, Casey and I on bikes trying to keep up, and Lauren running. I may drop out and ride with one of my friends in the lead golf cart so I can take pictures.

All week I have had a heart filled to overflowing with such gratitude to God for the active life He is providing to Travis. A miracle is when you see something only God can do, and we continue to see miracle after miracle through Travis.

Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving and please look for my next update on Saturday. I'll write it sometime Friday rather than Thanksgiving day.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Nov. 13, 2008

Travis is back from his trip with Ana. They had a wonderful time and saw lots of his buddies. He saw his sister who lives in Phoenix at the beginning of his trip and again at the end, which was a good thing for me because he broke his phone during the trip and Haley was an easy way for me to make contact. Do you think he broke it on purpose so he wouldn't have to talk to me so often? Just kidding! Pass the word to all Travis's friends that he has lost all the contacts in his phone and they all need to call him so he'll have their number again.

Tuesday I was invited to our local Veteran's Day program and was asked to represent the Blue Star Mothers, mothers of active duty military personnel. What an honor. Two other mothers were with me, one with a son in the Air Force stationed in S. Korea. The other with two Army sons, both in Iraq. How proud we are to be mothers of young men protecting our freedom, yet the concern was clearly written on both women's faces. Oh how I longed to tell them it would be okay, but I was afraid it might sound flippant or callous coming from me, so I just hugged them both. But I will say to all of you, God is standing by our side. He has carried us much of the time and continues to show us the joy He has for our lives.

God bless you all,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Nov. 6, 2008

Remember, pray for, and honor our Veterans and our military, especially on Tuesday - VETERAN'S DAY. May we never forget!

Last Saturday Travis was in a Veteran's Day parade in one of San Antonio's suburbs called Universal City. I wasn't able to tell you about it last week in the update because some of it was a surprise and I was afraid Travis would check out the website and the surprise would be spoiled. Here's the story

Travis frequents the American Legion with his friends Steve and Shirley Stevenson. The American Legion is actually in Universal City although San Antonio surrounds it. A retired Air Force General also frequents the Legion and so of course she and Travis have become friends. She was the Grand Marshall of the parade and Travis, Steve, and Shirley were to be in the 2nd car. The surprise part was that during the program, the mayor presented Travis with a proclamation proclaiming Saturday "Travis Dodson Day" in Universal City. Travis was very touched. What an honor. The really cute part is that Travis was supposed to have class on Saturday and wasn't sure he could make it to the parade, but the General told Shirley to "make sure he was there" so after a discussion with the professor behind Travis's back, Travis was at the parade on time!

Travis is going to compete in a bicycle 1/2 marathon later this month. It will be 13 miles. Whew! I checked with him about the racing wheelchair and whether or not it has a chain like a bicycle - No, it does not.

Casey has talked to Travis a little more often than I have lately, and Casey tells me that Travis is satisfied with the fit of his legs and is walking again. I think he is attempting to walk one time a day for about 30 min, so it seems to me that walking is really another form of exercise for him rather than a means of moving from one spot to another. We'll just have to see what the Lord has planned.

Right now Travis is on a trip to see some of his buddies - and he took Ana with him! They'll be staying with Joseph Poquiz and his wife and visiting a lot of the other guys from his unit. But Travis said he won't be partying too much, he has a marathon when he gets back. :)

To all of you who are or have served our country, we thank you and pray that you will be greatly blessed this Veteran's Day and every other day of your life.

Thank you for all you've done for us,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, October 31, 2008

Hello! Travis said the paraolympics trip was not nearly as big as he expected. But he seems to be interested in the wheelchair races. I think I understood that the wheelchair race coach lives about an hour from San Antonio, so perhaps he will be able to contact the coach easily. We called him early Wednesday morning and he was working out on a wheelchair - wheeling 12 miles around the track! He said he does that in about an hour and a half just for exercise. It is not his regular wheelchair, it has 3 wheels and I think it has a chain sorta like a bike. Anyway, he's bound to be burning some calories.

I'm in a 7th & 8th grade school and it is full of vampires and witches today. I prefered Halloween in Kindergarten where you had princesses and superheroes.

Have a wonderful week,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Oct. 23, 2008

Travis is in San Diego talking with the paraolympic coaches, but he is not talking to his mother so I don't have a clue what is going on! He's probably busy and with the time difference he figures we are either at work (a morning call) or in bed (an evening call). He'll be home this weekend and we should get the full story to pass on to you.

Last night I went to Bible study. We are doing a study on the fruit of the spirit written by Beth Moore called Living Beyond Yourself. Last night's lecture was on peace. Wow, wow, wow. She spoke about peace being associated with authority. That peace does not come from peaceful circumstances, but from bowing down to the rule of Christ in your life. You may remember that I commented in the midst of Travis's crisis that I was experiencing the "peace that passes understanding." And now I know how it came to be. From the moment we heard the news of Travis's injuries, I told God that I believed He is in control of the world and He had allowed this to happened to Travis, and that I also believed that He loves us and has our best interest at heart. That He would only allow this to happen if He could make something good come of it for His glory and His purposes. I think you will agree that much good has come and I believe much more will come of this. I realized last night that we had bowed down to Christ's authority, and oh, the peace He gave us!

God sits on His throne, and may you have the Peace of Christ as you bow to His authority in your life!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Oct. 16, 2008

Travis is quite busy right now. He is taking a history class at the Wayland Baptist branch in San Antonio. He is reading and working on a research paper as we speak. The university is on the quarters system, so the class will be over the first weekend of November.

He leaves Tuesday for a Wounded Warrior trip to San Diego. About 9 guys are going and the point of the trip is to meet and talk with some of the paraolympics coaches. Doesn't that sound cool!

Not much is happening in the leg department. He doesn't seem to be bummed about it, just factual. God has been so good, if He is not going to let Travis walk right now He must have a reason.

Travis's good friend Steve Stevenson, the Marine who has "adopted" Travis, is still having health problems. When we first met him he had just finished chemotherapy for lung cancer and the cancer went into remission. He is again having lung issues but the doctors have not figured out the exact problem. Please hold him up before the throne of God.

Once again I find myself longing for the Lord's Kingdom to come. One of my friends is sitting by her mother's hospital bed, another's mom passed on yesterday, little Jerry Lee is struggling, we're concerned about Steve, and the list goes on and on. I know you have many concerns, too. All we really know is that the Lord in heaven loves us, hears our cries, and makes decisions with our good in mind- even when we don't see it that way.

With much love,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Oct. 9, 2008

I ask Travis today what news I could report on the update. All he said is that he has a leg appointment tomorrow.

He had a grand time at the Birthday Party this past weekend. He said the food was great, the music amazing, Ana was there, and he had a blast. I think he, Steve and Shirley all enjoyed their combined party.

Hope to have more next week.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Oct. 3, 2008

Travis is going to have a fun weekend. He and his friends Steve and Shirley Stevenson all have birthdays right around this weekend and so they are going to have a birthday party. They have reserved the American Legion hall and are going to have a BBQ buffet along with music. Ana, who's birthday is later this month, is flying in for the weekend so Travis should have an especially good time. Shirley has been buying all kinds of decorations and "stuff" to make it an event and they are expecting quite a few friends. She has even arranged for a "designated driver" for Travis and Ana, a taxi will pick them up and take them back home.

Travis had a "leg" appointment this morning but when I talked to him he was so busy making plans and buying goodies for this weekend that he didn't have time to tell me any details. I guess that gives me a topic for next week.

On a much more somber topic, a little 6 year old boy who Travis loves deeply has been diagnosed with Leukemia. Would you mind lifting him up in prayer?

Thank you for your love and concern,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Sept. 26, 2008

Travis is back from Colorado and back into his routine. He really enjoyed the mountain biking and used the term "gravity bike" which he tried to explain as a bike that only goes downhill but is easily steered by someone who doesn't have legs. It must have some way to control its speed, but I'm not sure how. He also said it would be a worthless bike in Deming since we are so flat. The camping part of the trip was not his favorite - soft terrain and rocks don't mix well with wheelchairs - but he enjoyed the kayaking.

He has the Boston contact and explained that when both eyes are open his good eye takes over and there is not much difference. But when he closes his good eye the Boston contact improves his poor eye vision to 20/40. He said it is not at all uncomfortable and the ophthalmologist explained that there is no long term harm/help to his vision by wearing or not wearing the contact. So Travis can try it for a while and see if the improvement in vision is worth the bother of a contact.

I ask about his legs and he said they had cast a new socket this week (I have no idea how many how many "new sockets" we've tried) and so there is no walking practice for a while longer.

His spirits are still high and his attitude positive.

Thank you for caring. Hope you are in constant communication with the Lord. No matter what our problems, concerns, or fears, it is reassuring to know He is on the throne.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Sept. 18, 2008

We're VERY sorry about the delay/confusion concerning the update last week. Our webmaster has been in Washington, DC so she and I had not been in contact about the update. Several people commented to me on Tuesday that the update had not been posted, so Courtney immediately went to work while on the road (she was not driving!) to figure out why. It is all straighted out now, but if you didn't catch it, you might need to click on "the rest of the story."

Anyway, Travis is in Crested Butte, Colorado, mountain biking, rope climbing, and river rafting. He sent me a phone picture on Tuesday evening with the caption "This picture does not do justice to my crash." He is sitting in his wheelchair, covered with dirt, and showing off his two scraped forearms. He had been mountain biking and told his dad it was "the most fun I've had in a really long time." I'm not sure if he meant the mountain biking or the crash! :) We haven't heard from him since, so I checked with Ana. She said they were going camping in the mountains - she doesn't know how many nights - and so we are assuming he has no cell phone service. I told her she was probably going through withdrawl because they text each other constantly...she just giggled. :)

Isn't it wonderful that he is having such a good time? And thank you to all the wonderful Americans who make these trips possible for all our Wounded Warriors.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Sept. 12, 2008

I sat up last night watching one of the shows remembering the tragedies of 9/11 and thinking "This is how is all started." We as a nation are affected in so many ways, but we are still standing strong. Let's pause for a moment to thank God for the strength He has given us and ask that we be used to further His kingdom here on earth.

Another bucket has been cast for Travis. Something is not working or fitting with the buckets they keep making, and his leg won't stay straight in front of him - or something like that. I have a hard time understanding all the details over the phone. Anyway, he figures he is not going to have an appointment next week so he is going on a Wounded Warrior trip to Colorado. He will be mountain biking, rope climbing and river rafting. What fun!

Last Sunday he went to a Toby Keith concert and reported it was awesome! He went with his good friend Shirley Stevenson and they both said it was very pro-American and pro-military but even if it hadn't been it still would have been fantastic!!

When he does these neat things I keep thinking of how God promised an abundant life and he is certainly showing Travis he doesn't have to sit and be bored in front of the TV.

Have a wonderful week!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, September 5, 2008

I drove Travis to the airport yesterday and he is now back in San Antonio. We had a wonderful time with him and enjoyed all the comings and goings of he and his friends. He has a great group of friends who have proven themselves over and over to be true friends!!

Travis has a prosthetic appointment today. He hopes the bucket still fits after all the good food he ate while at home. Hopefully they will be able to iron out the problems with the leg alignment and he will be practicing walking soon. He explained to me that he makes an appointment with Kirk, and if there is still work to be done on the leg, it is about a week and a half before he can get another appointment. It seems like a really long time, but Travis reminded me that there are many, many amputees at the CFI and that is how long it takes to make the rounds among them all. He is still in high spirits with a really positive attitude.

His good friend, Master Sgt. Stevenson, is having some health concerns. Please lift him up to the Lord. The Stevensons, Steve and Shirley, have become very dear friends to all the Dodsons, but especially to Travis. Their interest in Travis and their willingness to help him in all aspects of his life has truly been a gift from God.

Have a wonderful weekend.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Aug. 29, 2008

Travis has come home for Labor Day weekend and we are enjoying him!! He didn't actually come home to see us, his good friend Riley is home for his pre-deployment leave, we're just glad we live in the same town as Riley :) Ana will come to Deming after her last class this afternoon. I have also heard from Joseph Poquiz's mother and Travis unit was in the green zone in Kuwait yesterday and expected to be on US soil today. I did find out that Lt. Col Galei, whom I met in Hawaii, was killed in action by a suicide bomber in June, and Sgt. Major Wilkenson, whom I also met, suffered severe injuries to his legs in the same bombing. My information comes from Lt. Col Matthews (used to be Major), but he doesn't know the recent statis on Sgt. Major Wilkenson. By the way, Lt. Col Matthews and his wife Dee have just had their second child, a son named Benjamin.

Well, that's all the news I have for now. Travis and his therapists, etc. are still trying to get his new leg to work correctly. He'll have an appointment when he returns to San Antonio, but he is here until Sept. 4th.

Have a wonderful break from your labors,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Aug. 21, 2008

Sounds like the CFI has been getting into the Olympic spirit. Travis reports that they have played a very intense couple of hours of Wheelchair Polo. It's like water polo, but everyone has to be in a wheelchair, whether you can walk or not. He said it was a lot of fun, and I'm betting the guys who aren't usually in chairs had a little trouble maneuvering around the court.

He had a prosthetic appointment today (Thursday) and they are still fine tuning the new leg. I don't know when he will be up and walking again.

Tomorrow (Friday) evening he begins his fall semester of classes. He is taking a statistics class on Friday evening and a history class Saturday morning. He has checked with New Mexico State Univ. and everything he is taking will transfer for required credit whenever he is able to attend NMSU.

Have a great week.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, August 15, 2008

Not much to report about Travis's progress. He has had a couple of optometry appointments but does not yet have the Boston contact and he has had a couple of appointments with Kirk, his prostisist, but he is not yet walking on his new leg.

In some ways time goes so fast - it's been a year and a half since his injuries! - yet it can also seem so slow - seems we've been headed to the Boston contact and new leg all summer! Once again I am reminded that the Lord is in control of all things and His timing is perfect. Can't wait to see the results of the wait!!! :)

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Aug. 7, 2008

Travis has tried on the new bucket (the piece that holds his leg onto his body) for his left leg and says it feels great. He should be back to practicing his walking next week. Hopefully the new bucket and the new hip joint will make it both easier and more comfortable for him. He has seen Optometry and the Boston contact still seems very positive although he doesn't have it yet.

He is finishing up a college algebra class he took this summer - is planning on taking 2 more classes in the fall- and his friend Ana has recently been to San Antonio to visit. Sounds like a good ending to the summer.

I have rejoined the work force! I am now the assistant in the library at Red Mountain Middle School. It is a very high tech library and the job will be both challenging and very different from a classroom teacher. Hopefully my health will continue to improve and I will have a lot of fun.

Hope your summer has been great and you are looking forward to Fall.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Aug. 1, 2008

Not much news, just a short update. Travis has tried his new hip joint but apparently neither he nor his prostesist (the one who builds the legs) were satisfied with is, so they have molded a new bucket (socket) to connect it to. I believe he tries it today. Hopefully it will work well.

We are getting ready for school here, teachers start Thursday. Summers go by so quickly - and they seem to be getting quicker! Hope you are still enjoying your summer.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, July 25, 2008

Travis is doing well. A new socket has been molded for his new hip and he is hoping to be up and walking again soon. He also saw the optometrist (Tuesday, I think) and they ran some initial test to see how the Boston contact might work. The results were positive and so he returns (today, I think) to the optometrist to do the "which one is better, one... or two?" test to determine the exact prescription necessary in the lens. When he was home the week after the 4th of July, he went trap shooting with his grandfather. Because he is right handed but his right eye is bad, he decided to try shooting left handed so he could use his left eye. He shot 24 out of 25 targets! The men who shoot with them were very impressed and grandpa is still busting his buttons over it : )

San Antonio is hot so Travis is hoping Hurricane Dolly provides some rain.

Oh, I do hope things are going well in your lives!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Travis is back in San Antonio and practicing on his legs again. I'm sure he'll be back where he was before the surgery in no time.

I've sent our webmaster a picture and DVD of the "First Pitch" in Arizona so watch for them on the website.

Hope you're staying cool,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Our Diamondbacks First Pitch experience was incredible! Travis looked great in his uniform and we were treated like celebrities. Our seats ended up being perfect, right next to the promenade and in an area large enough that many of the friends who were at the game were able to come by and visit. We even met Mario Diaz and his wife Tara. Mario is the brother of Tech Sgt. Eddie Diaz who wrote the River City story that is posted on the website. Sgt. Diaz still reads the website and ask his brother to go to the game and meet Travis. It was very meaningful for me and I'm looking forward to the time I can meet Sgt. Diaz.

Travis was one of three First Pitches which followed the introduction of 17 other military men. At least 5 of them were Purple Heart recepients from the Arizona National Guard. The other two pitches were thrown by a 1st Lt. and a 2 star General. The general came over and shook Travis's hand, passing him the general's challenge coin during the handshake and then visiting for several minutes. When the general stepped away, his assistant told Travis, "I knew the General for a long time before I received one of his coins, you meet him for 2 minutes and he gives you a coin!" The pitches were shown on the Jumbotron, starting with Travis's official Marine picture and then followed by live feed of the 3 men. It was exciting and lots of fun. The Diamondbacks have sent us a DVD of the 3 pitches and an 8x10 glossy of Travis with the ball in the air. They are wonderful momentos of a wonderful experience.

Thanks for caring!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Happy 4th of July!

We're headed to Phoenix. This is exciting! We'll be staying at the Embassy Suites on 24th and Thomas. If you are in Phoenix come by and say "Hello"

Please be in prayer for the war and Travis's unit. Travis heard today that a high ranking officer in his unit was killed by a suicide bomber and an NCO injured. He wasn't told names, but God knows them and their families.

Be safe and have a fun weekend.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Not much to report. Travis seems to be doing well and is coming home for 10 days, several days before and after our trip to Phoenix for the 4th.

I'm thrilled about the First Pitch at the Diamondbacks game. Many of you have ask for details, this is what I know: The game starts at 6:40 pm and is covered by FSNArizona. The First Pitch is not usually shown on television, but since it is a holiday with pomp and circumstance, who knows! There is a pregame show called Diamondbacks Live that airs right before the game so check it out and you might see something. The Diamondbacks are also providing us with a DVD of the throw. I'll ask for permission for Courtney to put it on the website. GO DIAMONDBACKS!

It's hot here and going to be hotter in Phoenix, hope you're staying cool.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, June 19, 2008

I'm sorry this is so late. As soon as I was home, Casey and Lauren threw their suitcases in the car with mine and we headed to a golf tournament and family reunion. This is the first chance I've had to get on a computer. The family reunion is at Courtney, our webmaster's house, and the first thing she said to me today was, "don't forget your update."

Travis is doing well from his surgeries. His vision improved a lot when it was tested, but he doesn't see much difference when just looking around. The Boston contact will be tried when the eye is well healed, probably mid July. His abdomen is also healing well. The doctors said he could do most anything he needed, but not to do any exercising. I mentioned the First Pitch on July 4th and the doctor was excited and told him to have a great time, so we're good to go on that.

I enjoyed my 2 weeks with Travis and I know he appreciated my being there, but no doubt he was a relieved to see me leave so I would stop trying to do so much for him.

I better get back to the family reunion. Hope all of you can enjoy your family sometime this summer, too.

Love,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Travis has had 2 small hernias that the general surgery team has been watching. Saturday he called to tell us that the surgeons had decided to tag team with ophthalmology and do the eye surgery and hernia repair all during the same surgery on Monday. I threw in a couple of extra shirts and made sure my ticket home from San Antonio was open ended.

We checked in for out-patient surgery at 9:30 Monday morning. He was called back about 2:00 and the eye surgery began about 3:30. At 4:30 the cornea specialist came out to report that the eye surgery had gone very well, it was as good as possible. Travis's iris has been repaired and lens replaced. Now he needs to heal before they try the Boston contact and see if his vision will be improved.

The general surgeons thought they were dealing with two small hernias in spots weakened by his previous surgeries and that it would take an additional hour to hour and a half. As that time line came and went I was very glad for the company of my cousin, Dana, who lives here in San Antonio. The surgery took a little over 3 hours because there was a larger, hidden hernia in his obliques. Because of the late hour (8:00 pm) they admitted him for the night. I think Travis was much better off because I was able to get a good nights sleep without being concerned for him and on Tuesday he was able to just relax in the hospital bed and wait for ophthalmology to come see him instead of sitting in their waiting room. We headed back to his barracks room (I'm staying in the Fisher House) late Tuesday afternoon. He transfers to his wheelchair slowly, but is doing well. We're playing cards and taking naps and I am feeling GREAT! I told one of my cousins it might have something to do with not having to deal with supper. ha

I'm not sure when I will head home. Travis can't do any heavy lifting for 4 weeks so that takes him out of physical therapy and he certainly won't be doing any walking, so he needs some company if for nothing more than to help occupy his time. He gets cabin fever pretty easily.

There are so many of you that continue to encourage and support us, but I want you to know we realize that you also have problems and needs. Within my close circle of friends and family we are dealing with many other problems; financial, relational and health. Just last night we learned my much younger cousin's husband has thyroid cancer. Life is hard ...but God is good. We continue to pray that He meets your needs and uses others to encourage you as He has used you to encourage us.

With much love,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Last week I was so interested in watching Travis do his regular routine and reporting on it that I forgot to update you on his eye surgery. He had an appointment with ophthalmology on Tuesday, May 27. At that appointment the cornea specialist told Travis that he would like to hold off on the cornea transplant for a couple of reasons:

1. The younger you are the better your immune system and the more likely you are to reject the new cornea
2. A cornea transplant only lasts about 15 years, so Travis would be looking at several transplants in his lifetime
3. There is new technology out in contacts called a Boston contact that would very likely give Travis pretty good vision

Travis commented that during his last appointment a trial Boston contact was put in his eye and he was very surprised with how much it improved his vision.

SO- on Monday, June 9 Travis is going to have his lens replaced because he has developed a cataract and the doctor is going to try to fix the iris that has gotten caught up in the scar tissure from the shrapnel. (The doctors in Palo Alto did not attempt to fix the iris for fear of causing a cataract, but since a cataract has developed these doctors said it is worth a try.) One certain doctor specializes in the Boston contact and when he returns to BAMC, I think late June or early July, Travis will be fitted for the contact. The doctor we saw is hopeful that Travis will then have 20/60 or maybe even 20/40 vision. How exciting.

And we have MORE exciting news. You might remember that Dave Edwards is a man who grew up in Deming and is now one of the trainers for the Arizona Diamondbacks. He came to visit Travis in Palo Alto and brought the signed D-back jersey. Well, we have kept in touch and I let him know we were going to be in Phoenix over the 4th of July weekend. He called back a few days later and said the Diamondbacks are planning a big celebration to honor our military at the game on the 4th and the president of the D-backs wants TRAVIS TO THROW OUT THE FIRST PITCH!! Yahoo, Mountain Dew!! We are excitied!!

I also want to update you on Casey's mom. She is so back to normal that it is unbelievable. When she commented to her doctor that she is a little more tired in the evenings than she used to be, the doctor reminded her that she is missing 1/4 of a lung. I had to smile because she is doing so well that we hadn't even thought of that.

I would appreciate your prayers for Travis's eye and his walking. I remember in Bethesda praying, "Lord, he's lost so much. Couldn't he have his vision back?" Perhaps now God is showing us his answer is Yes. Oh, I hope so.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, May 30, 2008

Casey, Lauren, and I are in San Antonio visiting Travis. Casey's last day in school was Friday so we hopped in the car and headed over here. We made a quick stop at Balmorhea. When Lauren realized we were slowing down to get off the interstate, we had to listen to the regular teenage verbage of "I can't believe we're doing this, this is so stupid, etc., etc., etc." But when we left she said, "That was pretty cool, we should come here camping sometime." Teenagers, I only have one left to finish raising!

Of course the main event for us here in San Antonio is watching Travis walk. He walks everyday for about 45 min. and it has been eye opening for me to see. He is doing amazingly well, but it is not easy. Balancing is tricky and any little unlevel places in the sidewalk make walking precarious. He commented that he needs to walk outside more and not just around the track in the CFI so he gets practice with all the stuff of real life walking. He's not ready to step up or down from curbs and he said grass is really, really hard. The ground is soft and the blades grab his feet.

Oh I covet your prayers, asking God to continue giving Travis the determination and strength to learn to walk.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley and Chris

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Deming must be having a hands on lesson about the dust bowl days of the 1930's. I took a picture out our front window with my phone of the house across the street and sent it to Travis and Haley. They both said, "I really couldn't see much." EXACTLY, I said. You could tell there was a house across the street but you couldn't see the details, like the door or windows.

(start the music) School's out for the summer... So we are loading up and going to see Travis. Ana is visiting at the moment and we will arrive a few hours after she has left. Brooke Army Medical Center (and the Center for the Intrepid) won an award for best Army hospital or something like that, so the General is giving them 4 days off this weekend instead of just 3. Friday morning Travis is participating in some type of triathlon. He will swim, hand bike, and I guess roll, for a certain distance. I'll get more details when we see him Sunday. Then Tuesday he has his ophthalmology appointment to schedule his cornea replacement. We are hoping to watch him walk on his legs, swim, and surf on the flowrider while we're visiting - he said he has learned to do lots of tricks on the flowrider. We should have a great time.

Golly, a year ago this weekend we were welcoming home Travis from the hospital. Please join me in praying for the families of our service men and women who didn't get to experience such a wonderful homecoming and for the families of our veterans who have passed away. Deming recently lost one of our Pearl Harbor survivors. They really are from one of the greatest generations ever.

God bless America,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Travis's Wounded Warrior trip ended today, he is flying back to San Antonio as I write. I think the Wounded Warrior trips are just amazing. He gets to experience some wonderful activities all geared to prove to him that he can live a full and rich life. I'll tell you, they certainly have proved it to his mother! On this trip Travis has been surfing, scuba diving, in a shark cage, up in an airplane while some of the other guys sky dived, and the more normal tourist activity - taken a tour of Pearl Harbor. I think he would have sky dived, too, if the harness had stayed secure on him. Wow!

Here's a fun little story that I hope I can write so that it makes sense to you readers. Lauren, Travis's little sister, just played golf in Albuquerque in the State golf tournament. One of the girls in her threesome was from Artesia, NM and I had read in one of Travis's Wounded Warrior magazines that the Chase family from Artesia are huge contributors to the Wounded Warrior Project, funding an elk hunt on their ranch in Wyoming. While the girl's parents and I walked around the course I told them about Travis and ask if they knew the Chase family. They said yes, and that as a matter of fact, an Artesia boy playing in the tournament was the son of the man who manages the Chase Foundation for them. I immediately decided that I wanted to meet the young man and ask him to tell his father that the mother of a wounded warrior said a very heartfelt "thank you" to all of them. As everyone gathered at the clubhouse for awards, I looked around for the group from Artesia and a man in an Artesia High shirt walked right by me. I stopped him and ask if he knew which young man was playing as an individual from Artesia and he said, "Yes, I do. He's my son, I'll get him for you." I said, "Oh, Sir, you are really the one I wanted to talk with!" We chatted for quite a few minutes and shed a few tears together. Just like all the other people I have met through Travis, he is a kind and warm human being.

I have thanked God for wonderful people like these families and all of you who have supported our Military and encouraged our wounded. Thank you for your help- whether emotional, financial, or spiritual!

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, May 9, 2008

It's just as well I forgot to write the update last night, I didn't have much to say. But then a beautiful Mother's Day card arrived in the mail today! It is one of those sweet, gushy cards with lots of writing, all about the bond between a mother and son. It is beautiful. The past year and 3 months has been tragic and yet wonderful. Few mothers get to spend such hours with their 21/22 year old son and see such beauty and strength of character emerge.

As I type, I'm sure Travis is in the ocean either surfing or scuba diving. I know he is having a ball. He promised to take pictures, and I'm sure the Wounded Warrior Project people have some photographers along. If you are interested, here are websites for four of the many organizations that are helping these guys in tremendous ways.

• www.woundedwarriorproject.org
• www.fisherhouse.org
• www.fallenheroesfund.org
• www.SemperFiFund.org

Happy Mother's Day to all you mothers, and I hope you also receive a beautiful, heartfelt card or your sons and daughters throw open the door and you have a special day together!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Travis is practicing his walking daily and has walked a mile around the CFI and outside around the barracks. He leaves next Tuesday for a weeklong Wounded Warrior surfing and scuba diving trip and has been spending time outside everyday so he won't sunburn.

I continue to be grateful for so many Americans who contribute to the organizations that are helping our wounded realize how full and rich their lives can still be.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley and Chris

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Yesterday Travis called and reported he had just walked 1 mile!!!! It took him between 30-45 minutes. A mile! Amazing! Today his legs were lengthened 1 inch and it surprised him how much more difficult it was. We'll see if he quickly gets used to it or if it takes a lot more effort. This weekend he is taking his legs to the barracks with him for the first time so he can practice over the weekend.

My prayer has now become more about comfort; that the Lord would be gracious enough to allow him to be comfortable with his legs on, whether sitting, standing, or walking. And I still pray that he walk with the Lord.

I thank God for you, and for your prayers and your concern for us.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Travis has walked 3/4 of a mile around the track inside the CFI. The track is on the 4th floor and it takes 26 laps to make a mile. Travis says the walking is getting a little bit easier but is still hard.

Last week I was asked if I could drive a woman who lives in Deming to Las Cruces for a medical treatment that she needs. The man who ask me said, "She is a double amputee and I think it would be good for her to meet you." As it turned out, it was good for me to meet her! She is 75 years old, lives alone, and several years ago lost both legs above the knees. She is happy and vibrant and moves easily from her power wheelchair into the passenger seat of a car. As we chatted, she made the comment that she figured she could be "depressed and die or laugh and live." I felt like I was looking into the future and getting a glimpse of how Travis might be at 75. Every once in a while the giant called Fear has taunted me and said, "Sure, Travis is doing well now, but how well will he be able to do when he is older?" Wasn't God nice to provide me with a lovely day with a lovely woman and reassure me that Travis will be OK?

I hope all of you have a wonderful week and God reassures you about your fears. May we all listen to "the voice of truth."
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, April 11, 2008

Travis has walked 1/2 mile around the track at the CFI. We are so excited. The track is small, it takes 26 laps to be a mile, so Travis has made 13. He said it is getting a little bit easier to walk and balance and he uses 2 canes rather than crutches.

Casey's mom is doing great! She seems to have almost totally recovered from the surgery and only has 1 more chemo treatment to go. Wowie!! Everytime I see her she has more pep and vitality than the previous time, she is really doing well.

I just heard from Amy Perella, one of the friends of the Fishers that we met in Bethesda last year. She is at the Master's golf tournament having a ball. She has had some health issues herself and said she has drawn strength and encouragement from the wounded warriors she has met. God really can use everything for good, can't He.

Speaking of the Master's, Travis is going to the Master Sergeant's house for a Master's golf tournament party. Casey will be parked in front of the tv for most of the weekend watching and routing for Tiger. Hope all of you have a great weekend and thank you for your prayers for Travis and for Helen.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Travis is walking on his tall legs about 45 minutes a day, practicing the technique and building tolerance for the pressure on his limbs. Today he walked to the hospital from the CFI, which is across a large parking lot and up a slight incline. Hurray!

Roy Hyde, Travis's roommate from New Mexico Military Institute, came to visit last weekend from California and stayed through the week. I'm sure they've had some intense video game competition and found some good places to eat. How fun.

Have a great week.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, March 27, 2008

Oh, we enjoyed Travis being home. I wish Haley had been able to be here, too, but it is an election year so Chris is VERY busy. We always enjoy Ana, too. She is a good sport and attends all our family functions while she's here and never acts like we are the weirdest family she's ever seen.

Travis and I went to watch Lauren's golf tournament on Monday. My sister joined us. Travis lasted about 3 holes listening to Rhonda and I blab and then his dad came by and he said, "Hey, Pops, I think I'll ride with you." We couldn't believe it!

Did any of you watch the final episode of Celebrity Apprentice? Each of the celebrities was playing for charity, and the winner's charity was the Intrepid Fallen Heroes Fund. Toward the end of the show a clip was shown of the CFI, the facility and a few of the guys. It was great. One of the guys, Matthew Bradford, was stationed in Hawaii with Travis. They knew each other only slightly because Matthew was in Echo Co. and Travis was in Golf Co. Matthew was injured in Nov. before Travis was injured in Feb. and we met him and his family in Bethesda when we were there. When we arrived at the CFI in June, Matthew and his family had been there for a while and are still there. Matthew and his mom along with another wounded warrior from the CFI were flown to New York for the Apprentice finale; Matthew was the Marine in dress blues at the very end of the show. I don't know exactly how much money was given to the Fallen Heroes Fund because of the show, but it was at least $500,000. A huge amount. I went on the CFI's website and learned that since the year 2000, this fund has given out 20 million dollars to help our fallen heroes and their families. Thank you, America, for your generousity to help our injured Military!!! They have given so much for us!

Have a great day and count your many blessings, all given by God but many insured by the brave men and women in our armed forces.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, March 20, 2008

In the words of one of my favorite Easter hymns, CHRIST THE LORD IS RISEN TODAY, ALLELUIA!

Travis and Ana arrived in Deming Tuesday night. I'm sure they came early because he missed his mama! : ) Haley and Chris are not able to come. He is in politics, working for the Democratic party, and you probably know that this is a presidential election year and there is a lot going on in the Democratic corner. : )

Last Thursday Travis went to Haley's preschool with her. He said the little students (3 and 4 year olds, I think) looked him over as they entered the room and many ask, "Where are your feet?" He responded that he lost them in an accident, but he said he wanted to say, "I didn't eat my vegetables when I was little." !!!! We've all giggled at the thought of these little guys begging for vegetables at supper that night! : ) Haley said the students all took turns playing with Travis, he sat on the floor and played whatever little learning games they brought to him. At some point they had a circle time and discussed Travis' new legs. He told them about the computers in the knees and several students whispered to their neighbor that they wish they had computers in their knees. He also demonstrated his push-ups, the kind he does from a handstand position, which are pretty amazing even to us adults! The next day several moms came in the room with their child to talk to Haley and tell her that Travis was their child's only topic of conversation the entire evening.

In the Bible, the theme of the book of Daniel is 'There is a God in heaven'. And John tells us that God became a man and came to earth to dwell among us. He showed us how live, how to love our neighbor, help the poor, and honor our parents, to mention just a few. But in just this week alone He showed us how to walk with grace and trust when we are humiliated, beaten down, lied about, and even unjustly convicted of wrong doing. "PRAISE BE THE NAME OF GOD FOREVER AND EVER! WISDOM AND POWER ARE HIS." Dan 2:20

Glory be to the risen God,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Spring is in the air and the weather is beautiful in Deming. The colleges are having their spring breaks and that leads me to Travis. He is flying to Phoenix tomorrow morning (Thursday) where his sister, Haley, will pick him up at the airport. He is spending the day with her at the preschool where she works (she says the kids and teachers are excited to meet him) and Ana will come to Phoenix after her classes Thursday and join them. She never has class on Fridays so she gets a little headstart on her spring break. She and Travis are going to some river or lake (I had to ask, "in Phoenix?!?") to play for a few days. I don't know exactly where, a little north I think, but I'm sure they will have fun. Then next Thursday they will drive to Deming and spend the Easter weekend with us. Haley and Chris are coming, too, and we have time scheduled with both Nana & Papa and a big family party. It should be fun.

Yesterday (Tuesday) two local National Guardsmen arrived back home in Deming after a year in Iraq. Both wonderful young men, one of them a classmate of Travis's. It was so good to hug them and see them healthy and in one piece.

I hope you can really focus on the Lord during the coming Holy Week. May He bless you greatly with knowledge of Himself.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, March 6, 2008

Things are going well with Travis. He continues to practice daily on his tall legs with knees. No doubt it is hard, but I haven't heard him complain or whine. He continues to be positive and determined.

Casey's mom is continuing her recovery from surgery and is in the midst of the chemo therapy. The chemo has knocked her down some, she has lost weight (which she didn't have to lose) and lost energy, but she hasn't lost her determination or positive attitude, either.

This week I have had the priviledge of reading to several classes at the elementary where I taught. I chose a darling book about American soldiers in Japan about a year after the end of WWII as they entertain children on a school playground by doing tricks on a bicycle. I then showed pictures of Travis and we talked a little about Iraq and what Travis is doing now. They were very impressed with the surfing and scuba diving pictures. I ended by telling them that the lesson I want them to remember from Travis is that some horrible, tragic things may happen in their lives, but they can still choose to stay happy and live a wonderful life.

I hope we all remember that lesson, too.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, Feb. 29, 2008

I'M SORRY!! I forgot to write the update. Well, I didn't completely forget, I would think of it at 3:00 in the morning, but not think of it when you are actually supposed to be thinking of such things.

Travis is using crutches (the kind that reach to your forearms) and walking quite a lot. He has walked around the CFI and even gone outside on the sidewalk. He says it is hard but I know he is making progress.

Here's what's happening with Travis's eye. A hard contact was tried to see if it would correct his vision and it did not. Travis reports that surgery is scheduled for the last week of March to replace his cornea and "something about the lens." He couldn't remember exactly what was happening about the lens but I know the doctors in Palo Alto said a cataract would not be unusual.

Yesterday I commented on some tricks he can do on the flowrider (the surfing machine at the CFI). He said, "Oh, Mom, I can do so many more tricks than that now." So when I go for his eye surgery I'm going to go a few days early so I can see him in action.

My prayers are still that he walk with God and walk comfortably on this earth and that his vision be restored. Thanks for joining me in those.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Feb. 21, 2008

The website has been down, no fault of Courtney's. She paid the fee to renew the domain www.travisdodson.com but with confusion as can only be associated with a computer, it has taken this long for all the powers to be to realize what's happened and get us up and running again. I think she said she went ahead and paid for two more years so we should be running for a long time.

Travis is progressing on his legs. Wednesday, Feb. 13th, 365 days after his injury, he stood on tall legs with knees for the first time! He said he is about 6' tall on these legs, which is about 4 inches shorter than his original height, and the plan is to raise him up a little more as his skills improve. Casey arrived at the CFI late Friday night and spent the weekend with Travis. Travis must have mentioned his dad's visit to Mark, his physical therapist, because Mark said he would be at the CFI on Saturday so they went over and Travis put on his legs. Mark took some pictures so Travis could see himself standing beside his dad - we will get one posted soon. On Saturday Travis was walking between two parallel bars for balance but by Wednesday he was using two crutches and walking around the lobby of the CFI. Isn't that exciting? And we will always be able to remember when Travis got tall legs with knees!

On Friday morning, the day after Travis' Alive Day, Lauren and I were talking about one of the phone calls we received. She said, "I know, all my friends think we've done something amazing yet we've just done what we had to. But you know, Mom, something bad has really turned into something good. Look how close our family is because of this." Again we thank the Lord, and we thank you for lifting us up before the Lord.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Alive Day Thursday, Feb. 14, 2008

If you are seeing the old slide show, or cannot get the pictures at all - here are a few things to try:

• Refresh your page (Button at the top of your browser, or F5 on your keyboard)
• Make sure that the URL (the string of words in the address bar) is http://travisdodson.com/viewoneyear.html
• Visit the FAQ page
• If you are still having problems, email Courtney at tech@thedesignersweb.com

Steve Mraz, the Stars and Stripes reporter, emailed me today and said, "Seeing the condition Travis was in a year ago today, I never would have thought he would be leading the life he is now. Travis is not only surviving but thriving. It's an amazing story and a testament to God and the human spirit."

Several of our friends came to our house last year and I remember that we had a prayer time. Today one of the friends ask me if I remembered her prayer because one of the other friends had recently commented on it. It was that God would give Travis the will to live. Wow, has he ever. Not just to be satisfied with breathing, but to be alive and vibrant.

Yesterday Travis stood on tall legs for the first time. He said the knees have to be calibrated with his weight and gait, a rather long process. But what nice news for his mother to hear on his Alive Day! Casey flies to San Antonio tomorrow evening to spend the long weekend with Travis. If the weather is nice enough they will have a little golf/chucker fun on the course.

Haley sent us flowers with a note that quoted one of my favorite movies: "... daisys are such a happy flower." Travis was taken to lunch by the Master Sargeant and his wife and another friend. Lots of phone calls, lots of hugs and I know many prayers. So many people holding us up to the throne of God. And the Bible study lesson was just as good the second time around!

Praise God from whom all blessings flow!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Exactly 1 week until Feb. 14, 2008. The military has a name for the day you survive - it's called your Alive Day. As Travis' Alive day approaches I find myself thinking about it; wishing Daniel Morris had also survived - wondering how his mother is handling the anniversary, the coincidence that Travis' unit is returning to Iraq now, and the weird feeling that this year has crept by and yet flown by. I am so thankful for all the help we have received from all of you, from the Marines, from the government, from support organizations, from so many Americans. A year full of great blessings along with great tragedy.

I'm once again taking the Bible study that I feel so prepared me for all the unknown we would face with Travis' injuries. It is Daniel, Lives of Integrity Words of Prophecy by Beth Moore. In the introduction to the study she writes, "I didn't expect Daniel to become one of the most effective antidotes I've ever taken for fear. It shows God in control, absolutely sovereign, never shaken, and nothing can detour His plan for the ages." Amen. Our Bible study group meets on Thursday mornings, and I realized that next week, Feb. 14, we will study chapter 3. I've clung to that lesson for a year. It is the story of the fiery furnace and things to consider to help us come through our own fiery trial. Oh, isn't God good. Preparing me, and now reminding me of His love and His care through that preparation.

And I thank you for your love and care. I know many of you are in the midst of your own fiery trial, and I pray that you will see God as He walks through it with you.

God be with you.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Jan. 31, 2008

Travis is now a certified scuba diver. He and the 6 other guys who took scuba diving lessons at the Center for the Intrepid, along with the diving instructors and a couple of therapists drove to Balmorhea, Tx. to do the certification part of the class. Balmorhea is a 5 1/2 hour drive west from San Antonio on Interstate 10 and a 4 1/2 hour drive east from Deming. We met at 1:30 Tuesday afternoon, got situated, and ate dinner at the only restaurant in Balmorhea. On Wednesday morning the diving began in what is actually a gigantic swimming pool built by the CCC in the 1930's which is fed by an artisian spring. The crystal clear pool has areas 3, 5, 20, and 25 feet deep and a constant water temperature of 73 degrees. The weather was cold and windy, anyone standing outside wore a coat, but the water was delightful enough that I snorkled above the divers and watched the action below. There are several kinds of fish and turtles in the water and it was very entertaining to watch the divers feed them. One of the instructors had an underwater video camera and his friend, Jane, had a still camera so good photographs have been promised, along with permission to put them on the website. Diving took place all day Wednesday and again Thursday morning and we then pulled out about noon and headed home.

Travis reports that when he tried on his new socket it was "really comfortable" (that's what we're praying for!!) and he's hoping it will be a stubby or leg soon so he can get to walking.

I had a wonderful time at an amazing place with some incredible people, and just kept marveling to myself that his life is not dreary. Thank you, Lord, and thank you to those of you who are praying for him.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Jan. 24, 2008

TRAVIS HAS HIS NEW WHEELCHAIR! And it works perfectly with his crane!! How exciting!!! The wheelchair was delivered to the Master Sergeant (the retired Marine who has "adopted" Travis and is married to the Air Force chef) and he took it to Travis today. The Master Sergeant told me it had to be put together and I had visions of tiny parts and missing pieces, but Travis said it was not a problem, just the footrests had to be bolted on and a few other minor things like that. Any of you who have put together swing-sets can imagine what I was picturing!

Tomorrow Travis takes his written test for scuba diving and then goes to Balmorhea, TX next week for a scuba diving certification trip. Balmorhea is located halfway between Ft. Stockton and Van Horn, so he is actually getting pretty close to home. It is going to be a long drive but hopefully the diving will be worth it.

My mother-in-law is doing fantasticly well. She came home last Friday and is able to move all around the house easily and sleep in her own bed. The reports show that the cancer was contained and so a full recovery is anticipated. Hurray and thank you, Lord!

We just received a note from Major Matthews. He is now Lt. Col. Matthews. Congratulations!

Keep praying, but not just for us. So many people are dealing with heartache and hard times. Especially remember LCpl Morris's family as the year anniversary nears. My friend and neighbor just lost her son-in-law in March and now her husband passed away on Tuesday. She is especially concerned for her grandsons ages 3 and 7, and the lasting effects of these two losses. Prayers for these two little boys would be appreciated.

God be with you,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Jan. 17, 2008

Travis is enjoying the scuba diving class. He has been in full gear (I'm not sure if that is the proper term, sorry) and has worked on his bouyancy. He said he is just like anyone one else taking lessons and will be able to dive anywhere scuba diving is available. How exciting. He also reports that a new mold for a new socket on his left leg has been taken, Kirk thinks a better fit can be achieved. I'm so glad he is at the CFI where the specialists have the ability and option to try something else just because they think it will be better.

As you know, a new wheelchair has been ordered. I thought a wheelchair was a pretty standard item but I have learned that they are very specialized and just about every part of one has many options from which to choose. It not only takes a while to put it together, it takes a while for each part to arrive from the separate companies that make them. That's the long explaination to tell you that Travis' wheelchair has not yet been shipped, but we're hoping it will be soon. Ordinarily I would assume that it was the bureauocracy of the military, the VA, or an insurance company that was slowing it down, but this is a private purchase and so it just is as it is. This has been a good lesson for me and I will be a little slower in blaming delays on government red tape.

Casey's mom is doing very well after her surgery. The pathology report shows the cancer was contained and totally removed by the surgery. She is going home tomorrow (Friday). It will be several weeks before she is back to her old self but she is certainly looking great.

Thank you for your prayers and support.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday Jan. 10, 2008

On Sunday morning Travis and Ana headed off to San Antonio. She will visit a few days and then fly back. Travis is continuing his regular routine with PT, etc. and has started the classroom part of the scuba diving class. Other than that, I'm not getting too much information, but I do know they played miniature golf and he was the winner.

Casey's mom's surgery has gone well. The doctor removed a section of her lung and the lymph nodes and we will have a pathology report in a few days. She will spend a couple of days in intensive care and another week in a regular hospital room. Today in her room she asked Casey, "Did you know I made the website?" We all giggled. I need to remind her that her picture was on the site when Travis took his first wheelchair ride back in Bethesda. Golly, that was a long time ago, wasn't it?

Once again we have been surrounded by friends and loved ones offering us incredible support. God bless you all. Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday Jan. 3, 2008

HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Can you believe that it has been 8 years since we rang in 2000 and talked about Y2K.

In the Amplified Bible, John 10:10 says, "The thief comes only in order to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance (to the full, till it overflows)." I realize that an abundant life is full of the Lord, that it is full to overflowing with the Holy Spirit, but as Joyce Meyers so often states, the Lord wants us to enjoy our Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays... Oh, how we have seen that in Travis! One day his dad mentioned that he hasn't practiced on his stubbies the way he had planned. Travis response was, "I know, I'm having way too much fun." Monday, when he returns to the CFI, he will start a scuba diving class. Take some time with me to thank the Lord for answering our prayers that if He gave Travis life, then give it to him abundantly, for He certainly has! And please continue to pray that Travis walk with the Lord and walk comfortably on this earth.

As I posted earlier, a wheelchair has been ordered for Travis and should be delivered to his Marine friend in San Antonio Monday or Tuesday. While Travis has been home, there has been someone at each end of his driving to handle the chair. But when he is in San Antonio, he will usually drive up to the barracks by himself and thankfully the wheelchair to go with his crane should arrive and he will once again be independent.

Casey's mom is having major surgery on Wednesday to deal with a lung cancer that has been found. Once again we enter the front lines of the battle field and ask God that He be glorified through this situation and His will be done. Prayers for Helen, her husband (Pooch), and all involved would be appreciated.

We continue to praise God for the support He has given us and other wounded warriors through so many thousands of people. And may you be blessed this new year with the greatest blessing of all, a vibrant and growing relationship with the Almighty.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Update Friday, Dec. 28, 2007

Travis is having a great time with family and friends. He spends lots of time with us and his friends include him in everything they do. Michael Walsh, our friend from Annapolis, came to spend Christmas here in Deming with his parents, Mike and Barbara. He joined Casey and Travis for a round of Chucker golf and a couple of evenings playing games at our house. When he is around the fun multiplies.

Oh, I hope you are having a wonderful Christmas season. Our Christmas was so full of family, fun and food that I had to keep reminding myself that Christmas is really about so much more. The hustle and bustle can become such a distraction. Let's pause now and focus on the Lord, for His mercies are great and His love endures forever.

Happy New Year!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Dec. 20, 2007

None of you are going to believe what has happened to Travis here in Deming. As I think I have told you, he had a small crane, called a hoist, installed in the bed of his truck. When he wheels up to his truck, he transfers into the driver's seat, and then hooks the wheelchair to the hoist and it picks up the wheelchair and puts it in the bed of the truck. When he arrives at his destination, the hoist brings the wheelchair back to the drivers door and off he goes. He has a wheelchair that he is very comfortable sitting in, but the VA loaned him a second wheelchair that is more compatible with the hoist; just the right size and weight to be lifted into the bed of the truck easily. The hoist was installed just before Travis came home, and it provided a new level of independence. Luckily he brought both wheelchairs home with him for Christmas. Well, after having this new level of independence for 7 whole days, Travis and a friend went to a drive through car wash to wash his truck. Not wanting the wheelchair to get wet and soapy and not wanting his friend to freeze in the cold weather, Travis ask his friend to set the wheelchair just outside the car wash area. They went through the wash and drove around to pick up the wheelchair... BUT IT WAS GONE! Someone stole his wheelchair and disappeared with it in less than 4 minutes! Can you imagine?

But once again we have been greatly blessed through a negative situation. We have had phone calls from people all over the state expressing their outrage, and many people have offered to give Travis wheelchairs they own or donate money to buy a replacement, some have offered to set up fund raising to purchase a new one. It has been incredible. Travis, in his rather shy way, has graciously refused the help saying "Mom, people have already helped us so much." But today he was contacted by a women at our local hospital who was able to order the exact same chair that was stolen, so a wheelchair that is compatible with the hoist has been ordered.

At this time of year, most of us would say that we have been touched by the spirit of Christmas. But for the Dodson family it is so much more than that. We have experienced love, support, encouragement, and blessings beyond our imagination since February 14

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We still stand in amazement that so many, many people - all of you who are still reading and thousands more, not from just our hometown, but from across the nation - would take time out of your lives to help us. This is the story of the Good Samaritan personified. Everyone of you has your own story, your own disappointments or heartbreaks to deal with, but you have stopped by the side of the road to help us, your neighbor. You have taught us to be more loving, kind, and generous and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

May you have the most wonderful Christmas ever, filled with love, peace, and joy.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Dec. 14, 2007

Hello Everyone! Hope your Christmas season is wonderful and not too hectic. Needless to say, ours is great. We are enjoying Travis' visit tremendously. Haley and Chris, our newlyweds, are probably not coming here for Christmas. Like the Kindergarten children I taught, I guess I'm going to have to learn to share whether I like it or not.

Travis and Casey drove Travis' truck home for the holidays. He has a small crane in the bed which picks up his wheelchair, puts it in the bed, and then brings it back to the driver's door. He maneuvers easily and it is nice to see him so independent. He brought home his stubbies and is practicing on them. It is going to take a lot of practice and EXCELLENT balance, and so I remind you of my prayer request; that he walk with the Lord and walk comfortably on this earth. When I pray that prayer, I am always reminded that this earth is temporal and our condition here is for just a short time. Isn't it wonderful that God banished us from the Garden of Eden so we could not eat of the tree of life and have to live in this earthly state forever! Oh how gracious and merciful is our God, the Lord God Almighty. And He had already worked out a plan of redemption! What hope we have in the Lord Jesus Christ.

Travis is also working on his balance by sitting on an exercise ball and playing catch with me, working out at the local rehab center, and riding an arm bike for about an hour at a time. We have played lots of games (we are a game playing family), challenged Travis on his Wii, and watched Lauren play basketball. All in all it is very normal holiday season and that makes it especially great.

Oh, by the way, the Stars and Stripes newspaper arrived (thank you, Ann) and Travis was pictured in a big article about the Center for the Intrepid. Because it is an army hospital, the photographer assumed he was a corporal in the army, so we all teased him about that. But the article was right on about the CFI being a state of the art facility where our guys are getting the best therapy and amputee research is progressing at an amazing rate. I know the changes during Travis' lifetime are going to be great and there is no telling what new technology will be developed to help him even more.

Thank you for your cards, letters, and e-mails. Everyday I am amazed at the postmarks on the mail in my mailbox and in-box.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, Dec. 6, 2007

Just got back from dropping Casey off at the airport. He and his dad, Pooch, (yes, that is really the name he prefers, as a matter of fact that is the name he used on our wedding announcements!) flew to San Antonio this evening where they are going to spend the day with Travis and then help him drive his truck home Saturday for a long Christmas break. Pooch is really interested in Travis' rehab and this was the perfect time for him to take a tour of the CFI, check out the barracks, and see Travis in action at PT tomorrow. I think Travis is going to work on the flow rider (the wave pool activity) and probably show his grandfather how he works on the ball, climbs the wall, and tries to walk. I have given instructions for Casey to take pictures, but he doesn't always mind me.

Yesterday Travis reported that - you are NOT going to believe this!- he went 20 miles on the stationary hand bike and then immediately got in the pool and swam 1 mile. Is the boy in shape or what!?!

I'm not exactly sure where we are on the legs. I know that a stubby was made with a suction socket for his left leg, the disarticulated hip side, but the suction was not holding well and so they are making a "hip bucket"- the kind that straps on. I don't know exactly where we are in that process. He has said he is bringing home his stubbies for Christmas (the suction ones) so that he can use his Segway. Lauren and I are excited to try that Segway and it will be fun to see him standing and cute to see him so short. (Ok, don't tell my Marine I used the word "cute" to describe him and he's such a big man, I'm not sure you can ever really call him "short".)

Tonight we received an e-mail from Ann Shields, one of the nurses in the ICU in Germany. She has kept up with Travis via the website and reports that all the ICU people are cheering him on. She also reports that Travis was pictured in a recent issue of Stars and Stripes. The only thing I can think of is that it is perhaps a picture of him in Hawaii receiving his Purple Heart. Ann is sending me a copy of the paper so I'll report when I know more, but how wonderful that the wonderful people who have helped him along the way can see the results of their great care.

Do you ever just sit back in amazement of God and how He encourages and cares for you? That's where I am this evening. May His name be praised forever!

My love to all of you and may you see His hand in your life.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, November 29, 2007

Not much to report from San Antonio. Travis says "Same ol', same ol'."

Love,
Love, Cheryl Kae (at home), Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thanksgiving Day, Nov. 22, 2007

What a wonderful thanksgiving!!!!! Our house and our hearts are full and we praise God who would care so much for a little family in Deming, New Mexico. We had a large family gathering at my brother's house and then returned home and spent the evening playing games with Travis, Ana, Haley, Chris, and Lauren. Casey and I marveled at the blessings the Lord has poured upon us and the joy He has given our family. The remodeling is perfect and Travis is finding it easy to maneuver around the house. What a life!!

The chuckers have been found, ordered and arrived. Thank you for your help. Sunday at chuch one of our friends gave us a website and phone number, I called it, and the chuckers arrived Wednesday afternoon. Of course everyone had to give it a try right after dinner. My brother lives in a rural area and it was safe chucking golf balls out into the field. Casey and Travis look forward to a round out on the golf course. Travis is talking trash, sure he can beat his dad. Casey is just as certain he cannot. What a joy to hear!

Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Take time to praise the God who cares so much for you.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey and our houseful of kids!

Thursday, Nov. 15, 2007

Thanksgiving is right around the corner and we're excited. We have so much to be thankful for, as well you know. Travis, Haley, and Chris will all be home for Thanksgiving. Travis is flying into Phoenix, spending the night with Haley and Chris, and then riding home with Ana. I'm excited to have a houseful. It is especially exciting because our house has just been remodeled to fit Travis' needs. We now have concrete ramps leading up to the porch and a bathroom that he can use! We knocked out a wall between two small bedrooms and made one larger room that has plenty of space in which his wheelchair can move around. We are so thankful that we live in Deming and so many people have been willing to help us! We just can't say thank you enough to all our friends and neighbors and all of you who have prayed for us and supported us. You are gracious and generous, and I ask God again to multiply your blessings and pour them back upon you!

With love for you overflowing from our hearts,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

PS When Travis went on his surfing trip, he also went to a golf course. He messed around with something called a "chucker". It looks much like a golf club and he said you use it to throw a golf ball down the fairway. There is a picture of him using it on the website, I actually thought he was frustrated and throwing a club but he said that is the chucker. Travis and Casey are wanting to find some so they can play with them during Christmas but I can't find anything about them. I've looked on the internet but only find some discs called chuckers that you toss at a board. If any of you out there know anything about the golf ball throwing chuckers, we'd appreciate you passing on the info. Just e-mail the webmaster and she will forward your message to us.

Have a great and thankful Thanksgiving!
CK

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Travis called on Saturday and ask if I was still coming to visit for the week (we had talked about it earlier). He said he would really appreciate my help with several things he had going. I felt very torn because we are in the middle of the remodeling project to make his bedroom and bathroom handicapped accessible and I might be needed to make a decision of some sort. So while I'm moaning about my dilemma, Haley calls from Phoenix and ends up offering to go help Travis. Well, you are not going to believe what I missed by not going to San Antonio! On Tuesday he was given a Segway. (You might have seen security people or Police Officers on Segways at airports or shopping malls.) First he had to be trained to use it, and because Haley was with him she was trained and got to ride one, too. They took a trip around the River Walk - can't you just picture how cool it was to see this parade of amputees riding around on Segways! Then today (Thursday) when he went to physical therapy there was security everywhere because President Bush was visiting the Center for the Intrepid!!! Haley wasn't allowed in the building (surely they would have allowed a mother in) but Travis got a good look at the President, although he didn't stand in line to actually shake his hand. And Haley was riding around the area on Travis' Segway just for something to do and she did see the President get into his car and he waved to her as he went by. I missed all this excitement and was not needed for one single decision about anything to do with the remodeling. Oh well.

Hope your week has been exciting.
Love, Cheryl Kae (at home), Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley (IN SAN ANTONIO!) & Chris

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Travis has walked on two stubbies! He called Wednesday and said both stubbies have been made and he has taken a few steps using a walker for support. Someone took pictures and I hope to get copies to post on the website. Yesterday he was also promoted to Corporal. In the Marines, time and achievement move you up in the ranks, so Travis has made corporal which is significant because he can now wear the blood stripe (the red stripe) on his blue dress pants. There are other privileges as well, but the stripe is very significant. So congratulations to Travis!

My prayer continues to be for Travis to walk with the Lord and walk comfortably on this earth. The Lord has been so gracious thus far and I pray that his mercy and grace continues in Travis' life.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, October 25, 2007

New pictures have been posted!

You can now see Travis surfing during his California trip and snorkeling and having fun with his buddies in Hawaii. As any golfer will tell you, golf is a difficult game. Enjoy the pictures of Travis giving it a try from his chair.. I hope Lt. Steele is excited, his picture is included from the medal ceremony. And many of you have asked about Ana, she's in the slide show, too. Ethan is Joseph and Caitlin Poquiz's baby, Travis' god son. A HUGE THANK YOU goes with the pictures of the truck. I have no way of knowing who made donations to help with the purchase of his truck, no individual records were kept. But we again say "thank you" from the bottom of our hearts.

This week Travis has stood on two stubbies. He said it felt "pretty good." He did not try to walk, they were just checking to see if the sockets were comfortable. Next week I think he will try a few steps. I hope someone takes pictures. He also had an ophthalmology appointment. All the stitches have been removed from his eye and his vision seems about the same to him. He has another appointment on Friday Nov. 2 and I asked him to ask about trying a contact to improve his vision.

This weekend Travis' friend Riley is due in from Iraq so Travis is flying to Camp Pendleton to be part of the Welcome Home party. Thankfully he is coming home safe and sound and I know Travis wants to see that with his own eyes. Riley hasn't seen Travis since early March in Bethesda so I know he will be happy to see the energy and life in Travis. It will be a good reunion..

Our love to all of you and hope you enjoy the pictures,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, October 18, 2007

TRAVIS IS DRIVING HIS TRUCK! He picked it up on Monday when he got back from Hawaii. He has had a piece of shrapnel removed from his hip side and will hopefully be working on two legs soon. We had such a great time in Hawaii. In the days right before we left, we heard that some overnight trainings had been scheduled during the week and Major Matthews was going to be in the Phillipines. It was impossible to change our plans and so I headed to Hawaii just a little sad that Travis wasn't going to be able to spend as much time with his buddies as he had hoped and I was not going to be able to see Major Matthews. But God gave us the desires of our hearts. The night before we left I received an email from Major Matthews saying his trip had been delayed and he would indeed be in Hawaii, and the overnight training scheduled for the middle of the week was cancelled so Travis spent every evening except Saturday with his buddies. I was so touched that God would continue to be so gracious to us. On Thursday evening my friend Cyrilee suggested that if I wanted to see the USS Arizona that I leave by hotel between 5:45 and 6:00 am. Since I was picking Travis up at the base every evening about midnight I was a little concerned about my health so I decided not to set my alarm. My eyes opened and I was wide awake at 5:45 so I hopped in the car and drove to see the Arizona. I was early enough to be in the first group and back at the hotel at 10:30, just about the time Travis was waking up. We ate, did a little shopping, took a little nap, and then I took him back to the base and I went to meet the Matthews at the Luau. Keven and Dee Matthews have a darling little 2 year old girl named Emily and the Luau was a great place for us to be able to visit and Emily to be able to play. I had so many questions for poor Major Matthews after the Luau that we had to be asked to leave the parking lot so the gates could be locked. If Travis hadn't called the second time and said, "Mom, please, would you come and get me now" we might still be at the Matthew's house talking. Saturday we caught up on sleep and I did some sight seeing of the historic sights along Waikiki then we headed home on Sunday. My prayer continues to be that Travis walk with the Lord and walk comfortably on this earth. Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Travis

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Hawaii is wonderful. And there is one thing I'm learning - how to get back and forth from Waikiki to the Marine Base at Kaneohi Bay! We arrived Monday at noon and were greeted by two Marintes and their families - SSgt. Tardiff and Corp. Herman. We had lunch and then drove to our hotel. By then Travis' phone was ringing continually so we headed to the base. It was a great scene watching his buddies pass the word "Dodson's here!" and come to greet him. They literally carried him up the stairs of the barracks, made sure I met everyone, and then the party began. I returned to the hotel and tried to catch up on my sleep.

Tuesday a BBQ was held at the Tardiff's house in honor of Travis. Joanna Tardiff has my vote for "Marine Wife of the Year." Spotless house, 3 darling kids, magnificent spread of food, including homemade lumpias (similar to taquitos) and a platter of 175 homemade brownies. She was a grand hostess plus a big sister to lots of Marines Travis' age. We had a great time.

Wednesday a purple heart ceremony was held for all of Golf Co. to hear the events surrounding Travis' injuries. Joseph Poquiz was recognized and awarded a medal for ignoring his own injuries and saving Travis' life. It was very moving, right in front of the Marine Memorial by the front gate.

Thursday Travis and I went snorkeling in Hanauma Bay. We enjoyed it, but I realized I don't really want to know what is down by my toes when I swim.

After our afternoon nap, Travis is back with his buddies on base and I had a delightful dinner with my high school friend, Cyrilee Farmer Billings and her husband, Tim. Tomorrow I'm joining Major Matthew and his family at one of the local luaus.(They are sweet enough to do the tourist thing with me). No doubt Travis will be back at the Marine Base, but that's the reason we're here.

I've had a couple of good chuckles about the website - during the BBQ Joanna Tardiff invited me to use their computer on Thursday because she knew I needed to write my update. And when I ask Lt. Steele if I could take his picture with Travis after the Purple Heart ceremony, he announced to everyone that he "might make the website." I also ask Ana if I could post a picture I have of she and Travis and her response was "yes, I've been wondering when I would make the website."

When I get home I'll send Courtney some updated pictures. I know we all want to see Travis surfing and now you can see him snorkeling, too. God bless you all.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis in Hawaii

Thursday, October 4, 2007

Travis and I are getting ready to say "Aloha" to all his Marine buddies in Hawaii! I am going to Phoenix early Saturday to spend the weekend with Haley. I will meet Travis at the Phoenix airport Monday morning and then we will catch our flight to Hawaii. Travis' buddies are excited, too. I think they have every minute they can be with Travis all planned out. I have called Hanauma Bay and they said they are very handicapped accessible so Travis and I hope to do some snorkeling in between visits with his friends. It is really going to be great.

I asked Travis if he has any surfing pictures yet. He said yes, he has a CD of pictures but, can you believe this, he sent it to Ana first. :) Hopefully it will be our turn to see them soon.

A piece of schrapnel is working its way to the surface on Travis' little leg. The orthopedic doctors are going to make a little cut and remove it when Travis gets back from Hawaii and then he will be able to go forward with the fitting of his second leg.

My prayer for him continues to be that he walk with God and walk comfortably on this earth. We will be in Hawaii this week but I will try to find a computer to write the Thursday update. Thank you for caring, reading, and praying,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley and Chris

Thursday, September 27, 2007

Sunday Travis flew to Pismo Beach, California for a surfing trip with an organization called Operation Comfort. I praise God and thank Him for His graciousness and for the generosity of the American people who donate their time and money to make these trips possible for our wounded warriors.

When Travis was first injured I prayed to God that His will be done. I told Him I would accept whatever His decision was about Travis' life. But I also told Him that I knew He wanted to give us our heart's desire whenever possible and that my heart's desire was to have my son live. But I also ask that if Travis' life was going to be misery, then take him now, and if the Lord was going to breathe life into him, then let it be abundant life. And today Travis, a man who lost both his legs, is surfing!

We praise you, Lord, for continuing to answer our prayers. For the life you have given Travis and for all the possibilities you are showing him. May he grow to be an Oak of Righteousness, producing fruit and displaying your glory. Continue to teach him to walk in your ways and allow him to walk comfortably in this world. In Jesus name we pray. Amen

The next update will be Thursday, Oct. 4th and we leave for Hawaii on Monday, Oct. 8th. Thank you for your prayers and your love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Lots of great happenings with Travis this week.

HAWAII: I received a call from a case worker stating that Travis' trip to Hawaii has been approved and the paperwork is now going through the system. She expects us to get an official call on Friday or Monday. HOW EXCITING!!

SURFING TRIP: Travis is going on a surfing trip to Pismo Beach, California. He signed up for it quite a while ago, but I hadn't mentioned it to anyone because his surgery was taking longer than I had expected to heal. He saw the surgeons on Tuesday, they do not need to see him again and released him for all activities. So he is leaving Sunday for California! He had tried a little surfing while he was stationed in Hawaii and really enjoyed it and I hope he enjoys it again. I'm not exactly sure which group is sponsoring this trip, but thanks to many generous Americans, our Wounded Warriors have the opportunity to go on many trips like this. Some of the activities are surfing, snow skiing, kayaking, deep sea fishing, big game hunting, and golfing. While playing in the Deming Invitational Golf Tournament this summer, Casey met one of the men who helps with a deer hunt scheduled for November. I hope Travis enjoys the surfing trip so much that he wants to go deer hunting. I think he will meet some incredible people and gain a lot of confidence about his ability to live with a handicap.

PHYSICAL THERAPY: Travis went swimming on Wednesday and played in the wave pool on Thursday. He has been looking forward to the water since arriving at CFI, but he couldn't get in the pools because of his colostomy. Now with the reversal healed he is good to go and enjoying himself very much.

HIS SECOND LEG: He tried on the socket for his second leg Tuesday. It was not comfortable so the prostesist is bending and stretching it. He tries it on again tomorrow (Friday).

OPHTHALMOLOGY: Two more stitches were removed from his cornea and his next appt. is October 24th. He says his vision is the same.

WHEELCHAIR: He has received his new wheelchair. In typical male fashion he said he likes it, it has wheels, and it gets him around. I think he plans to use his old chair whenever he flies because airline travel is harder on a wheelchair than you would expect.

TRUCK: Progress is being made on the truck; work orders have been placed for the adaptive equipment but the wheels of bureaucracy turn slowly. Hopefully he will be driving soon.

Travis continues to do very well. I thank God constantly for his attitude and the encouragement from all you wonderful people. Thank you for your prayers, cards, e-mails, and phone calls. I have received many e-mails through the webmaster, one from someone offering to help with our Hawaii trip and giving me her phone number. When I looked up the area code, Casey and I couldn't believe that someone from Illinois was still reading the website! Then today I received an e-mail from Major Matthews' mother-in-law encouraging us and wishing Travis continued success with his rehab. I had honestly figured the only die-hards still reading were probably our close friends and family. Oh how I wish I could meet you all. You have touched my heart in an incredible way.

Have a wonderful weekend. I'll write next Thursday, hopefully reporting on a fantastic surfing trip.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, September 16, 2007

Quite a few things have happened this week.

TRAVIS MET JONI EARECKSON TADA: On Saturday I reminded Travis to check around the CFI for information about Joni's visit. He said he wasn't going to, he wasn't going to meet her. Stunned, I said, OK, you are 21 so obviously you can make these decisions. On Monday afternoon he called for another reason and added at the end of the conversation, "I met that woman." I had to ask "which woman?" He said, "Joni, I'll tell you about it later, I've got to go to PT." He did call back later Monday evening and explained that he was in his room and the Marines called from the Liaison office at the hospital and said Joni Eareckson Tada was at the Fisher House and wanted to meet him. So he went over there, and since Travis is a male I will probably never know in detail what happened or was said, but he did visit with her. She signed a devotional book for him and she said to tell his mother, Randy, and all the people at his church that she said hello.

REPORT FROM SURGERY: The surgeons continue to be pleased with his incision. Remember that they had taken out two stitches to allow it do drain, and they have now removed all the stitches and only a small opening remains.

HIS 2ND LEG: Wednesday he went to clinic, where all the therapists and clinicians meet with him to discuss as a group all plans and progress. Because Travis has a disarticulated hip, which means he has no femor, on the left side it has been planned to make a casing which will strap around his waist and hips to provide support for the leg. Travis has never been excited about that, but resigned himself to what had to be. During clinic, it was discussed that Travis has a lot of control over movement in his residual tissue and so they are going to try a regular leg which means it will suction on to his little residual leg instead of being strapped on. He is very excited and I told him we would certainly pray that he have enough strength in that little leg to move the prosthetic leg and enough tissue to keep it on. His little leg will be cast next week and then the leg made.

NEW WHEELCHAIR: His new wheelchair is in and our friend Kyle Stevens is going to take Travis to the VA on Friday afternoon to pick it up. They will also check on the progess of the paperwork for the truck.

HAWAII: When Travis' unit returned from Iraq, those Wounded in Action were invited to Hawaii to welcome their buddies home. Because Travis was bedridden at the time in Palo Alto, we had to decline the invitation. We have now had several phone calls from Marines in Hawaii telling us they are trying to arrange for Travis to go to Hawaii in October to see his company between trainings and before they deploy for Iraq in January. And he's going to take his mother with him!!

I continue to be amazed at how God is working in our lives, especially the hope that Travis' short leg will accept a regular prosthetic leg. Please continue to help me pray that Travis will walk again, and walk comfortably. And that great wisdom will be given to the prosthetists and great strength will continue to be given to Travis.

We praise you, Lord, for all you have already done; that Travis met your servant, Joni, and that you are taking care of all his needs. We thank you for the legs which you are about to give him and the independence that you are providing. May You be glorified forever and ever through this situation. Amen.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Travis had a wonderful Labor Day weekend. He flew to Tucson to see Ana and she then brought him to Deming on Friday. He saw his grandparents and watched Lauren play volleyball, then went he and Ana went to Las Cruces (the next town) to spend the rest of the weekend with friends. We picked him up on Monday afternoon and took him to the airport in El Paso as Ana headed back to Tucson. The apartment he stayed in while in Las Cruces is a townhouse style apartment. When we arrived around noon on Monday he was taking a shower. I didn't think much of it until one of his friends carried him downstairs because the bathroom is on the 2nd floor. Another friend was right behind with his wheelchair. Travis said later, "My friends take such good care of me." I wonder, if Jesus were in town, would they carry Travis to the roof and let him down? (Mark 2:1-5) I was filled with love for his friends as I watched them all love Travis with such care and yet treat him just like they always did, even doing some wrestling. He was proud of the fact that he kicked one of the guys in the face with his little leg.

Tuesday morning Travis was seen by the surgeons. His incision showed signs of just starting to be infected so they opened up two stitches right in the center and stuffed in a little gauze do draw out the infection. He changes the gauze twice a day and sees the doctors on Friday morning.

Travis has called the place where the driving adaptations will be done and of course there is more paperwork to do. Since I am not there to run errands, he is at the mercy of a fax machine. One carbon copy is not faxing well so he is going to have to mail it. But no doubt it will all be done soon.

I have seen my doctors and talked with my friend, Kelly, who is a doctor in Dallas. All have said just keep taking those afternoon naps and relaxing and I will recover. Haley is coming to visit this weekend so the mama bird will enjoy having her little chick home.

Joni Eareckson Tada is in San Antonio Sunday evening at Max Lucado's church and Monday afternoon at the Fisher Houses and Center for the Intrepid. I know God has something in mind so help me pray that Travis doesn't miss her, or Him.

Thank you for your love and prayers. I can't believe the friends in town who have commented on the website, still reading and caring. I am filled with love for you all, too, because you have carried my entire family to the feet of Jesus.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

PS The next update will be written Thursday, Sept. 13 and posted Friday, Sept. 14.

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Travis passed his driving test today, although he said it is much more difficult to drive with hand controls than you would think. Kerry, the instructor, had him in a van for a hour, driving around parking lots and on San Antonio freeways. But he did pass and now it is legal to have hand controls installed in his new truck so I'm sure that will be a priority upon his return to San Antonio.

Tonight he is safely in Tucson with Ana and I am safely home with Casey and Lauren. Tomorrow will be my first day to send Casey and Lauren off to school while I stay home. Casey is already whining about it!

I'll write the next update Thursday, Sept. 6. Look for it to be posted Friday, Sept. 7.
Love, Cheryl Kae

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

General Surgery continues to be pleased with the progress of the incision and stiched it up today. They will see him first thing Tuesday morning to access it after the Labor Day Weekend. He took a long nap today and does not see to be in any pain this evening.. Tomorrow morning at 9:00 he takes the on-road driving test for his hand control certificate and can then have his truck taken for the hand controls to be put in. I ran into Kirk the prostisist (makes the legs) and he said as soon as Travis is able he will cast and make the second stubby. I made him promise to take another picture! I know you will all cheer with us when Travis is standing on two legs, even if they are short.

We both fly out tomorrow afternoon. Travis to visit his friends and Ana for the weekend and me to return home. I'm thrilled to be going home but it is bittersweet to leave Travis. Thankfully he is well enough for me to leave him, but after 6 1/2 months it is hard. I'm looking forward to finally visiting Haley and Chris in Phoenix and seeing their apartment and Lauren plays volleyball Thursday night, marches in the band Friday night, and plays volleyball again on Saturday. I'm going to have to work hard to get my afternoon naps in! :-)

PRAYER REQUESTS: Prayer requests are Travis's stamina in his wheelchair and my readjustment back home (and Casey and Lauren's adjustment to having me home).

FUTURE UPDATES: I'll write an update tomorrow (THURSDAY, AUG. 30, 2007) and let you know the outcome of the driving test. After that, my next posting will be for THURSDAY, SEPT. 6, 2007 and Courtney will post it on Friday morning. I will try to send Courtney a posting every Thursday evening for her to post on Friday morning. That way those of you who need to use your work computer can check the website during lunch on Friday and those of you who read it at home can check it over the weekend.

With much love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Monday, August 27, 2007

Things are going well. Travis has an appointment with General Surgery tomorrow, I'll let you know what they say.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Sunday, August 26, 2007

Travis and I went to the grocery store in his truck today, and as we were driving he talked about his vision. He said he has good peripheral vision out of his bad eye, and he has pretty good distance vision. He can read bill boards pretty well and although he can't read the print on road signs, he can see the signs, and he has no problem seeing cars. He ended by saying, "God gave me my vision back, didn't He."

Praise God for the much improved vision and that Travis could see God's hand in it!
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Saturday, August 25, 2007

Travis says "absolutely nothing happened today, Mom." He continues to improve and move more easily.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Friday, August 24, 2007

Travis had a follow-up at general surgery today and the doctors are really pleased with how well he is healing. His wound, which I had referred to as a gaping hole, is now much shallower in depth and the sides have closed in quite a lot so it is definitely smaller than it was and all the tissue is "beefy red" showing that any infection that might still be there is on the run. That's probably more information than many of you wanted, but I think it is fascinating and I'm glad I'm the parent who has been with Travis through all this medical wonder.

Thank you for your prayers and your concern.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Thursday, August 23, 2007

From Travis:

I would like to thank all the people who have been involved with or donated to my truck fund. It has been such a blessing to have you give me the gift of independence by helping me purchase my new truck. I would like to add a special thanks to Shane Shores who organized and set up the account along with many fund raisers. Thank you so much Shane. It is a wonderful gift you have given me and I can't wait to drive it home and let everyone see it. Again, thank you so much to all of you who have donated. The truck is great! With love and many thanks,
Travis

From Cheryl Kae

TRAVIS HAS HIS NEW TRUCK! It is simply unbelievable to me what you have done for Travis. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Before he bought his truck, we were making plans for my leaving and I reminded him of the friends we have in San Antonio who would be glad to pick him up and take him where he needed to go. His reply to me was, "Mom, I don't want to have to ask someone to take me to the store and stuff. That's just not what I want, I don't want to bother people." And now, because of your wonderful generosity he doesn't have to, he once again feels capable and strong. Wednesday, Aug. 29 Travis will have his driver's evaluation at the VA for the use of hand controls and then the hand controls will then be installed. I can't thank you enough for how you have helped Travis emotionally.

May God bless you all many times over!!
Love, Cheryl Kae

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

The doctors were very pleased with Travis's improvement. His wound looked better and they are happy with his activity level. They are continuing with the wound-vac therapy and we see them again on Friday and then the next Tuesday.

Not much else to report, "talk" to you again tomorrow evening.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Monday, August 20, 2007

Travis is moving much more today. He went to PT at 2:00 and did some light arm bike and sat up by himself several times on his chaise, so those abs. are feeling better! He has an appt. tomorrow with the surgery team and I know Dr. Martin will be pleased.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Sunday, August 19, 2007

We've had a great day! Travis said he was able to turn on his side for part of the night. That is positive for two reasons: he was able to endure the pain to turn on his side and it gave a little relief to the pressure points on which he has been laying. I've ask him if he feels any pressure points starting to be sore and he has said no, but changing positions is great. He is still talking about going to PT on Monday and using the arm bike lightly for 15-20 min. He must be feeling better.

Two of my oldest and dearest friends came to see us today. Rick and Debbie Reiss are in San Antonio visiting their daughter and son-in-law and all 4 of them dropped by. We had a great time catching up and remembering the fun we had together growing up. Their son-in-law, Chris, is in the Army Reserves and spent time in Iraq so we had that connection, too. It was wonderful.

My great day really started at church with a message that spoke right to me. Before Travis was injured, our Sunday School class had studied the book of Daniel using Beth Moore's study of Daniel. Her insight and teaching on Daniel 3 concerning Shadrach, Meshack, Abednego and the fiery furnace is one of the lessons I have clung to during this ordeal. I feel God had us do that study just to help prepare Casey and me for the fire we would have to help Travis walk through. Today at church the chaplain preached on faith, and the fiery furnace was one of his examples. He said, "True faith...genuine faith...requires that we respond in hope and confidence that God is working on our behalf even when the difficulties we are facing in life appear to deny it. We can't help but believe that God has a purpose in allowing the pain and pressure we have to endure." In Daniel 3, after the king threatens to throw Shadrach, Meshack, and Abednego into the fiery furnace because they would not bow down to his idol, they say "The God we serve is able to save us from (the burning fiery furnace), and He will rescue us from your hand, O king. But even if he does not, we want you to know, O King, that we will not serve your god or worship your image of gold you have set up." (Daniel 3:17-18, emphasis mine) My (hopefully) true faith, genuine faith says that I trust Him enough to believe He is working on our behalf and to accomplish His purposes in the world even if He chooses to not "fix" our immediate problems.

I pray that God refine all our faith, yours and mine, to make it true and genuine and help our unbelief. (Mark 9:24)
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Saturday, August 18, 2007

We spent the day (the part we were awake, anyway) watching movies. I am feeling better than I have in a very long, although I wasn't aware that I was feeling poorly. I think the rest is good for me so, who knows, maybe God slowed Travis down so that I would slow down. Travis is talking about reporting to PT on Monday, just to check in. I'll let you know if he does. He is feeling good, just can't use those abdominal muscles and no doubt they are going to start feeling better soon, too.

Thank you for you concern and your prayers.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Friday, August 17, 2007

The doctors seem a little concerned about Travis and his pain level from surgery and his lack of movement, but I think they also don't know how a young man with no legs is supposed to feel when he has to use his abdominal muscles for every little movement he makes. Travis is not running a fever and all other signs of problems are negative. A "wound vac" has been inserted into the skin where the surgery was done to help stimulate tissue growth. A wound vac was used on his legs while he was at Bethesda. It is, essentially, a sponge inserted into the skin area of the open wound to which a suction tube is attached. The doctors said it is amazing technology which will help the area rid itself of infection and grow new cells at a faster rate. We do back to the clinic on Tuesday.

The rain yesterday was amazing. We couldn't believe how hard it was and how long it lasted. I was in the barracks and the computer was in the Guest House and I wasn't willing to get soaked. Hope no one minded.

I'm sure you have already joined me in praying for God's healing hand to touch Travis and I thank you for that.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

I'm becoming a believer in afternoon naps, I feel so much better when I take one. Today Travis went to General Surgery to have his incision looked at. I had him go a day early because I wasn't sure everything was ok. It turns out his incision was infected so Dr. Martin opened part of it up and let it drain. He packed it with some type of gauze, showed Travis how to change the packing twice a day, and told Travis to come to the surgery clinic Thurs., Fri., and Monday to have it checked. It reminded me of the "power washings" on his legs while he was at Bethesda because Dr. Martin also told him to use the hand-held shower head to wash out the dead and infected tissue. Travis and I returned to the barracks, ate lunch, and both took a very refreshing nap. The naps reminded me of a card my sister-in-law gave my father-in-law a few years ago; "It's your birthday, celebrate, go wild... take TWO naps today!" Maybe that's how I'll celebrate my retirement.

Hope you can be refreshed in some way today,
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Going to the VA was physically harder than Travis and I thought it would be. Without legs, all of his movement involves his abdominal muscles even more, so transfering back and forth to the car was quite difficult. We did meet with the woman in charge of driver certification and got a lot of information about the process of buying a vehicle and the VA's involvement with that process. Travis did not do the actual driving part today, he will call her when he is feeling better and schedule it, but he can now purchase a vehicle whenever he is ready and the adaptive equipment will be put on as soon as he takes the test. Travis and I both talked about how much better we felt on the days we just sat around his room, so that is what we are focusing on for tomorrow. He is supposed to go to "clinic" (a meeting with all the members of his team) tomorrow at the CFI, but we'll see how he feels tomorrow, then he has a follow-up with surgery on Thursday. His discharge instructions from the hospital said no heavy lifting for 4 weeks so he is going to be down for a while.

Love to all of you,
Cheryl Kae and Travis

Monday, August 13, 2007

Hmm, this surgery was more than I expected. Travis is still on his chaise lounge but could move a little bit better than yesterday. He has an appointment at the VA tomorrow to do the paperwork for his driving certificate. He said he'll decide tomorrow morning whether or not he wants to try to transfer into the car to drive over there. Not much else to report, I'll let you know about the driving test in tomorrow's update.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Sunday, August 12, 2007

Travis is still lounging on his chaise, alternating between sleep and watching TV. Part of the sleeping is, of course, the pain medications, but I'm sure it is a relief for him to sleep and not use his abs.

I have a God story to share, I hope I can write it and make it understandable to all of you. In early March our good friend, Randy Bruggink, contacted Joni Eareckson Tada, Christian author and advocate for the disabled, through her website. The summer she graduated from high school she broke her neck in a diving accident and as a result has been a quadriplegic for about 40 years. Randy said he received an automated e-mail from her foundation (Joni and Friends) days later that said Joni would be responding to his e-mail soon but nothing came. He finally received a package from her dated July 30 and she apologized for not responding sooner, but explained that her foundation had moved to a new office and his e-mail had gotten lost in the move. When it was found, she sent the package to Randy which included her new book, a memoir of her life with a personal note written in the front to Travis, a letter to Randy, and also a letter to Travis thanking him for his service and letting him know she understands something of his situation and encouraging him in his life. The God part is, as I told Randy the day he gave me the package for Travis, if Travis had received this in March, she would just be another "celebrity" thanking him for his service, BUT SHE IS COMING TO SAN ANTONIO IN SEPTEMBER AND, IF I UNDERSTAND CORRECTLY, INCLUDING THE CENTER FOR THE INTREPID IN HER SCHEDULE! I hope that Travis hears her speak, that he hears God speak through her, and that perhaps they will even meet face to face, chair to chair.

Isn't it fun to watch God at work? He is at work in your life, too. I'll join you in prayer that He will open your eyes to see the miracles.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Saturday, August 11, 2007

Travis was released from the hospital just before lunch. His abdominal muscles are very sore and so it was quite painful for him to try to transfer from the bed to his wheelchair, and it was very painful for his mother to watch. But he did it, and I wheeled him (he let me push) to the barracks. He is now lying on his chaise and visiting with his friend and old roommate Roy Hyde. I did a Sonic run for supper and am now reading a book in my room at the Guest House (an army hotel set up for families). When Roy leaves, I'll go back to the barracks and probably camp out on the bed because Travis most probably won't move from the chaise. I don't know how long his abs will be sore, but he is excused from PT for 2 weeks to allow them to heal. I plan to help Travis get his driving certificate while I'm here and he has some free time. Look out truck, here we come, I hope.

Have a great day tomorrow; It's the Lord's day, I hope you encounter Him in some way.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Friday, August 10, 2007

Travis is recovering well from his surgery. He ate macaroni salad and mashed potatoes for lunch and then a cheeseburger and french fries for dinner! The doctors offered to release him today but he opted for tomorrow. It is quite painful for him to move so I am glad he chose tomorrow so that the nurses could be in charge instead of me. Not much else going on, I've read and he has watched TV in between snoozes.

Thanks again for your prayers and your concern.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Thursday, August 9, 2007

Travis is doing well. One of the resident surgeons remarked today that Dr. Martin said this was his easiest colostomy reversal ever. Hopefully the recovery will be the easiest ever, also. Travis is hungry, he can't take in ANYTHING by mouth until his system "wakes up," hopefully that will be soon. He had several visitors today one of whom was Roy Hyde, his roommate from his semester at NMMI. Roy is in town for a week and said he will be by to visit Travis most everyday. It is a wonderful diversion of hunger pangs!

I try to yield to God's sovereignty always, but it is just so great when He so obviously answers prayers which a huge "YES!" Thank you for your prayers.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Travis's surgery went well! Dr. Martin spoke with me about 3:00 San Antonio time and reported that everything went textbook perfect during the surgery. He was able reattach the two pieces of intestine and drop them back into the abdomin with no problems. I told the dctor I had been praying that just as God had knit Travis together in my womb, to use Dr. Martin to knit together Travis's intestine to perfect working conditin. Dr. Martin helped me finish the sentence and then said, "That is exactly what happened." He expects to keep Travis in the hospital just a couple of days and then allow him to go to my room with me. I am at the Powless Guest House, a military hotel right by the Fisher House and the Center for the Intrepid. It does not have a kitchen, but my room does have a microwave and refrigerator, AND maid service! The barracks, which is just across the street, has a kitchen we can use so we have a very nice setup.

Here is Travis's address:

BAMC Mailroom
LCpl Dodson, Travis C.
3851 Roger Brooke Dr. Dept. 31
Fort Sam Houston, TX 78234-6200

I can't promise how frequently he will check his box but when I return home I will try to remind him to check it a couple of times a week.

Thank you for your prayers, God was listening and graciously answered "Yes"!
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Tuesday, August 7, 2007

Hello everyone! I'm back in San Antonio, I arrived Monday night at 11:30 p.m. Travis was waiting up for me and we had a good visit before we finally gave in to being sleepy.

Monday's news: Travis stood on his right "stubby" leg!!! His right thigh sits down in a socket the size of his thigh and a mechanical ankle is attached to the socket and then a foot attached to the ankle. (picture a leg without a knee and shin) He said he stood with a little short walker and "walked" around much like we would if we had sprained our ankle and only used one leg and a walker. We were, of course, disappointed that we missed seeing it.

Tuesday morning: One of the therapists took a picture of Travis on his his stubby yesterday and Travis brought it to me today! I'll see if someone can scan it for me and I'll send it to Courtney our web master.

Tuesday afternoon: Travis was admitted into the hospital right at lunch time and they brought him his lunch tray of juice and jello. Because he is having surgery on his lower intestines he has to be on a clear liquid diet. He is so hungry! And his surgery is after lunch tomorrow (Wednesday) so it's going to be a tough morning. I told him to sleep in, but he is in the spital so that will be quite difficult. One thing I've realized is that when Travis is doing well I hold up well but when he is miserable I have a much harder time being strong.

Our specific prayer request is that the Dr. won't have to open up his midline but can make a small incision to "put him back together" so that he can quickly return to his rehab regimen. Please pray that Travis and I will be able to use this downtime wisely.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Friday, August 3, 2007

Travis's outpatient procedure went well today. He reported to the hospital at 6:00 am but they did not take him back until 12:00 noon and he was in the recovery room about 3:00. I received a phone call from his doctor at 3:00 San Antonio time. He said things had gone well but Travis's phone was not working and Travis was concerned about us, so the doctor told Travis he would call us and let us know that everything was going well. Travis has a high school friend named Manny who is stationed in Corpus Christi and drove to San Antonio today to be with Travis. It was a relief to me when I spoke to Manny and he said the hospital was going to release Travis to him and he would be with Travis at the barracks tonight.

Travis's other surgery has been rescheduled for this Wednesday! The cleaning out of my room has gone really fast, I just have a little tiny bit more to do on Monday morning, and then Monday evening I will fly back to San Antonio. Travis will be admitted into the hospital on Tuesday morning so they can prep him for the surgery. A room at the Fisher House has been arranged and I expect to be there about 2 weeks. After this whirlwind trip back home to clean out my room, I'm looking forward to resting while Travis recoups in the hospital.

I saw my family doctor on Thursday morning and he said I am definitely improving, it is just going to take a little time. That's why I retired. Now with my room done I think I can mentally rest, too.

My brother pointed out that I have not reported on Travis's last ophthamology appointment. His vision with the pinhole had improved slightly from 20/70 to 20/60. She removed 2 more stitches and will remove the rest in 1 more month and then we can try the contact to smooth the surface of the eye. If the surface of the eye becomes smooth, light might refract correctly through it. Wouldn't that be great?

I'm excited Travis's surgeries have ended up so close together. Let's get them over with and then on to driving and walking!

Thank you for your notes and prayers. We love you all! Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, Casey, and Lauren

Wednesday, August 1, 2007

We arrived home this evening, when we left Travis he was content. He was planning on getting together with one of his buddies tonight to hang out. The next update will be Friday after his procedure.

Love Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Casey

Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Travis enjoyed his first night in the barracks. Kyle, Tiffany, and Casey picked up the loveseat and chaise today at noon so now his living room area is very comfortable. We are checked out of the Fisher House, ready to leave tomorrow morning (Wednesday) at 7:00am. Part of the check-out was getting Travis a mail box at the barracks, but we realized after the office closed that the mail box assigned to him is on the very top row. He will have to go to the mail room at the hospital to change it, and knowing Travis, it will be a while before he does that. So in the meantime, if you HAVE to send something to Travis, it would be best to send it to our Deming address and we will forward it as soon as he has a new box number. Our Deming address is:

Casey and Cheryl Kae Dodson
1409 Socorro St.
Deming, NM 88030

As soon as we have a good address for Travis we will post it on the website.

Friday he is having an outpatient procedure done to help clear up that infection. If you have time, please lift him and all involved up in prayer. It is hard for me not to be here, but I have to get my classroom cleaned out before a new teacher can move into it! The doctor assured me that they will keep Travis in the recovery room until they are positive he will be okay by himself. Of course, we know God will be with him every moment.

Love to you all,
Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Casey

Monday, July 30, 2007

Travis is spending the night in the barracks tonight! Most of our day was spent at the hospital going from office to office and waiting to do the paper work to have Travis ready for the small procedure on Friday to take care of that nagging infection. At 4:00 we were finally ready to go to the barracks and have Travis assigned to a room. It didn't take long to move his stuff and then we had the fun of getting his room organized. It looks great, really homey and comfortable. Casey did tell me to quit using the word "cute" because he didn't think that was Travis's goal for his room. Kyle and Tiffany Stevens brought BBQ over for supper and then helped with the move. We purchased a love seat and chaise lounge for Travis's room and tomorrow Kyle is meeting us at the store and hauling them to the barracks in his truck. I had a lot of fun working in his room and I think he is pleased with the outcome.

Casey and I are running a few more errands tomorrow, picking up a few odds and ends, and then we hope to drive home on Wednesday.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Casey

Sunday, July 29, 2007

Well, Max Lucado speaks as well as he writes, actually, he speaks just like he writes. We really enjoyed his message today about what to expect in Heaven (his last point being that we were sure to laugh when we thought back to his inadequate description). We took quite a while leaving the sanctuary and as we strolled down the hall we realized that he was talking to people who had formed a line to greet him. Watching him, I was amazed at how calm and relaxed he was; he never seemed to hurry even though the line was growing. A family with children was right ahead of us, and he bent down and let the children tell him all about the picture they drew for him. It was a joy to watch. My comments were on the book I had just read about rejoicing in EVERY day the Lord has made, even the one when you receive a call from Iraq. I complimented his book, told him how it had impacted me, and thanked him for writing it. I was ready to allow the next person their time with him, but he kept pulling me back, wanting to know specifics, and then more details, and then made sure I met the women in charge of their military outreach program. I was astonished.

My cousin, Dana, and I went into the little bookstore and looked around. She hugged a woman and chatted just a second and walked out with a business card to order merchandise. I walked up to the same lady and asked if I could have the same card she just gave my cousin, to which she asked me if I was Travis's mother. I stared at her blankly, thinking that although I do have a son named Travis, she couldn't possibly know that and must have me confused with someone else. But I think "yes" must have come hesitantly out of my mouth because she then said she had been praying for him since February. She is a BSF (Bible Study Fellowship) small group leader and Dana is in her small group and she knew Travis is in San Antonio, so when I said "my cousin" it all clicked with her.

It is so neat to meet some of the people who have helped us so much. I really wish I could meet you all. Thank you for your prayers, thank you for your encouragement, thank you for your support.

Tomorrow (Monday) Travis is suppose to move into the barracks. We're going over at 8:00am to check on the orders and see there is anything else we need to do to facilitate the move. He has a couple of appointments, one of which is ophthamology and another is driving simulation. I'll keep you updated.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Casey

Saturday, July 28, 2007

Friday was a pretty exciting day at CFI. First and most importantly, the source of the aggravating infection has been found and the correct medicine started! (Isn't it just too cool when God answers a prayer so quickly and so obviously!) And right after that good news, Travis went to Occupational Therapy for his ADL (activities of daily living) evaluation to move into the barracks and he passed with flying colors. We mentioned that he was very interested in buying a vehicle so he was sent to the driving simulator right after the ADL evaluation. He passed the CFI driving program and will now be sent to the more formal program at the VA hospital. It is expected to take 2-3 to set up the appointments, take the course, and then take a behind the wheel test in an actual vehicle. When he passes the behind the wheel test he will be given a certificate and it is my understanding that he can then be licensed and so we can buy a vehicle. We then went out to eat with my cousin, Dana, and her family and played a round of putt-putt. We got back to the Fisher House around midnight and my brain forgot all about writing an update. I appologize.

Saturday was back to the guy/truck thing. Casey wanted to make sure Travis saw all the trucks that every company made for some real comparison shopping. I took a book and sat in the van while they checked them all out. (I didn't even make any color comments.) And then we stopped and bought the sheets, towels, comforters, etc. that Travis needs for his room. Supposedly he will move into the barracks on Monday! How exciting!

Tomorrow (Sunday) we are meeting my cousin, Dana, at Max Lucado's church. Hope you have a great Sunday, too.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Casey

Thursday, July 26, 2007

Travis and Casey went to check out trucks today. (I tagged along and added the very valuable female insight as to which color would show the most dirt in our desert climate). While Haley was in town, Travis had taken us to a dealership which had been recommended by some of the other guys here at the CFI. One truck had really impressed him. Today he wanted to show it to his dad but the truck had been sold. The salesman stated that another truck like it had been ordered and they were expecting it any day. After looking at some others, Travis and Casey decided to take me out for lunch (to thank me for my color opinion, I think) and while we were waiting for a table the salesman called and said the other truck had just been delivered to the dealership. The truck is being held in Travis' name to give him a little time to think. But the real point of me telling this story is that this dealership has a man whose position is titled "mobility specialist." He talked with Travis, watched him transfer into the truck, and discussed options for his wheelchair. They talked about now and they talked about in a few years. It was obvious that this man knew what he was doing. He ended up sharing his story with me; he was in the military when his first child was born significantly handicapped, a son that shouldn't have seen his first birthday has now seen 20. He is a father who shares what he's learned with others who have mobility issues. His clients run the gamut from Lou Gehrig's, Ms, and quadriplegics, to Wounded in Action. He talked about voice controls, hand controls, and seating options. He not only understands the medical side, but the military/VA side as well. All I could think of was here is an example of God working "all things together for the good of those who love the Lord and are called according to his purposes" (Romans 8:28). I left the dealership very blessed, thanking God for his providence, and not even caring that Travis chose a black truck.

Great is His faithfulness.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Casey

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Golly, yesterday I was so wrapped up in the college attitude, Casey coming, and the book I had just read that I forgot to comment on my health and our visitors. In Deming we live across the street from our pastor and his family. Keath and Murray Baskett took time to come visit us during a quick trip to San Antonio to see her family. They came bearing gifts of cookies! Yeah! Some homemade from one of the Sunday School classes at church (thanks, Jo!) and some of Travis's favorite Girls Scout cookies. We enjoyed the visit.

My health is much better, but not totally back to normal. Once in a while I still feel a pull on my side when I take a deep breath. But now Casey is here to take care of us, so I can keep relaxing.

Not much going on with Travis, he's just really glad to see Casey.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Casey

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Tonight has the feeling of sending Travis off to college. I'm getting ready to return home, and I've decided to look at leaving Travis just as I would if I were dropping him off at college. We have looked at the barracks (dorm) and have some ideas of what he needs to purchase to make his room comfortable. He will have a refrigerator and microwave, and can go to the cafeteria in the hospital, across the parking lot, when he prefers. Tonight he went to the Dallas Cowboys' Training Camp with a bunch of the guys. And of course he'll spend a lot of his time in "class" learning to walk, but learning about life, too. Now doesn't that have a college feel?

Casey is flying into San Antonio Wednesday afternoon about 2:30. He wants to spend some time with Travis before school starts. Our plan is to drive home Tuesday. We will have gone through this round of follow-up appts. with Travis and I feel certain we will be pleased with his progess. Today Travis had a CT scan searching for the cause of an aggravating little infection. Please pray that the cause and cure can both be found.

I've just finished studying Max Lucado's new book Everyday Deserves A Chance. If you are looking for an easy to read book with profound thoughts, I highly recommend it. I have called a couple of friends just to read them his discussion of the phrase "take up your cross."

I'm going to go to bed praying for you each to find your cross to bear. (That is a positive prayer to pray for you, just ask Max! )
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Monday, July 23, 2007

Travis is checking in with most of his doctors this week and it's great to know he is still on track and nothing is sneaking up on us. His blood pressure is perfect and his heart rate is within the normal range and still going down, which is great news. As was thought, the blood pressure and heart rate were related to pain and pain medication so as his pain has faded so has his need for pain medication and so he is of course in better health all the way around! He has a busy morning tomorrow and I have a follow-up on my health problems. Hopefully my news will be as good as his.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Sunday, July 22, 2007

Drove Haley to the airport at 10:30, she arrived in Phoenix for an afternoon and evening with Chris. Travis and I hung out at the Fisher House. My sister brought us frozen homemade enchiladas when she came last week and another family is here from El Paso and the mom made spanish rice and beans, so we have been feasting on our style of Mexican food. DELICIOUS! Travis has several follow up appts. this week at the hospital, checking his eyes and medications, etc. I'll report anything of interest.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Saturday, July 21, 2007

Today Brandon, an amputee here at CFI, invited us to see his room. He lives in the barracks, which is just across the street from the Fisher House and CFI. He has a suite; one room has a twin bed and he has the other room set up as a living room with a small couch, recliner, and tv along with a medium sized refrigerator and microwave. It was a very nice set up actually. I suppose Travis will be assigned something like it.

The rest of the day we spent lounging around the Fisher House. Remember, that was my job while Haley is here. She leaves tomorrow at 10:00 so I guess my days of leisure are over. But I'm feeling much better, I'm able to take much deeper breaths with very little or no pain. It has been wonderful to have Haley here with us, we've giggled and teased a lot.

Hope you have a great day.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Haley

Friday, July 20, 2007

Thank you for all the messages of concern and good wishes for my health. Today I wrote a letter to my school district announcing that I would like to retire. My family and I all agree that I need to take it a little easy for a while and not add the complication of a kindergarten class to my life at this time. My principal and district office were very kind and said they completely understand with all that is going on in the Dodson family right now.

Friday morning is "Sports Day" at CFI. This week was volleyball. The guys all sit on the floor with a low net between the teams and have a lively game of volleyball. It started out a little slow, but soon young men were slamming it down or faking with a little dink and adding spin to their serves. "Mandatory Fun" is going to have to renamed because for the second week in a row he has had a great time. This time was to lDave and Busters for lunch and then arcade games. You know how guys are, they all compete to see who can win the most tickets. Travis is sure he won but they don't really count to see. And then this evening Haley, Travis and I played a variety of games of which I won a big, fat zero, but as always it's fun just having fun with your kids.

Hope you have a great weekend,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Haley

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Hello! I'm back! When the doctors looked at my chest x-ray, they thought I had fluid on my lungs. But after looking at the CT scan, they realized I had pleuracy (not sure if that is spelled correctly). Haley arrived at noon on Tuesday to take care of me and help Travis if he needed help. I have promised my family I will rest, rest, rest, and take it easy when I'm not resting. Haley is staying until Saturday or Sunday and I might stay in my pajamas until she leaves. (She says that is the idea.) Thank you for your prayers and concern. As the doctors explained what would most likely cause fluid on the lungs, I was very concerned myself and VERY glad when it turned out to be just inflamation between the chest wall and the lungs.

Travis had his old wheelchair revamped today and no longer has weights on the front. Haley reports that it is much easier to put in the car now. I thought the pain in my side when I breathed was a pulled muscle from handling Travis' wheelchair so the poor boy got blamed when it wasn't even his fault.

He tried on his new socket for his longer leg and it fit much better than the first one. He said the next time he puts it on it will have a foot on the bottom. I'll try to be there with my camera! I'm not sure when the mold will be made to start the other leg, but I'm sure it is soon.

May I ask you to be in prayer for a wonderful Deming family who lost a son this week? Roy Hartman, a delightful young 8th grader who I had as a kindergartener, was cleaning a pistol when it went off and he was killed. I know that Deming is holding them close and lifting them before the Lord, but will the rest of you please add Don, Cheryl, older brother Matthew, and the rest of the Hartman family to your prayer list. May they all be comforted, held in the Lord's arms, and reassured of the gift of everlasting life.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Travis, and Haley for a few more days.

Monday, July 16, 2007

Today Travis tried on his socket for his prosthetic and it was still notquite right so they are going to start over and make another one.

Cheryl Kae could use some prayer. After having trouble breathing and not feeling well for several weeks, she went in to see the doctor. She was then admitted to the hospital due to some fluid in her lungs. We will try to keep you updated on her health as well as Travis'. Please continue to pray for the entire Dodson family, as Casey may be traveling to San Antonio tomorrow. Cheryl Kae writes the updates, and, in an effort to give her time to rest and heal there may be some days without an update.

Thank you for your prayers,
The Dodson Family

Sunday, July 15, 2007

All my family left today, I took Martin and Jacquie to the airport this morning and Rhonda and Russell drove off early.

Travis's friend Sabre Parnell and her cousin Skye are in San Antonio. They came by and picked Travis up about 3:00 and headed to the River Walk. It's now 10:00 and they must be having fun.

Hope you had fun sometime today, too.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Saturday, July 14, 2007

We played cards with my brother and his wife most of the afternoon. Spades was the game of choice, and Travis won. Then we attended my cousin's daughter's wedding. It was beautiful and she was a lovely bride. As an American, I was very proud of the number of people who came and introduced themselves to Travis. They thanked him and offered him any help he might need. As a mother, I was very proud of the way Travis responded to them with grace and poise.

God bless you all.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Friday, July 13, 2007

Mandatory fun was fun. It was Laser Tag and Papa John's pizza. Thirteen guys went, most in wheelchairs and others on prosthetic legs. Travis took 2nd in the first round and 1st in the second round. He said he had a great time.

My brother, Martin, and his wife, Jacquie, have arrived in town along with Rhonda's husband, Russell, for my cousin's daughter's wedding. We met at a friend's house last night and ate, laughed, and played cards. We had a great time there, too.

With much love,
Cheryl Kae and Travis

Thursday, July 12, 2007

Travis said PT was really good this morning. He got on the big green ball all by himself and sat on it alone for quite a while. He did admit to falling off a couple of times, but got back on and kept balancing. He also sat on a padded blue cylinder, sometimes straddling it and sometimes sitting forward. He said his balance is getting good.

My sister, Rhonda, and our friend, Angie, dropped in around noon so we took them to the PX. Travis bought a dress shirt to wear to my cousin's daughter's wedding because he has decided the dress blues jacket is too hot. It is definitely hot here in San Antonio now that it has quit raining.

Steve and Shirley Stevenson invited Travis to the American Legion from 3:30-5:30. A group of veterans meet there every Thursday for Happy Hour. One of the ladies is the first woman general in the Air Force. Guessing her age to be 85, Travis said, "Mom, she stayed with me beer for beer." I think back in the days that she was working on promotions and a woman probably had to be one of the guys. Anyway, she has offered to pay for Travis a lifetime membership in the American Legion. There are wonderful people everywhere!

We had dinner at Rhonda's friend's house (Kima and Jim) and then Travis challenged us to a round of Putt-Putt. I'm not sure who won, but I know it wasn't me.

Last night Travis said he had one of his best nights ever, sleeping all night long, We're looking forward to another good night's sleep tonight.

Tomorrow is "mandatory fun", I'll let you know how it goes. haha

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

During PT Travis was able to balance on the big green exercise ball for a good minute. I'm going to have to ask for another video shoot to record his improvement. Right after PT he tried on his socket for his right leg. It is a large plastic tube that was made from the mold taken of Travis leg. He was between 2 parallel bars with his forearms resting on the bars. When the socket was slipped on, Travis "stood up" to force his leg all the way into the socket. His leg would not quite go all the way in, so Kirk the prostethist is going to heat it and stretch it in the place he and Travis decided was too tight. Travis said that standing up did not seem like a foreign skill.

Travis had text messaged me to be in the Center for the Intrepid at 10:30 with my camera. When I walked into the main lobby on the 1st floor I saw a luncheon was being set up for some VIPs. A mexican buffet with the buffet table decorated to the max, and long tables with white table clothes and red cloth napkins and decorations in the middle of the tables. There was also a dessert table highly decorated and full of candied oranges, almond and chocolate candies, and a beautiful coconut blossom with an almond in the middle. I reminded myself I to check out the VIPs when I left the building. Well, when Travis finished with his fitting, he handed me two beautiful invitations with our names on them that said " Wounded Warriors and their families are invited to a FIESTA LUNCHEON in the main lobby of the Center for the Intreped." WE WERE THE VIPS! They had waiters who carried the plate of anyone who couldn't carry their own, and a Mariachi group that played the entire 2 hours. It was SO nice, Travis even said he loved the whole thing. It reminded me once again, just as the notes you leave on this website and the cards you send remind me everyday, that there are Americans everywhere wanting to support and help all our military personnel.

We know that God can end this war, and I ask Him to accomplish His will, be glorifed, and bring our troops home.

PS Courtney has added two pictures to the picture slideshow. You might want to check them out.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Things went well for Travis in Denver. I text messaged him on Sunday and ask if everything had been wheelchair accessible. His answer was, "Well, no. But I'm getting really good at adapting. I told you I was the superman of handicapped people." Isn't that great? With an attitude like that how can he fail!

I enjoyed being home with Casey and Lauren. On Monday Lauren played in a Jr. golf tournament at New Mexico State and I got to follow her around the course. Since I missed her entire golf season, this was such a pleasure for me.

My sister is in town for a few days visiting Travis and me along with some of her good friends who have moved from El Paso. We played cards and went out to eat which was fun. Since she drove she was able to bring us homemade enchiladas, green and red. Hurray!

Thanks for being there for us. Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Thursday, July 5, 2007

Travis's general surgery appt. was today, and we were a little disappointed. There is a general rule of thumb that abdominal surgery may be reversed no sooner than 6 months after the original surgery. We both went, "ah, shucks", but the Dr. explained that when you are working with the abdomen area, you want to make sure you cross every T and dot every i to reduce the chances of having problems. We couldn't argue with that, so Travis's surgery is tenatively scheduled for Aug. 20, 2007. I feel confident that God will be in the operating room and things will go well and then heal well.

This evening Travis is taking a couple of days of leave and traveling to Denver to visit his friend, Ana, and attend her cousin's wedding. I'm going to go home to Deming. My flight leaves about 2 hours after his and I arrive about 1 hour before him on Monday. So I guess that is my way of telling you that I won't do another update until Tuesday evening, which you will read on Wednesday morning.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Wednesday, July 4, 2007

Travis's attitude is just amazing, but I want you to know that ALL the injured guys I've met have amazing attitudes. I've been thinking that maybe that has to do with our all volunteer military. Travis joined the Marines of his own free will and he knew what the risks were. He was willing to accept those risks. Now that he has been injured he is not blaming the government or the military, he is not even blaming himself. It is just what happened. I think that must be a very different feeling from the drafted men and women of the Vietnam era, And I know that I want the United States to have the most capable, most intelligent military in the world. There is the shallow part of me that wants other people's sons and daughters to serve, but not mine. But deep inside I want to be the kind of human being that does my share, that is willing to sacrifice at least as much as everyone else. And so on this 4th of July, I am proud to be the mother of a US Marine, and proud of the men and women who serve our country.

God bless America,
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Tuesday, July 3, 2007

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY! Our friend Michael Walsh is in town. We went to dinner with him tonight in the Quarry section of town. Travis has reminded him of the challenge on the Putt Putt golf course. That could be Wednesday or Thursday afternoon. Other than that it was a regular day with Travis actually making both his PT times. I'm hoping for a nice fireworks display somewhere in town, but the rain might make that impossible.

Hope you have a great 4th.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Monday, July 2, 2007

Travis had some standard appointments today, neuropsychology at 8:30, occupational therapy at 9:00, and physical therapy at 9:30. I'm glad he had more that just PT. This afternoon we were sent to the VA hospital across town to talk to Paul Alonzo, the wheelchair orthotist. He is considered an expert on wheelchairs and it is through his department that Travis will receive a new wheelchair. Palo Alto gave Travis the wheelchair he has now and they told us it was not custom ordered to fit his needs, it was just the best they had available. Because Travis does not have the weight of legs in the front of the chair, it was very easy for him to tip over backwards, so the therapists at Palo Alto had us tie two 8 pound weights to the front of the chair. Everyone here thinks it is hysterical! Several times we have met someone and they have said, "So you're the guy with the weights on your chair." Well, Paul Alonzo explained to us today that the position of the back wheel on the chair will fix the tipping backward problem. And the new chair will have different, easier to propel wheels with stronger, lighter spokes. The whole thing seems a little better for Travis; slightly longer seat to better support his longer leg, arm rests so he can push up more easily for pressure relief, different wheel hand grips for better traction with fewer blisters, etc. And with 16 pounds less weight on the chair, it will be easier on Travis's shoulders. Gosh, we thought his wheelchair was great.

We were invited to Steve and Shirley Stevenson's house for dinner tonight. He is the retired Marine who played golf with Casey and his wife is the Air Force chef who has sent us several meals. We had a delightful time. He is your typical Marine while she is light and giggly and that made for a fun everning.

Have a great day.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Sunday, July 1, 2007

Last night I wrote my update, hit "send", brushed my teeth, and went to bed. As soon as my head hit the pillow I heard a voice softly ask, "Cheryl, what exactly has been so hard?" I had to admit that nothing had been hard yet, but I knew it was coming. Then this sensation of reassurance came over me and I realized I had been listening to the giant called fear. God wanted to reassure me that things were going to be fine. So I fell asleep humming "The Voice of Truth" by Casting Crowns. The words say something about the giant laughing at me and calling out my name, but the voice of truth tells me a different story, the voice of truth says "do not be afraid", the voice of truth says this is for My glory, so I will choose to listen and believe the voice of truth.

After lunch Tracy Hennage and her son Alex came to meet us. Tracy is the wife of Lt. Hennage, one of Travis's nurses in Iraq. I hope we meet him someday, but it was really nice chatting with Tracy and Alex. Later we went to dinner with our friends Adrian and Liz Apodaca who have brought their 2 kids to San Antonio to visit SeaWorld.

Have a great day.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Saturday, June 30, 2007

Today Travis bought a pair of tennis shoes. Sometime this week his first leg will be ready to try and he needs a tennis shoe with good traction. He will be supported so he can stand on the first leg and a cast for the second leg made. I'm going to try to get a picture of him because the first legs will be 'stubbies," short little legs, because it is much easier to balance a short tower than a tall one. He's going to look cute, isn't he?

We're making progress, but it is going to be hard. A friend made a plaque for me that says, "Faith makes all things possible, not easy." I keep reminding myself of that.

Thanks for your prayers for us and all the cards and messages.
We love you, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Friday, June 29, 2007

Travis had his x-ray test this morning, it lasted from 9:00-11:30! When I checked, the receptionist said it just takes a long time for the dye to run completely through the intestines. He missed "mandatory fun" because of it, and I think that cheered him up just a little.

He and I took a field trip this afternoon, we decided we wanted to know how the whole vehicle thing works. So we found a dealership, ask some questions, and were referred to Alamo Mobility, the place that actually does the handicapped modifications. The man there showed us the hand controls and how they are put on any vehicle, and he also had pictures of several different types of drivers seats and lifts that could be put into a variety of different vehicles. It was interesting and very informative.

Our prayer requests are still for God to supply answers to any problems that come up and to enable Travis to be strong enough and padded enough to handle all that he needs to handle. With the surgery coming up (our next appt. to schedule the surgery is next Friday) please also pray there will be no complications and that Travis's body will heal quickly and completely.

Thank you!
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Thursday, June 28, 2007

The videos of Travis in PT today are great. It's going to be fun to see him progress. Bob, the Physican's Assistant, was really pleased with the new dressing so I get to play "Nurse Nancy" and change it everyday. Tomorrow Travis will have some x-ray tests done to monitor his internal progress. And tomorrow is Friday so Travis gets to go on another "mandatory fun" activity (Travis's term, I think they are actually called recreational outing). It is lunch and then bowling. Surely they have a plan for these guys to really be able to bowl.

Haley and Chris seem happy in Phoenix. Haley is cooking all kinds of dinners and seems to be successful at them. GOOD FOR HER! If they are not quite as good as she thinks, Chris is going a good job of eating her mistakes. GOOD FOR HIM!

Thank you for all your thoughts and especially your prayers.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

A busy day. Travis had PT this morning and then a follow up appointment with Bob, the physician's assistant, who is monitoring the nagging little sore Travis is dealing with. Today Bob tried a different dressing and will check it again tomorrow. This afternoon, Kirk, the prosthetist, made the cast of Travis leg to begin building his first prosthetic leg. While we were waiting to see the prosthetist, the physical therapist, Mark, came by and ask me if Travis had shared with me all that he is attempting in PT. I replied yes, and then moaned about not getting to take videos of him so Mark invited me to PT tomorrow and told me to bring my camera. Hurray!

I know none of us thought Travis's legs were going to be easy, but there are many things that can complicate the issue. Please join me in praying that God provide all the answers to problems the prosthetists encounter and that God make Travis's body strong enough and padded enough to be comfortable on his new legs.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BELIEVE WHAT TRAVIS GOT TO TRY IN PHYSICAL THERAPY TODAY! He climbed half way up the rock-climbing wall, sat on a huge exercise ball and played catch, and did push-ups with his entire body balanced on his arms. When he came in and told me what he was doing, I couldn't believe that I'm not allowed to go watch. After all, who else is going to take pictures? Travis was excited and thrilled. You could see the proud Marine coming out. He did not feel very successful at any of the activities, but he was excited to get to try. He demonstrated the push-ups for me, and he could only do 3, but I'm pretty impressed with 3, how about you?

We went to his Internal Medicine appt. today. The Dr. was very nice and spent about 2 hours with us. He reviewed all of Travis's medicine and also researched his fast heart rate. He said the same thing that Dr. Chen from Palo Alto said. There are 3 major causes for a fast heart rate that apply to Travis: pain, pain medication, and stressful situations. Which of the 3 is the dominant factor is hard to tell. So he is adjusting some of the pain medication and we'll see what happens. He did give the go-ahead for Travis to have surgery, finding nothing physically wrong with Travis's heart.

More exciting stuff tomorrow.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Monday, June 25, 2007

Casey called us last Friday afternoon because a message had been left on our machine at home. It was from a woman at BAMC letting us know about an appointment Monday at 10:00 at the Internal Medicine clinic with a Dr. Cohen. We already had an appointment on Tuesday at 3:00 with Internal Medicine, so I returned the woman's call to check which appointment I should keep and which I should cancel. I was put through to her voice mail, and as it was 4:45 I did not expect to have her return my call. My intention was to call this morning first thing, but Travis said he would rather go to the Monday appt. and cancel the Tuesday, so he canceled his Monday morning physical therapy and we headed to the clinic. When we checked in at the reception area, we were told we did not have an appointment. "Oh, yes, with Dr. Cohen." I argued. The receptionist looked and looked, and kept saying No. I couldn't remember how I got my information. (sometimes you get a phone call from a person, sometimes you get an automated phone call reminding you of an appt., sometimes it is printed out on a computer list of appts., and sometimes your case manager reminds you of an appt.) But I kept saying that it had to have been reliable information because I had a doctors name. The receptionist was sorry, we had no doctor's appt., but we could see the nurse in charge of pre-op appts. So we did. She tried to set up an appt. for us to see a doctor, the earliest was mid-July. "Do we really need another appt. when we have one tomorrow afternoon?" I ask. She replied that tomorrow's appt. would be fine. So Travis missed his physical therapy appt. for no real reason. Well, what do you think happened at 2:30 this afternoon? The original lady returned my call from Friday afternoon to say that Travis had an appt. with Dr. Cohen at 10:00 this morning and she was sorry that we missed it!!! Sigh... And so we will cancel Travis's afternoon PT tomorrow and go to our Internal Medicine appointment.

Following his afternoon PT today, Travis was checked over in the "Amputee Clinic." All the people who have anything to do with his amputee rehab. are in the same room and they get to discuss the intricacies of his case together. The one thing they all noticed is that he has been in his wheelchair a little too much and to keep from creating a larger problem, he needs to recline in his bed more. It was also noticed that his skin is responding well to the shrinker and the liner that he has been wearing. Before proceeding, they wanted to make sure that neither one of those two things would irritate his skin or cause any kind of breakdown. So now appointments have been made to make a cast of his leg so that a socket can be built to fit his leg. The prosthetic leg will be attached to the socket.

Everyday we make a little progress.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Sunday, June 24, 2007

Last night Travis and I read again the messages you have left us in May and June. I am so touched by your love for us. Lupe Garcia, one of the Army Liaison team in Germany, made me think of all the doctors, nurses, and military staff who have helped us, and then there are the hometown messages, our close friends caring for us. But there are also the many friends from Casey's and my's past, who have stepped forward to share their concern. And then there are the people we have never met, military and civilian, who want us to know they want to help not just us, but all of our military men and women. What a picture of God's unconditional love for us and for the world. My heart becomes so full of love for each of you that it almost bursts.

When Casey was here in San Antonio with us, he played golf with a MSgt. Stevenson. Today MSgt Stevenson came to meet Travis, bringing with him a list of ideas on what he could do to help Travis. We visited for over 2 hours and found out, (this is my favorite part), his wife used to be a chef! We are invited to dinner on Sunday evening. God not only supplies our needs, but also our wants. Between my good friend, Ann, who has already cooked for us, my cousin, Dana, who is having us over for dinner, and our new friends Steve and Shirley Stevenson, Travis and I are going to be well fed. Any of you Deming folks who would like to help Casey feed Lauren, I know they would appreciate it, too.

Other than church and visiting with MSgt. Stevenson, Travis wanted to lay in bed today and give himself a rest from his wheelchair. So we played a lot of cards, and I guess to be fair, I have to tell you that he stomped me. Right in the middle of one of our games, the fire alarm went off. Just as we head out the bedroom door, someone downstairs starts yelling "false alarm, false alarm, we got a little wild in the kitchen." We went outside anyway because it took about 15 min. to get the alarm to stop and it was a very irritating noise. So today we had our first "fire drill" and we got out of the building safely.

Hope you had a great weekend with only false alarms and no catastrophes.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Saturday, June 23, 2007

We had a really great time with Kelly, Chad, Marcus and Rorie. Isn't it funny when you are around little ones, they are all the entertainment you need. But they finally got tired of the grown-up talk and so the Bouldens headed back to Dallas just after lunch. Hopefully the kids slept all the way home. Travis and I hung out in our room, playing games most of the afternoon. He said not to mention who won, so I won't. (He just said, "Mom, that's pretty much mentioning it!)

TRAVIS IS GOING TO CHURCH WITH ME TOMORROW! Can't wait. Hope you have a great time at church, too.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Friday, June 22, 2007

Today was a fun day for me. Our good friends Kelly and Chad Boulden drove in from Dallas to see us. THE KIDS ARE DARLING! At 2 1/2 and 1 1/2, I couldn't believe their coordination. The Fisher House has a great big play area outside with the big redwood decks, slides, ladders, swings, etc. These two kids were all over if for hours. It was a great place for the adults to just visit while the kids were entertained. Travis joined us when he returned from "mandatory fun," which he insisted was not fun, but I'm hopeful it will grow on him.

Travis liked his PT today, it was on the 4th floor and he worked with weights on his upper body strength - flies, bench press, biceps, shoulder press, etc. He liked that part of his day and he liked visiting with Chad and Kelly.

We see Chad and Kelly again tomorrow. Hope you have a great day with friends, too.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Travis had PT at 9:30 this morning and I had a meeting with a "Visiting Nurse" from the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society. A visiting nurse is hired by the Relief Society and therefore can help you with problems and questions and not worry about retribution from the Marines. We had met the visiting nurses in Bethesda and they had called several times while we were in Palo Alto and at home to check on us. There is a nurse assigned to BAMC so we met today. She is darling and I enjoyed it so much we decided our next meeting will be over lunch. Travis is doing so well I didn't have many questions and certainly no complaints, but she is now up on his history.

This afternoon we went to our appointment at General Surgery. Our appt. was at 2:45 and by 2:50 we had already talked to the technician and the intern. The doctor came in minutes after that, looked Travis over, got some info/history on his colostomy, and told us the procedure to reverse it. The doctor expects it to be easy, hopefully there will be no complications. He expects Travis to be an inpatient at the hospital for about 4 days and then at the Fisher House recovering for about 2 more weeks.

Today was rainy, a real treat for us desert rats. Travis and I both said how much we enjoy overcast weather, probably because we have not experienced very much of it. Hope you enjoyed your day.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Travis

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Today was a quiet day at the Fisher House, Casey and Lauren flew back to Deming this afternoon. We miss them already.This morning Travis met with the nueropychology doctor. Nothing new to report on that. Every Friday a group comes and takes patients out to do various recreational activities (ie movies, fishing trips, random places) and Travis has just learned today that these will be mandatory. He is not pleased to say the least and is brainstorming every possible way to get excluded from one of these mandatory fun trips. I think its hilarious to see my son so distrought over mandatory fun.

Love Cheryl Kae & Travis

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Travis started with Physical Therapy and a cardio workout at 7:30 this morning followed by Ophthalmology at 9:00. The opthalmologist called in a cornea specialist who then called in a retina specialist. The resulting information was the same as the info we got in Palo Alto (and it is always nice when doctors agree because then you are not left wondering who is correct): his retina is fine, his optic nerve is fine, his cornea is healing nicely, his lens is clear, his vision uncorrected (bad eye) is 20/400 but with the pinhole cover in place it is 20/70. They are all hopeful that when the laceration is healed and the stitches removed a contact lens will smooth out the light coming through the cornea and his vision will be good. If a contact does not work, then we are looking at a cornea transplant. It has been 4 months since the initial eye stitches were done, so they removed the first and last stitch. In another month (July) they will remove every other stitch, and the following month (Aug.) they will remove the last of the stitches. We left the office at 1:30pm and had to cancel his 2:00 PT because we were starving. At 3:00 we met with the prostethist (the man who makes the legs) and he explained how they will attach to Travis's body and what needs to be done to prepare Travis's residual limbs before the actual legs are made.

Casey and Lauren went to Six Flags today and had a ball. They fly out tomorrow afternoon to return home.

Hope you had a great day,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Travis

Monday, June 18, 2007

During the Evaluation Clinic today I think we met everyone who is going to be working with Travis. I was making notes and collecting cards, but there were so many that most of them have blurred in my mind. Tomorrow Travis reports to Physical Therapy at 7:30 am and has an opthamology appt. at 9:00 so we are off and running.

We did have a pleasant surprise. Travis's OT and PT from Palo Alto, Karen and Randy, were at the Clinic today. They are here touring the Center for the Intrepid and learning about the program so they can give more knowledgeable information to patients who are considering transfering to CFI from the program at Palo Alto. It is always nice to see a familiar face.

We played miniature golf again today. This time Casey beat Travis and I beat Lauren.

When the tasks ahead of us seem so daunting, I cling to the fact of where God has brought us thus far, and so why would I doubt that he would bring us to completion? My love and prayers to and for you all.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Sunday, June 17, 2007

There is no surprise in what we did for 2/3 of our day: I went to church, Casey played golf, Travis and Lauren slept in, and then we watched the US Open all afternoon. But you will be surprised at our evening activity. We found a miniture golf course which is wheelchair accessible! It is only 10 miles from BAMC and WE HAD A BLAST! Travis was the overall winner and we are never going to let Casey live it down!! We thought it would take Travis a while to figure out exactly how to putt, but he was good from the git-go. So, Michael Walsh, I think you have been challenged when you come to visit.

Tonight I met Paula. She is here with her husband and said it took about 2 weeks to get all of her husband's programs set up. He came here from Walter Reed then Palo Alto with issues with one leg, eyes, and TBI. She warned me not to get discouraged if it seems to take a long time to get going, it will all get worked out eventually and they love it here. She can't believe how much he continues to progress.

I just love it when God sends someone to encourage me!
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Saturday, June 16, 2007

We were tourists today. We went to the River Walk, strolled around, ate some snacks and enjoyed some beverages. Then we went to Sea World. We saw almost every show. There is a water ski show that could only be called Xtreme water skiing. It was everyone's favorite. And of course Shamu was terrific. Travis was a tourist in his wheelchair from about 10:30 this morning until 8:00 tonight. Can you believe the improvement from the day we toured San Francisco? I thank God for the encouragement He gives us almost everyday.

Have a great day with the Lord tomorrow,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Friday, June 15, 2007

Our tour of the Center for the Intrepid was at 10:30. We met the Physical Therapist and the Occupational Therapist, saw the wave pool and the swimming pool, and got a little bit of an idea of what Travis will be doing everyday. The PT said he will usually have pt for 1 1/2 hours in the morning and again in the afternoon. The first thing Travis will work on is balance and core strength because he will be "standing on a pair of stilts." After the tour we were told that Travis was not yet in the hospital computer system so the doctor had not been able to line up appts. with the opthamologist and general surgery. It took us a while to run down the problem but he is now in the system. First thing Monday he will have x-rays and lab work done. Then at 1:00 he will go to "clinic" where he will be evaluated and a program set up. Hopefully he will see opthamology and general surgery soon.

One of my good friends, Ann Huddleston, brought us a delicious supper and helped us get our bearing as to where we are in San Antonio. Then we played several games of "Sorry," Lauren and Casey hit a bucket of balls while Travis and I critiqued their swings, and then we went to Sonic for a rootbeer float. I chatted with my cousin, Dana, and we discussed going to Max Lucado's church on Sunday and touring the Alamo tomorrow. I am also interested in seeing a little of the Spurs celebrations. After all, we are in San Antonio!

It is heartwrenching to see other young men so badly injured. We are seeing many burn victims and many young men with injured legs or arms. While it is somehow a little reassuring to know that Travis is not the only one, it breaks your heart to see so many here. This Fisher House is full of kids, babies, and young wives. Please help me pray for them and for God to bring an end to the war.

We love you all and thank you again for standing in the gap for us.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Our first meeting was this morning with SSgt. Martinez from the Liaison Office. He referred to his office and staff as our personal assistants. While Travis is the VIP, we are so important in Travis's healing that our every need will be met by his office. Although the liaison offices in Germany, Bethesda, and Palo Alto did not specificly phrase their goal to us in those words, they have ALL absolutely met ALL our needs. Once again I am glad that Travis is part of The Few and The Proud.

Right after lunch we met Dr. Menetrez, a young army doctor who will be the lead in setting up all the facets of Travis's care. She ordered lab work and x-rays and consultations with general surgery and opthamology and... We can expect calls tomorrow setting up specific times and letting us know about appointments. She looked at Travis's legs and is really pleased with his healing and said he is doing very well. Our case worker, Kathy O'Neal, delayed our tour of the facility until tomorrow because Travis was so tired.

While Travis and I rested most of the afternoon, Casey and Lauren got acquainted with the base. They found the golf course (and hit some balls) along with the commissary and PX. We are also officially checked into the Fisher House. Our mailing address is:

______ Dodson Room 420
Fisher House
3623 George C. Beach Rd.
Ft. Sam Houston, TX 78234-5000

Matthew Bradford was in the room next to Travis at Bethesda. His injuries are very similar to Travis's except that he also lost most of the sight in both his eyes. We ran into his mother today in the Fisher House and she said he has been here at the Center for the Intrepid for 2 weeks. Today he stood on his new legs for the first time!

We're excited and encouraged to be here. It is a little different to be surrounded by army uniforms, but really nice to see young men walking on 1 or 2 prothestic legs. As we ate lunch or walked from place to place, several of these young men came over to Travis to encourage him and assure him he has come to the right place for help.

Looking forward to our tour tomorrow,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

We arrived! We left Deming at 5:00am, had breakfast in Las Cruces with Travis's friend Carlos, left Cruces at 7:00 and drove onto Ft. Sam Houston at 6:00pm. We have keys and a room at the Fisher House, but we officially check-in tomorrow morning and that is when I will get a mailing address. There are 4 Fisher Houses here; 2 are small like the houses at Bethesda aad 2 are large like the house at Palo Alto. We are in one of the larger ones and it is exactly the opposite of the one in Palo Alto, so I need to get used to turning right at the staircase instead of left. And we are upstairs (there is an elevator) so I will get a little more incidental exercise.

In my rush to pack yesterday I forgot to mention that Deming's mayor, Andres Silva, droppped by to visit. He spoke to Travis as a civic leader, proud that Travis is interested in using the money to help others, and also as a pastor, describing the impact God has had, through Travis, on many people in many different situations. We enjoyed his visit very much.

Another exciting thing happened yesterday. As you know, Travis was invited to meet California's governor but declined the invitation. Travis did write a letter to the Governor and yesterday he received a very personal letter from the Governor thanking Travis for his service and sacrifice. We already have it framed and ready to hang in Travis's room.

We're excited to meet everyone tomorrow and see this awesome place. Our best to all of you.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Travis

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

IT'S A ROAD TRIP! Travis decided this afternoon that he really didn't want to fly to San Antonio, he wanted to drive in the van with Casey and Lauren. Stunned, I suggested he call the Marines and find out if it was ok to change our plans. Hawaii said Travis is of sound mind and if I thought medically he could make it, then it was Travis's decision to make. Then he called some friends to meet us for breakfast in Las Cruces (an hour away). We're meeting at 6:00 AM!!!! That means we leave Deming by 5:00 and I get up at 4:00! So goodnight, I'm going to bed.

(cue the music) On the road again, I just can't wait to get on the road again...

Talk to you tomorrow from San Antonio,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Monday, June 11, 2007

San Antonio moves closer to us. We are leaving early Wednesday morning. Casey and Lauren will drive, dropping Travis and me in El Paso on the way. Our flight is at 5:00 pm so we will spend the day with my Aunt Zelma and her son Scott. We arrive in San Antonio at 11:00 pm and figure Casey and Lauren could probably pick us up at the airport, but the Marines are scheduled to be there. Frank Buffone, a representative of the VA, came to talk to us today about remodeling our home. He told a story of meeting one man, and after quite a while he had to ask, "Sir, what is your handicap?" The man then revealed his two prosthetic legs. Oh, that God will be so gracious to us.

I have sent wedding pictures to the webmaster. Haley is beautiful and I think you will all enjoy seeing how amazing Travis looks. I also included a picture from ICU in Germany because I didn't want to forget what he looked like when we first reached him. When I think of how far God has brought him I know that God has already been gracious to us. Since I have been home, I've received a card from Ann Shields, an ICU nurse in Landstuhl, Germany. She wrote, "One night while I was checking the site, one of the docs who helped with Travis downrange (Iraq) came past - he was literally speechless with emotion to find out he'd not only survived, but is thriving with the support of his family and buddies."

Praises and thankgiving cannot be sung long enough or loud enough. Not only survived, but is thriving. With much more to glorify God ahead of us.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Sunday, June 10, 2007

We're all 4 back home tonight. Travis had a great time in Las Cruces with his friends and Casey and Lauren spent most of the day on the golf course. Monday we meet with a representative from the VA to discuss making our house handicapped assessible and I'll spend the rest of the day getting our things in order to leave on Wednesday for San Antonio.

Hope you had a restful Sunday.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Saturday, June 9, 2007

Uh-oh, I remembered around 3:00 this afternoon that I did not do an update last night. I'm sorry. We were in Albuquerque watching Lauren play basketball in what is called a "team camp." The Ladycats played a total of 10 games over 3 days. It was fun. I've missed so much of what Lauren has been doing that it was nice to get to focus on her for a while. Travis spent the weekend in Las Cruces with friends and everytime I called to check on things he sounded very happy. I laughed inside at how differently he answers my phone calls now as compared to when he was in high school.

We leave Wednesday for San Antonio and then I'll have more interesting things to tell you than the day to day routine at the Dodson house. But thanks for reading. It tickles me when I'm talking to someone at the grocery store and their response to most everything I say is "Yes, I read about that on the website." But even more people stop me and tell me they have been praying for us, to which I reply, "Yes, thank you, I know that because that is the only way we have been able to make it through these 4 months." I wish I could say thank you to each and every one of you in person. And I wish each and every one of you could see and talk to Travis. He is doing so well. And it is definitely because of the prayers that you have lifted up on our behalf and God's love and mercy.

From a grateful family,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, June 7, 2007

Travis met with Shane Shores today. Shane is the Marine who has headed up the vehicle fundraising. They have been talking about using any excess money from the account to start a nonprofit organization to help other military personnel who are wounded. The name of the organization is BACK-A-VET and it will be for active duty military who have been injured in Operation Iraqi Freedom or Operation Enduring Freedom (Afghanistan). The local newspaper covered the event and took pictures of Travis and Shane along with representatives from the Army, Air Force, Marines, and Navy. Also in attendance were State Representative Donna Irwin, City Councilman Butter Milo, and a representative from Senator Bingaman's office. Shane is hoping to have even bigger events to raise money for the organization such as a country music concert. He explained to me that until he started raising money for Travis, he didn't realize how great the need was to help our wounded warriors and how much the American people want to help. Travis said so many people have helped him that he is now glad to be able to help other members of his military family. Doesn't this make you proud to be an American?

We are heading to Albuquerque tomorrow to watch Lauren play basketball. Thanks to you all!

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

A pretty boring day as far as news for the website is concerned, but I'm excited because the piles in my house are getting smaller and smaller. Lauren went on a basketball trip to Albuquerque today. Casey and I are going to travel to Albuquerque and watch her play on Friday and Travis is going to hang out with his friends while we're gone. Haley is back in Phoenix with Chris, she returned to work today and he wasn't expected at work until tomorrow, but I'm betting he showed up today. That's all our news.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Today was the day Governor Schwarzenegger visited the VA hospital in Palo Alto. We have received a couple of phone calls letting us know we were missed and that it was an incredible day for the Purple Heart recipients. Nothing more than they deserved, but thrilling just the same. I feel certain the Governor left humbled by our men and women in uniform.

You just don't know, and I'm sure can't understand, how much I care for all of you who read these updates. I know that each of you has a story, and it is nice to be able to hear a few of those stories while I'm home. I continue to pray for you, and that through your hardships God will draw you closer to Him, blessing you with the greatest blessing of all, knowledge of Himself.

With much love and awe at your strength,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Monday, June 4, 2007

A day spent sorting piles; piles of stuff we brought back from Palo Alto, piles of stuff we had collected in Bethesda, and piles of white frilly stuff from the wedding. My goal is to be at least somewhat organized before we head to San Antonio.

Travis spent a lot of the day laying on the couch, but about 3:00 the call of friends was too strong and he wheeled one street over to watch a movie. He returned at 7:00 to eat and bath, and then wheeled off again.To see him so independent is amazing, which reminds me that God is amazing.

Have a great day,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Sunday, June 3, 2007

WHAT A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING!! It was beyond fabulous and we are so grateful to our wonderful friends and family who made it all happen. We are lucky to have Chris in our family and our daughter was stunning. Travis wore his dress blues for the first time and I must say there is nothing like a man in uniform and a Marine in the dress uniform tops them all. The wedding reception was a great party. Haley and Chris danced beautifully together and if was just plain fun to see Travis dancing in his wheelchair. Courtney and I will add wedding pictures to the website soon. In the meantime, enjoy the new slideshow of Travis coming home.

Travis has declined the invitation to meet Gov. Schwarzenegger on Tuesday. He feels that the long airplane ride and all the trouble of traveling is a bit much for a 15 minute meeting. I feel a little empty, as though I didn't say a proper goodbye to everyone in California since I thought I was going back. The VA hospital staff, all the support groups, and every friend I made is very special to me. I wish you could all see Travis, how independent he is and how much he is enjoying life. We have a long way to go, but we have certainly come a long way and we owe much to the knowledge and encouragement of all of you in all the places Travis has been. God bless you all.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, Haley & Chris

Thursday, May 31, 2007

The wedding is almost here! Whew, lots of stuff going on and we are busy! But back to Travis, he is continuing his physical therapy and having a great time with his friends. He is doing well physically and emotionally and setting aside this weekend for family time.

We received a call from Major Matthews today, he just wanted to check on Travis and wish us well with the wedding.

BECAUSE OF THE REHEARSAL AND WEDDING, MY NEXT UPDATE WILL BE SUNDAY, JUNE 3RD AND IT WILL BE POSTED ON MONDAY, JUNE 4TH. Everyone have a great weekend, I know we will.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Travis was invited to Columbus Elementary today. Columbus is a small town right on the Mexican border. The students have followed Travis on the website and wanted to help him so they began a Pennnies for Patriots campaign. Today they wanted to meet Travis. We headed to Columbus and were met outside of town by the Sheriff's Dept., City Police, fire trucks, and Border Patrol. The mayor met Travis at our van, welcoming him to Columbus. The gym was filled with students and townspeople, and the school had a full patriotic program in store for us. Songs, poems, marches, it was delightful. As the Instructional Leader explained, the students gave "all they had" to Travis, many emptying their piggy banks. You could tell that Travis was very touched, telling them that they are now his heroes.

Hope you have a hero and are a hero to someone, too.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Travis's day was rather uneventful. He spent the day resting while Haley and I played wedding. Her dress has been altered beautifully and the music, played by our friend Carol Krum, is going to be gorgeous. Tomorrow will be a little more exciting for Travis. He has been invited to Columbus Elementary to meet the students so I'll have something of interest to you to write about.

On TV Casey and I watched the National Memorial Day Concert from Washington, DC. It was heart warming and heart wrenching at the same time. Let us all pray for peace. I hope that I never sound political in my plea for peace, for I do not have the slightest idea how to end this war or exactly what even needs to be accomplished by it, but I know that God does. And so I pray for His will to be done, His influence on the leaders and warriors of both sides, and for Him to "come as the Commander of the Lord's Armies." (Joshua 5:14).

And may peace be in your hearts,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

Monday, May 28, 2007

I'm still in a little bit of a time warp. All of a sudden it dawned on me that it is time to sing "Schools out for the summer" and my mind thinks it should maybe be spring break. Our day has been filled with Nintendo Wii, so much that Lauren has announced her arm is sore from playing tennis. Of course THAT made us all laugh!

Haley and I go to El Paso tomorrow for the final fitting of her wedding dress. I think the wedding is pretty much under control. I'm getting really excited about it.

One of my friends googled Travis Dodson and was able to watch the television stations' reports on Travis's arrival at the airport (one of them was www.ktsm.com). The Deming Headlight (www.demingheadlight.com) ran a super article on Travis arriving in Deming.

KTSM News Channel 9: News report on Travis' homecoming, and online video CLICK HERE

Deming Headlight: Article on Travis' homecoming CLICK HERE

Wish you could all be here to share being home with us. It is great.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

Sunday, May 27, 2007

Travis's homecoming has been incredible. Lots of people have shared their photos with me and I keep forgetting that I wasn't actually there. (By the way, the bridal party at the spa was wonderfully nice. My skin is so soft now!) The reception today was also terrific. I enjoyed talking with so many of you. Everyone, (I mean everyone!), commented on how good Travis looks. He was beaming most of the afternoon and we were very glad to get to say "thank you" to so many people.

And I want to say thank you to our family for putting on the reception for us. You are all wonderful beyond words and it was a lovely, lovely event. Thank you all.

His local buddies are flocked around him, throwing him in the truck and taking him all over town. It unnerved me a little at first, but then I decided that one of the worst things that could happen to Travis right now is to be dumped by his friends. THAT IS CERTAINLY NOT HAPPENING! He is in Las Cruces right now spending the night and no doubt being well cared for.

Haley and I finished out the day reviewing wedding plans. Life is so much fun!

Thank you again for reading this website. It is wonderful to hear from high school friends, far away cousins, people I've never met, and everyone in between. I will get pictures to our webmaster quickly so you far away people can join in the homecoming.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

Saturday, May 26, 2007 - Evening Update

HOME SWEET HOME!! Travis had a full day and is thankful to be home in Deming. The escort home by the Patriot Guard Riders, Dona Ana County Sheriff, Luna County Sheriff, and Deming police was an amazing experience. Travis told news reporters that the first thing he wanted to do when he got to Deming was eat at Si Senor! After arriving in Deming it wasn't long before he had some food from Si Senor. Thank you all for supporting and welcoming Travis home.

The Dodson and the Porter family would like to say thank you all for supporting Travis and the family along this journey. Please stop by the Methodist Church in Deming tomorrow (Sunday) between 2:00-4:00 PM if you would like to visit with Travis and his family.

Thank you for your support and praise God for the miracles he has done in and through Travis' life.

Saturday, May 26, 2007 - Morning Update

Travis is coming home today!!! Travis and Casey will arrive in El Paso at 2:20 PM. They will be escorted by: Patriot Guard Riders, El Paso Police, Dona Ana County Sheriff, Luna County Sheriff, and Deming Police. They will make a stop in Las Cruces at 4:15 PM at the Pic Quik on Avenida de Mesilla (next to the Best Western). Then they plan to arrive in Deming at 6:00 PM at the 1st New Mexico bank parking lot. Anyone who would like to caravan with Travis or come and speak to Travis is welcome to do so. Please pray for traveling mercies and for Travis health. Thank you so much for your encouragement, prayers, and welcome home!

Thursday, May 24, 2007

It is said that faith is a choice you make. During this adventure I have chosen to believe God to be faithful and wise and His timing perfect. I believe He will work out the fine points to make good come out of what we call tragedy. If that is what I have chosen to believe, then I cannot and will not change my thinking now. And you are probably wondering - what in the world is she talking about? Well, Haley is being given a bridal party by one of her college friends. The guest list is a few college girl friends, the bridesmaids, and the mothers of the bridesmaids. And guess what day it is being given...SATURDAY!, in SANTA FE!, 5 hours away! I worked hard to get Travis a ticket on Friday and I thought I was going to be able to do both the homecoming and the bridal party. But the ticket was changed by the Marines. And so I can feel cheated, I can cry, and I can gripe and whine. But what I really have to do is admit to God that He knows what He's doing and happily go to the party in Santa Fe. For whatever reason, God must not want me at the homecoming, and the party will be great fun. It's at a spa and I'm going to enjoy all the girl talk and being pampered. So take plenty of pictures for me and thank you for welcoming Travis home, I'll be in Santa Fe welcoming the new chapter in Haley's life.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

TRAVIS'S TICKET WAS CHANGED. HE IS NOW ARRIVING IN EL PASO AT 2:20PM ON SATURDAY, MAY 26TH.

When we arrive in Deming we will go to the downtown bank area on Gold Street so Travis can take just a minute to greet everyone.

We are having a welcome home reception at the First United Methodist Church Sunday, May 27 from 2:00-4:00 pm.

TRAVIS'S HOMECOMING:

I heard from the Marines in Hawaii, they have Travis scheduled to arrive in El Paso on Friday, May 25. I do not have the times for the flight but I will post it as soon as I do. Hopefully Travis will be able to fly to El Paso and then get in the car right away to drive home, but if he is just exhausted he might have to rest in El Paso for a while first. We are planning a reception Sunday afternoon at the First United Methodist Church so that Travis can spend a little time with everyone. We chose Sunday because we thought Travis might need a day to rest on Saturday.

UPDATE:

Travis went swimming today. He said it was harder than he expected but he did try the butterfly. Surely that means he felt some success in the water.

Casey played golf again on the Stanford course, this time with our friend Bill Ralston. Dave and Debbie Benson had Travis and Casey over for an outdoor BBQ. First time Casey has tasted lamb chops and he said they were DELICIOUS! I think Casey is finding out why I was having such a good time in California.

I have forgotten to mention the results of Travis last opthamalogy appointment. He could count the doctors fingers at 6 ft. At first he could not read the letters in the eye test, then they used a pin hole covering over his eye and he could read them easily to 20/100. The doctor said the pin holes helped Travis direct the light going into his eye and that he (the doctor) felt this was a good sign, showing that probably the only thing blocking his vision is the injured cornea.

My little Kindergarteners were terrific in their end-of-year program today. What a class!

I met Lt Gov. Diane Denish. I felt very honored that she would take time out of her schedule to meet me and discuss Travis's care. A very warm and friendly woman.

It is so good to be home. I went to one friend's house for dinner and then "the girls" met me back at my house for chatting and chips and salsa. Casey called and said he didn't send me home to party, I said I didn't send him to California to play golf! Isn't it nice that in the midst of hard times God gives us such pleasure.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

INFORMATION ON TRAVIS'S ARRIVAL HOME:

A ticket cannot be purchased for Travis until the social worker here at Palo Alto has travel orders from the Marines Corps. From what I understand, the travel orders originate in Hawaii, are then sent to San Antonio for verification, and finally approved at Marine Headquarters in Quanico. The Palo Alto social worker has checked on the orders and expects them to arrive so that Travis can leave Friday, May 25. I have called Hawaii and Quanico asking my friends there to check and make sure the orders don't sit on someone's desk. Many of you have asked about a welcoming party. I'm sorry to be so vague but as soon as I know anything I will ask Courtney to post it.

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

I'm home! But that does not seem to be the highlight of the day as far as my guys are concerned. Stanford Golf is the big winner! They had lunch with the coaches at the course, viewed the trophy case, talked golf (lots of advice on who Travis needs to contact to get help playing golf again) and then played 9 holes. Travis rode in the cart and Casey almost dumped him out (only once, Casey said). Travis was talking on the phone and Casey headed down a hill and Travis started sliding off the seat. Can I really trust Casey to take care of our son?

During PT/OT Travis and Casey were taken downtown to learn how to get in and out of a vehicle parked at curbside. After the instruction Travis did it easily. The occupational therapist refereed to these as ADL's, Activities of Daily Living. He will continue to learn them at the CFI (Center for the Intrepid).

It's good to be home.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

Monday, May 21, 2007

Information on Travis's arrival home: A ticket cannot be purchased for Travis until the social worker here at Palo Alto has travel orders from the Marines Corps. The travel orders originate in Hawaii, are then sent to San Antonio for verification, and finally approved at Marine Headquarters in Quanico. The people in Hawaii and Quanico who have befriended us during this "adventure" have been contacted to see if they can help speed things up in any way. When I know more I will certainly post that information.

The teleconference with the Center for the Intrepid was very informative today. They prefer that Travis arrive on a Wednesday, and be evaluated before the Monday clinic. Travis has been invited back to Palo Alto to meet Gov. Schwarzenegger on June 5th and we will then fly straight to San Antonio on the 6th.

Casey arrived today, we went out for a nice dinner with Caitlin Vickers (Joseph's girl), her older sister, a friend, and her parents. Travis said he had a great time, I think 3 young females sitting at his end of the table had something to do with it! :)

I'm packed up and ready to leave tomorrow morning. Casey and I have switched cell phones, so if you call, he will answer. I'm excited to go home but cried when I said goodbye to Travis.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

May 20, 2007

Travis and I took it easy today. He was a little worn out from our jaunt to San Francisco yesterday, although he said he was not nearly as tired or sore as the other time he was out of bed for several hours. His buddies all had to be in Hawaii today and that tugged at my heart, knowing how much their mothers are missing them already.

Casey arrives in Palo Alto tomorrow afternoon and I leave Tuesday to return to Deming. We are trading places so I can say goodbye to my Kindergartners and help pack up my room for the summer. I'm excited to see my students' end of year program. I know it will be great.

This facility is still planning on Travis leaving Friday. Tomorrow morning I have a teleconference with Center for the Intrepid and after that I'm hoping we make a reservation to fly Travis home. As soon as I know something for sure I will put it on the website. I don't want to post a time and then have to change it later.

My best to all of you and I will see many of you around Deming soon.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 19, 2007

Casey called and reported that the golf tournament was amazing. We continue to be astounded at the wonderful people we know. I wish I had been there, but my sister-in-law, Jacquie, reportedly took lots of pictures. I understand there were flags lining the first fairway. That, in itself, must have been beautiful to see. Thank you to all the people who planned and organized the event, donated or bought items for the silent auction, played in the tournament, bought and/or wore a t-shirt, provided BBQ or ate BBQ...And that is just the part I know. I'm sure there was lots, lots more. Thank you, thank you, thank you for loving and supporting Travis. There is absolutely no way we can ever say thank you enough.

By the way, my sister, Rhonda, was allowed to play on the team. She may not have been the best player on the team, but I promise she was very entertaining. Those of you who know her are laughing just thinking about it, aren't you?

Our slumber party at the Fisher House continues. Travis's Marine buddy, Steve Chang, arrived around noon and Bruce and Fran Corcoran took us on a sightseeing tour of San Francisco. We drove over the Golden Gate Bridge and went to the look-out area on the hill overseeing the bay and the ocean. We drove down Lombard street and up Hyde street, we drove through Fort Point and the Golden Gate Park, we saw China Town and Little Italy, and Travis was comfortable the entire time! Steve leaves tomorrow morning to return to Hawaii.

Joseph Poquiz and Caitlin brought the baby, Ethan Skyler, over to meet his godfather, Travis. He is darling and it's always nice to hear baby noises. Travis enjoyed holding him and I took lots of pictures. Joseph also returns to Hawaii tomorrow.

Since I leave Tuesday morning I am sadly saying "goodbye" to my local friends. I've come to love them so much and they have been so good to us. Hopefully we will be able to stay in touch.

Have a wonderful day and may God bless you with knowledge of Himself. And may he return to you all the wonderful blessings you have poured on us many times over.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

May 18, 2007

Our Friday night slumber party at the Fisher House is going well. Travis signed out of the hospital at 2:00 this afternoon and we headed to Target to buy a baby gift for Travis's new god son (Joseph and Caitlin have a new baby, Ethan Skyler). Things went well (except that we first went to a specialty shop downtown where I parallel parked -on the first try- and then we realized wheelchairs don't go with curbs; so we headed to Target and the wide open spaces of their parking lot.) We bought our gifts and headed back to the Fisher House only to receive a phone call from the hospital asking if Travis was with me (yes, we had signed out) but we had not told anyone and so Travis had missed his 2:30 medications. Oops, you would expect me to be more aware than that, unless you know me well, and then you would say "sounds just like Cheryl Kae!" Here at the Fisher House several people were cooking out and invited us to join them. Since they had already prepared a wonderful meal, Travis and I contributed cokes. (I know, sounds just like Cheryl Kae!)

This morning, when one of my Fisher House friends checked out, I thought about all I'm learning here, in this little micro-world. At the Fisher House I'm well aware that everyone has a problem, and that no one's situation is any worse or better than anyone else's. We are all at a hard point in our lives and we listen and encourage each other so well. It is really quite nice. And I've thought of how we really represent the world. That all of you have problems, too. And mine is no bigger and no worse than any of yours. And so my friend and I pledged never to forget. To take the love and compassion and caring that we are experiencing now back into the world with us. It reminded me of the Passover, and God telling the Israelites to remember. Maybe I need to think of some kind of ritual to help me remember. I'll keep thinking.

Love to each and everyone of you. I hope there is someone to encourage you and listen to you as you have listened to and encouraged me. Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

PS Wish I could be at the golf tournament, sounds like a LOT of fun. Thank you, all of you who are playing.

May 17, 2007

Travis paid the price for spending so much time in the wheelchair yesterday, he was sore this morning. Dr. Chen said his skin looked ok but to take it very easy today. He stayed on his bed most of the day, asking his therapists to come into his room. This evening he came over to the Fisher House to shower and watched tv laying on my bed. This weekend he has a weekend pass and will spend the entire weekend out of the hospital. It is a practice session for us so that if we run into any problems the therapists can address them next week. We've been practicing in the evenings so that we don't have a problem over the weekend.

Riley called from Iraq today, Travis loved talking to him, and all Travis's buddies are returning to Hawaii on Sunday. Lets keep praying that God will end this war.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 16, 2007

Travis was given a more streamlined wheelchair today so he repeated all the transfers (to and from bed, shower chair, compact car, minivan) and was successful with them all. He got in his chair at 9:00am and stayed in it until 2:30pm with a little 15 min. break in the middle. He said he was really tired and sore, but by 5:30 he wanted to come over to the Fisher House so it must have been more tired than sore. We went to the hospital cafeteria for lunch and our friend Dave Benson had to search long and hard to find us. Then about 6:00 our friend Barbara Ralston called and said "I'm in Travis's room but he's not. It's wonderful. Where are you two?"

Our social worker here in Palo Alto has been in contact with the social worker in Hawaii in charge of wounded Marines. I think the paperwork is started, or at least the talking about the paperwork has started. I will keep you posted as I get information.

I know there is a concern in each of your lives other than Travis, and so I thank you again for the time and energy you spend on us. I continue to pray that God multiply it back to you.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 15, 2007

Today (the 15th) was our little webmaster Courtney's, 17th birthday. Hope you had a wonderful birthday, Courtney!

Travis said his shower today was "awesome." He dropped the soap once and it had to be retrieved, but other than that he is good to go in the shower. After supper he started playing in his wheelchair, trying to pop wheelies and balance on the back wheels. Even though he has "tippers" (legs behind the back wheels that are to help prevent tipping backwards), I kept warning him not to get wild and fall backwards and have head trauma when we're trying to leave the head trauma hospital. Richard, the recreational therapist, saw him and brought him a bicycle helmet "just in case." It was fun watching him have fun.

California's First Lady, Maria Shriver, was the guest of the Fisher House and Polytrama Unit today. She was very, very nice. Travis was in his wheelchair and she sat in a chair beside him, talking for a good 10 minutes. She seemed to be in no hurry, asking him lots of open ended questions about Marines, the hospital, the incident, his injuries. She was very warm and genuine, and she made it very easy for Travis to talk to her. One of the things he said was "Look at all I still have, I have my arms and hands and I have my head. Even now I can do almost anything. Why would I be down?" Amen.

Read an article in the newspaper today that people who feel life is unfair are more likely to have high blood pressure and heart disease. I hope you see life as good and know that God is, too.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

May 14, 2007

"Oh, what a beautiful morning, oh, what a beautiful day. I have a beautiful feeling everything's going my way"(musical notes). We had a family meeting with our social worker, doctors, and therapists this morning. Travis was able to attend for the first time. Everyone is in agreement that Travis is on track to be discharged from Palo Alto on Friday May 25th. Center for the Intrepid would like him to arrive in San Antonio the 8th or 9th of June and be ready for evaluations on Monday, June 11. Tomorrow Travis will try taking a shower for the first time since long before his injury. (He said it was so cold in Iraq in the winter that a water bottle would freeze while he stood on guard duty for 6 hours. Who would want to shower very often?) He is going to be given a weekend pass to stay with me in the Fisher House for a trial run and he needs to increase his time in a wheelchair daily to build endurance.

Friday he transferred easily into a car, so today PT/OT helped him with a transfer into a minivan. Even though the front seat of a minivan is higher than the wheelchair, Travis had no trouble. The middle seat was a greater test of strength and skill. The minivan was on a slope and Travis was on the low side which made the seat MUCH higher than the wheelchair. He checked for handholds several times and could not find any to support his weight. I announced that it looked like it wasn't going to work and Karen the OT said she would agreed with me if it were anyone but Travis. About that time Travis turned his wheelchair around and faced the rear of the van. He was then at a different angle and he lifted himself up into the seat. Once there, he spun around and sat in the chair correctly. Karen elbowed me and said, "See what I mean?" He came out of the seat the same way. It was pretty exciting.

Joseph Poquiz, his mother, and his cousin took me sightseeing in San Francisco today. We went across the Golden Gate Bridge, saw Alcatraz, drove down Lombard Street (the zigzag street shown in many movies), went to Fisherman's Wharf, saw the seals, and ate seafood. We were back with Travis by 5:15. It was as perfect as it could be.

Mike Watson and his girlfriend Christina came to visit Travis again, this time bringing Mike's mother, Sandy, with them. We had a great time. She said she was glad to meet Travis because she was having a hard time believing he was doing as well as I indicated on this website but now she had seen it with her own eyes.

Last night I wrote about the city of Canton Ohio. I now have the story straight. Scott and Melissa Warner, parents of Marine Pvt. Heath Warner, are from Canton, Ohio. Pvt. Warner was one of Travis friends from his unit, killed in action in Iraq. The Warners ask the Mayor of Canton to make the commendation and they are the ones who brought Travis the commemorative football from the NFL Hall of Fame. Mr. and Mrs. Warner were in the area visiting the Poquiz family whom they got to know after their son was killed. Having gotten to know the Poquiz family myself, I know that God has used them to strengthen and comfort the Warners.

That's what much of life is about, isn't it. Encouraging others while pointing to the Father. May he teach us how.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 13, 2007

I returned to find Travis with a smile on his face and a room full of food, gifts, and empty pizza boxes. It felt a little like the parents had left for the weekend and the teenagers had a party, but Travis is 21 and it is his room, not my house. Apparently Travis had visitor after visitor after visitor, all bearing gifts and food. Knowing I was gone, all our local friends checked in on him; Trevor's cousin drove in to hang-out on Saturday; Poquiz and family came by; Travis's SSgt from Hawaii came on Sunday with his wife, kids, and parents. The SSgt brought Travis a banner with the words "Stay motivated" and signed by lots of the men from his unit. The mayor of Canton, Ohio sent Travis a citation commending him for "putting his life in harm's way to protect others" along with an NFL Hall of Fame football and pictures of Pvt. Heath Warner, a Marine who was killed. Someone even came by and gave Travis a Mother's Day gift to give to me, a beautiful silver bracelet from Tiffany's.

This mother had a great day, hope you did, too.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

May 12, 2007

The shower for Haley was elegant. It was fun seeing so many friends and catching up on what has been happening in their lives.

Travis called and was having a good time with Trevor. They were playing the Nintendo Wii and having a ball. Travis is expecting a SSgt. to visit tomorrow.

Next Saturday is a benefit golf tournament/ BBQ for Travis here in Deming. My brother, sister, husband, and daughter Lauren are one of the teams. All weekend the two men have teased my sister about being "on the bubble" (at risk of being dropped from the team). It's been fun bantering to hear, wish I could come home again to join the fun.

Casey and I have decided to hire a housekeeper. Any of you Demingites know someone who might be interested in coming over to help us once a week? Call Casey and let him know.

I'm going to my own church tomorrow! Can't wait!! Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 11, 2007

All seems well with Travis and Trevor. When I called, Travis said he and Trevor had taken a tour of the Fisher House and everything was fine. When I ask about his therapies he reported that he had transferred easily to both a commode and a shower chair. He had also been taken outside to practice a vehicle transfer. A special board was laid across to span the distance from the vehicle seat to his wheelchair but he had made it no problem. Can you believe his progress in just a short time?

I received another call from our social worker at the Center For the Intrepid (CFI) letting us know the CFI physician assigned to Travis has reviewed Travis's medical reports and thinks CFI has a program to help Travis. Travis will go to CFI for an evaluation to see if he is ready to be an out-patient in their program. If he is not, they will probably set him up in another rehab. center in San Antonio to learn the basic skills necessary. (This makes it really exciting too hear what he accomplished yesterday in PT/OT.) If he is ready, he will live will us at the Fisher House for a couple of weeks to get comfortable before moving into the dorm. Because the evaluation clinics take place on Mondays, it is best to arrive on a Friday or Saturday. She said they are expecting Travis to arrive on June 8th or 9th, get settled over the weekend, and report to clinic on Monday June 11th. My stomach jumped up into my throat, and I started asking all kinds of questions about how it works, what if it doesn't, oh my gosh... She was so kind in her response, that all patients and families get nervous about changing facilities (after all, she said, you already have the old facility staff broken-in and they know how to help you) and she would be worried if we weren't a little nervous. She reminded me that Palo Alto has done this many times before and I don't have to know it all. She suggested Travis spend a lot of time with me in the Fisher House so we can both see what we need to learn before he comes home for 10 days. A plan will also be made to keep up Travis's skills and physical condition while he is at home. Wow, there is a lot to discuss with Travis and Palo Alto when I return Sunday night.

Lauren's band concert last night was terrific and Haley's shower today is sure to be lovely. Everyone in Deming is so encouraging. I love you all.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 10, 2007

I'm at home for the weekend. My sister, Rhonda, met me at the airport in El Paso and drove me to Las Cruces where we met up with Lauren and Casey. We went out to eat with Martin and Jacquie (my brother and his wife), and Kim and Ed Allbright (my cousin and her husband). They jokingly said that they all wanted to see me just so they would make the website! Funny, guys. Wish I had a group picture to post. (Now THAT would be funny) (Not really, just teasing)

We texted Travis several times, he seems to have handled the day well. Said there is no one in the room to talk to but the nurses have helped him when he needed something. Dave Benson took him a fancy burger for supper and Travis said it was FANTASTIC. Thanks, Dave.

Remember when I bragged about not having housework to do in Palo Alto? Well, I have some housework to do here tomorrow. But it's great to be home!

Love to you all, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 9, 2007- Evening Update

Nothing too dramatic happening with Travis. Here are some little tidbits. The meeting concerning Travis has been changed to Monday morning at 9:00. Today he did a cardio workout on a bicycle type machine which you pedal using your arms. He's spending more time each day in a wheelchair being careful not to stress his skin. He was fitted with a pair of bicycle type shorts hoping to squeeze his legs slightly and improve circulation. That has been known to help with phantom pain. I'll keep you updated.

Trevor Milbourn is flying out to spend time with Travis this weekend. I'm returning to Deming Thursday evening. Lauren has a band concert on Friday evening and Haley a wedding shower on Saturday morning. Hopefully I have left everything important (like the number for pizza delivery) where the guys can find it.

I'm not expecting Trevor and Travis to have much to say for updates this weekend so news will be sparse. Hopefully they'll pass on any important information.

I look forward to seeing many of you while I'm home.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

May 9, 2007- Morning Update

7:00am California time - You are not going to believe what God has just done. I'm awakened this morning by the ringing of the phone, and a voice says "...I'm the social worker from the Center for the Intrepid in San Antonio. I called to discuss our program with you and see if we are a match for Travis's goals and capabilities". How like God, if I hadn't experienced the fear yesterday I might not have acknowledged His provision in the phone call. This phone call has come right after my fear and just before the meeting here with doctors and therapists so I am more prepared! HAVE A GREAT DAY!

May 8, 2007

The old giant named "fear" sneaked up on me today. (see update for Mar 18, 2007) As you know, the plan is to have Travis discharged from this facility by May 30 and admitted to BAMC Center for the Intrepid in San Antonio the first week of June. Tomorrow there is a meeting for all the therapists, Dr.s, and social workers to go over the plan with me. A teleconference is being discussed so I can talk to BAMC and get an idea of what will happen once we are there. And a dread came over me. What if Travis is not ready. Or, what if everyone THINKS Travis is ready but he's not, and we leave this facility too soon. What if we arrive in San Antonio and they expect more than Travis can do. What if I can't get everything organized for Casey and he has trouble packing up all our stuff. I've enjoyed all my new California friends so much, what if I never see them again. The Giant taunted and called - and for a few moments I listened and shook - but soon I remembered the most common command in scripture and decided to "fear not." The Lord has brought us this far, what would make me think He would desert us now? Would you join me in praying that just as God decides when to make the seasons change, He will also decide when to make this season in our lives change.

Other than that, it was a typical day in Palo Alto. During speech therapy Travis is reviewing the skills necessary to pass the GED test and during PT/OT he is still lifting weights, stretching, and learning to make transfers.

Hope you walk with God and fear not,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 7, 2007

Travis can now sit on the side of the bed and play catch with a medicine ball. Sometimes he would have to reach to the side but he could usually still keep his balance. Yeah!

Dr. Chen increased one of Travis's medicines today to help with his phantom pain. Sadly, it is the medicine that increases his blood pressure and heart rate. Will you help me pray that no damage will be done to his body while he needs this medicine and that the need for the medicine will decrease.

Another of Travis's friends from Hawaii and Iraq came to visit. LCpl Bobby Fresenius and his dad drove up from the Orange County area. More stories and more laughter. It was great. They brought Travis a signed magazine with Fergie on the cover. Bobby's dad works for her and said she was glad to sign it in support of the troops. I mention these things only because I am so amazed at how willing people are to support our wounded warriors. And all of you are examples of that. Willing to stop your lives for a few minutes to update yourself on Travis's condition and lift up prayers on our behalf.

Thank you and God bless you,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

P.S. Lauren shot her personal best at the State golf tourney today. GO WILDCATS!

May 6, 2007

I went sightseeing today! One of my local friends, Steve Baughman, picked me up (IN A CONVERTABLE!) and drove me up the peninsula toward San Francisco (close enough to get a glimpse of the Golden Gate Bridge) and then to his home at Half Moon Bay for a cookout. His wife, Kathy, is just darling and lunch was wonderful. We took the scenic route back on a curvy mountain road through a redwood and eucalyptus forest. The air smelled delicious. It was an absolutely gorgeous day, the weather couldn't have been more perfect, and the company was delightful. Every once in a while I would have a little twinge of guilt that Casey and Travis were neither one able to go with us. Then I remembered that Casey left for the State Golf Tournament with Lauren today and I'm missing out on some fun stuff, too. And Travis? Steve brought Travis the rest of the London Broil and all the fixings to make sandwiches for supper so he wasn't totally left out.

Travis has been struggling with phantom pain for several days. He's going to discuss it with Dr. Chen tomorrow. Travis is handling his whole situation very well, but when he is in pain he is grumpy. I'm very thankful he's not dealing with the pressure sores, bandages, and spasms, too.

We're still on schedule for Travis to come to Haley's wedding in June and Casey and I are planning on trading places around May 20. I want to be able to say goodbye to my Kindergarten students before they leave school for the summer.

Thanks for caring,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 5, 2007

A quiet, easy day. Our friends, Dave and Debbie Benson, and Joseph Poquiz and Navy Corpsman Hughes along with Caitlin and 2 other young ladies, came to visit. Both groups came bearing gifts of food, Travis is getting SO spoiled!

He and I played several card games involving addition and regrouping. One of them, Zeus on the Loose, was a gift from Jaclyn on Easter. It required keeping a running total of the value of the played cards, adding and subtracting cards to equal 100. Travis was a lot faster than me (I teach Kindergarten, I don't have to be fast at that!) and he kept saying "Come on, Mom, let's go." I had also recently taught him the basics of a card game called Casino and thought he seemed to have a lot of trouble understanding it. Today we played again and even when I added in the fine points of scoring, which change the strategy, he beat me as often as I beat him. It feels good to see his mind working so well.

Tomorrow I'm heading to church and soon after have been invited to the Half Moon Bay area for lunch and to see the sights. The weather is suppose to be beautiful and I am really looking forward to the trip. I think I heard something about bringing Travis back some delicious food, so he is encouraging me to go!

And so I encourage you to be fed spiritually, physically, and emotionally, as well. Taste and see that the Lord is good. Psalm 34:8
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 4, 2007

God is pouring blessing upon blessing on us. Seven o'clock this morning the two Lt.s, Steele and Corcoran, came to visit Travis. Poquiz joined them, and the room filled with laughter and stories of all the different personalities and situations encountered in Iraq. Such neat guys.

Travis continues to improve in PT/OT areas. Today he was sitting on the edge of the bed for so long that it wasn't even timed. He transfers easily from the bed to the wheelchair and can transfer from the wheelchair to a bathtub seat. What a difference a week makes!

At 4:30, the Stanford golf coaches and 2 team members came to meet Travis bringing with them a backpack full of Stanford golf shirts, caps, and sweatshirts. (The Dodson closets are going to be full of sports shirts and caps and the Dodson boys are loving it!) They ask Travis lots of questions about Iraq and listened to his stories, and then answered our questions and told stories about college and professional golf. The coach, Conrad Ray, played for Stanford the same time as Tiger Woods and played the opening practice round at the 2006 US Open in Pinehurst with Tiger. He had an absolutely hysterical story to tell about playing with Tiger, and I kept thinking I WAS THERE! Lauren and I followed Tiger around on his front 9 that morning. The assistant coach, Sam Puryear, Jr., was previously a writer for Golf Magazine and at one time covered the US Amputee Open, so of course he had some stories to tell in which we were VERY interested. He assured Travis that he would play golf again and most probably play very well. Casey, bring your clubs when you come back to Palo Alto, you've been invited to play a round with these guys and Travis is going to caddy from the cart! We wish these neat guys good luck at Nationals, they are ranked #1 in the nation and we are rooting for them!

I'm rooting for you, too. You mean so much to me. May God bless you with knowledge of Himself, the greatest blessing of all.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 3, 2007

Casey spent the morning with Travis. He enjoyed watching Travis sit and put on his shirt. The OT is trying out a variety of wheelchairs to loan him. After deciding which is the best style and size, Travis will be loaned a chair here and allowed to return it to the VA in San Antonio after Haley's wedding.

I had a special treat this morning. Debbie Benson, one of the locals who has befriended me, teaches PE at an elementary school just minutes from the hospital. She invited me to come visit the school and had made arrangements for me to spend time in two Kindergarten classrooms. It was wonderful. The students were adorable and the teachers welcoming. It's nice to know that 5 year olds are very much the same whether they live in the Silicon Valley or on the border. The teachers were the same, also, struggling to keep the integrity of a kindergarten program while meeting the demands of No Child Left Behind. It was a terrific time of professional reflection and personal distraction.

Two more Marines are visiting Travis tomorrow, Lt. Steele and Lt. Corcoran. Travis was cute tonight trying to put the military in terms I could understand. He told me that if he and his buddies were the kids in the class, Lt. Steele would be the equivalent of their teacher, and then he went on to tell me which were the other classes, the other teachers, the principal, superintendent, and other administrators. It made me laugh but it was definitely an image I could understand.

We continue to be blessed by all of you. We love you.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

P.S. Lauren got her braces off today. :) She sent me a picture and she looks beautiful.

May 2, 2007

The Purple Heart ceremony was very nice. About 50 people; patients and parents, doctors, nurses, therapists, support staff, veterans, and friends, filled the dining room on Travis's ward. The Semper Fi group brought a cake decorated with a Purple Heart and Travis's name. Sandwiches and chips were served. Major Matthews spoke about their job in Iraq and how successful their unit had been in the Haditha triad. It was very, very nice. I will get pictures to Courtney for the website very soon.

Major Matthews is a wonderful man but we already knew that from his e-mails, didn't we? The Marines try to send a commanding officer to visit each injured Marine after the officers' return from deployment. It felt so good to get to meet Major Matthews after talking with him several times and exchanging emails those first days. When someone has helped you, you feel such bond and a deep sense of gratitude. He commented that he now checks Travis's website to get accurate information for his reports. He said doctors at this stage of recovery are hard to reach for info and that one of his superiors has asked how he gets such detailed information and wanted to know if the reports were accurate. Major Matthews said he got the info right from Travis's mother. Thanks again, Courtney, for doing this website for us. :)

Two more of Travis's friends arrived last night (or maybe I should say early this morning) and stayed through today. They are both machine gunners, too, and Travis was very happy that they were with him today.

The plastic surgeon looked at Travis's wounds this afternoon. He said NO MORE BANDAGES! HURRAY! Travis's skin is at the point where it will finish healing by itself. And Travis's skin was attached to some type of electric current machine to stimulate cell reconstruction deep in the skin, part of the "get Travis to Haley's wedding" plan. All of this happened while I was out of the room (leave the room for 5 min. you miss something big, stay for 5 hours and nothing significant happens) so I might have to amend some of this info later.

I've been thinking about God today. About how quickly He has responded to our request for Travis to be at Haley's wedding and about how my feelings of gratitude toward the Marines who have helped me is a smaller picture of how much gratitude I should feel toward our Lord, who has helped me even more!

May your heart be full of gratitude to the Almighty for all the help He has given you and for all the wonderful blessings you have.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

May 1, 2007

As reported to Travis and me, it is the plan of the staff of Palo Alto Hospital to have Travis ready to attend Haley's wedding on June 2 and then transfer to Brooks Army Medical Center in San Antonio to continue his rehab! There is a staff meeting here every Tuesday morning at 8:00. Travis was the focus of today's meeting with everyone discussing what needs to be accomplished to have Travis ready to exit this program no later than May 30. How exciting! It was another boost for Travis's moral. They also discussed how to bandage his leg so that they are not continually pulling on tape that is stuck to his skin (an idea was tried last Friday, but the stuff fell off his skin during the night). So the experts from Spinal Cord Injuries came with new sticky stuff to try. The only drawback was that it took over an hour to actually get the new bandage in place and Travis was pretty aggravated over that, but I had enough green chili "soup" left to make him another enchilada so he cheered up quickly.

Casey arrived tonight and we had our sports memorabilia spread out for him to see. He couldn't believe all that Dave Edwards brought from the Diamondbacks. THANK YOU SO MUCH, DAVE! Now that he has seen the gifts from the Masters, I can let you all in on the excitement. Our new friend Amy, who went to the Masters, played in a Pro-Am at her community in Florida. The Pro on her team was Luke Donald. She bought a hat and took it to the dinner, and Luke signed the hat. She also ask Jack Nicholas and his son to sign it, and I believe she said Jack then took it around to lots of other professionals to be signed. Travis now has a golf prize that Casey is very jealous of!

I can also let you all in on tomorrow's excitement. Major Matthews is bringing Travis's Purple Heart with him from Hawaii. The hospital has notified the newspaper and invited a few people. A few of Travis's friends are in town and they are coming also, along with the hospital staff and patients and the new friends that Travis and I have made here in Palo Alto. This is not a club that anyone ever hopes to join, but if you do join it, it is quite a brotherhood. The ceremony is going to be nicely done.

Casey has returned with incredible stories of friends, acquaintances, and complete strangers sharing moments and giving encouragement to him everywhere he goes in New Mexico. I want to let you know that Travis was very choked up by the little girl who sent him her tooth fairy money. All of you are doing so much. I continue to pray that it all be returned to you many times over. And I do know that God is being glorified.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 30, 2007

What a great, great day! Dr. Chen came in early this morning and checked Travis's wounds and they all look TERRIFIC! Most of the scabs have fallen off the stitches on his amputations; new skin is covering the pressure sores, the skin grafted onto his longer leg is turning brown, everything just looked SO much better. As a matter of fact, Dr. Chen said he did not even want the wounds checked again until the bandages were changed at bedtime tonight so Travis did not have to endure any tape pulling at all today. Dr. Chen feels certain the sores opened last week because of "shearing", dragging his skin on the bed when he moved, so I was given the job of helping Travis lift his bottom with a little pad so that the pad dragged instead of his skin. Worked great.

Travis was cleared for PT/OT and sat easily for 5 min. on the side of the bed. I took a video with my camera of him putting on his shirt; it was much easier than last time.

Right after lunch he wheeled himself to the eye clinic in a wheelchair. Dr. Rice is very pleased with the surgery and said there is a tiny bit of old blood behind Travis's retina but it is not in his straight ahead vision area and should not cause a problem. Dr. Cockerham is delighted that Travis has not gotten a cataract (at least not yet) and said he would like to see Travis in another 4 months to remove the stitches from the cornea (done in Iraq) and we will discuss then whether or not Travis needs a cornea transplant. He said Travis will be "gliding along" for the next 4 months and his vision will continue to improve. Travis was able to see a man's mustache on the television today so it has already improved dramatically.

For his afternoon PT session, Travis was in the gym and sat easily for well over 5 minutes WHILE LIFTING 5 LB WEIGHTS WITH EACH ARM! It is very exciting to see him progressing so quickly.

Today Travis received a new Nintendo WII as a gift. We had a ball trying out all the new games. At one point I was actually ahead in golf and I suggested we quit (so I could always brag that I had beaten him) but he wouldn't hear of it so I ended up losing. Later one of the other guys Travis's age wandered into his room so I gave up my spot and headed back to the Fisher House. I have a feeling my role in evening entertainment is about to change, won't that be great?

Travis looks and feels a lot better. Several people commented on how well he looks today. He has been virtually pain free for several days and I know that has helped his body relax and heal faster. I'm praying that:

1. he be able to attend Haley's wedding
2. his vision continue to improve
3. he be done with sores and infections and spasms
4. God continue to prove Himself mighty through His work in Travis's life and situation

And I pray for you.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

P.S. Congratulations to the Deming High School Band on their State Championship and to the Deming High School Golf Team for their District Championship. Good luck at state!

April 29, 2007

Just a nice, sweet day. Auntie Gellen left about 10:15, I went to church, Travis napped, then I napped, we watched a movie, and played some games. Tomorrow he will be seen by the ophthalmologist and I'm glad to report that for the last 2 days he has been virtually pain free!

April 28, 2007

What a day!! You are not going to believe it! It must have really started yesterday afternoon. Staff Sergeant Kefu came to visit Travis in the hospital. He is part of the 2/3 (Travis's unit in Hawaii) although he explained to me he is in the mounted patrol (meaning he rides in a humvee) and Travis's good, good friend LCpl Steve Chang is his driver. On Feb. 14 he had just finished his patrol and arrived back at the FOB (Forward Operating Base) when a call came over the radio that 2 Marines were down. He ordered the men back into the humvee and they became the ambulance that drove Travis and Morris to the helicopter. While he visited with Travis here in the hospital, I learned lots of details about the event, but even more about the character of the men who fight for our country.

That learning continued this evening. About 3:00 Joseph Poquiz dropped in on Travis and a short time later was joined by LCpl Mike Watson and his girlfriend, Christina. Watson and Travis became friends during Boot Camp, were together at SOI, and he was Travis's first roommate in Hawaii. We were having a good time playing a new game they had brought Travis when we decided we were hungry, so Auntie Gellen (Casey's sister) and I went to order and bring back the requested pizza. A few minutes after we ordered, Bonnie Pekron Johannson called and said, "Cheryl Kae, we're standing outside building 7 at the hospital, may we come on in?" She had called earlier in the day, but was trying to make connections with an air conditioner repair man and I figured it would be Sunday afternoon before they came over to Palo Alto. So after a good laugh, she, Hali, Triston, and John went on in knowing that I wouldn't be there for a good 30 min. We finally arrived with the pizza and while we were passing out slices, Travis's roommate from NMMI, Roy Hyde, came in with his dad. What a group, 11 people who's only connection was that we know and care for Travis. I kept trying to be the hostess and also watch in case Travis showed signs of overload. But you know what, it was delightful! The boys stayed near Travis, talking and looking at pictures of Iraq on the computer while the adults moved in and out of the conversation and the room. Bonnie and John ask if they could pray over Travis and so we joined hands and found that we had another connection, our love and trust in the Lord. Roy and his dad stayed for quite a while after that, and when they left, Travis smiled and said, "What a great day!" The 3 of us laughed at our panic of so many people arriving at the same time, but it was wonderful and I loved getting to know the boys who are such a big part of Travis's life. Our military people are awesome, from the generals all the way through the enlisted ranks!

Physically, Travis had PT today, working on stretching his hamstring and making sure his skin was loose enough on his leg to allow easy movement of his bones and joints.

I'm exhausted in a good way, talk to you all tomorrow.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 27, 2007

Richard the Recreation Therapist planned a trip to Chili's for the in-patients around Travis's age. Travis was invited, but then Karen the OT found a pressure sore that was raw so Travis was ordered back to bed, no wheelchairs, no sitting on the edge of the bed. :( Richard was sweet enough to take our order and bring us take-out.:) Next Friday he is planning a trip, at Travis's request, to Cold Stone ice cream. Hopefully we will be able to make it.

Travis and Rob, the neuro-psych therapist, must have talked about foods during one of their sessions. Yesterday Rob showed up at Travis's session with a take-out container of green chili soup from a local restaurant. I told Travis "they may call it soup, but we call it enchilada sauce." So I made green enchiladas for lunch yesterday. Then I had to clean up the kitchen :( but Travis thought the enchiladas were so good it was worth it. :)

Dave Benson, the local who had me over for BBQ, brought Travis his favorite cookies today. They are the eagle brand/peanut butter cookies with a Hershey's kiss on top. While at their home, Debbie Benson asked what she could give Travis because she really wanted to give him something. When I suggested the cookies she said they were a favorite of her family, too. But Dave told us today that no one else was allowed to eat a cookie, they were all for Travis! :)

"Auntie Gellen" is here from Denver. She is Casey's sister. I had a bit of a melt down today so it is really nice to have someone close come to visit.

Because Travis had re-injured one of his pressure sores, the doctors all had to come look at it, and the nurses all had to come look at it, and the therapists all had to come look at it, and so, it seemed, did everyone else in the hospital. Poor Travis had finally had enough of rolling over and having tape pulled away from his skin. He didn't say anything and he kept cooperating, but I could see it in his face. No one was mean or impolite, they were all doing their jobs, it was just a hard thing to have to put up with. But now they have adhered some kind of rubber to his skin and the tape adheres to the rubber, so for about 2 weeks it should not hurt to have his wounds checked.:)

At least on a day that was a "pain in the rear", Travis had some great food to help ease the discomfort. :) May you recognize the great delights the Lord provides to help ease your discomfort. Love, Cheryl Kae

April 26, 2007

When Dr. Cockerham removed the bandage I was standing close to Travis. He said he could see my dark hair. The nurse moved her hand in front of Travis's face, about 2 feet away, and Travis could see it moving but not see individual fingers. Dr. Cockerham explained the cornea injury to me in simpler terms. Because of the laceration which will later probably turn into a scar, it is as though Travis has a stick in front of his eye. If Travis were 5 years old, his brain would quickly learn to look around the opaque area. But he said Travis is still quite young and his mind might learn to do that, but it will be slower so it will be a while before we know. I ask if there was any kind of therapy that would speed up the learning and he said no research had shown any therapy helpful yet. He also explained that because of the laceration (and later scar) that Travis's cornea is no longer smooth so the light coming into the eye gets scattered. That will be correctable with a contact lens when the cornea is healed. To sum all that up, Travis does not have good vision yet although it is improved, and time will tell what kind of vision he gains over time. Travis was in much less pain today but it is still painful. He has to wear a hard, protective patch over it for about a week to prevent bumping it, rubbing it, or pressing it against the bed.

We had a party in Travis's room tonight! We invited Taller Travis and his mother over to watch Night In The Museum with us. One of the nurses stuck her head in and said "Oh my, a room full." The boys thought the movie was cute, but we mother's were laughing out loud.

Casey's sister and a couple of Marines from Travis's unit will be here this weekend and Major Matthews will be here Wednesday. We're looking forward to our visitors.

Hope you all had a great day,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 25, 2007

Dr. Rice, who removed the vitreous jelly from Travis's eye, reported to me that the surgery had gone well. The blood filled jelly was removed and exchanged with saline fluid. The iris was somewhat released from the stitch in the cornea that was holding it out of place, but Dr. Cockerham was not able to release it completely because it would have caused damage to the lens and so far the lens is in perfect condition. That does not mean that it will stay in perfect condition, it could develop a cataract at any time. Retina and optic nerve in the middle area of Travis's sight seem to have no damage. If there is damage it is most likely around the perimeter of his sight. The cornea has the laceration up the front, and because the cornea has no capillaries in it, it is very slow healing. It will probably be 8 more months before it is healed enough to do a corneal transplant if needed. Travis's eye will remain bandaged until 1:00 tomorrow when it will be removed in the ophthalmology office. I have noticed that every eye doctor who has spoken to us uses very conservative terms such as "went well" instead of "successful", "so far" instead of "is", "8 more months", and the original "cautiously optimistic." Nonetheless we should know something tomorrow at 1:00.

You will not believe who called to check on Travis today…Major Matthews, our original contact from Iraq. He is back in Hawaii with Travis's battalion, has been checking the website frequently, and wanted to call to see how Travis is doing today. He plans on being in California on May 1st and is going to come and see Travis. I teared up and felt overwhelmed with thanksgiving. I am so grateful for his help during such a hard time. In my mind he somehow represents all the initial care Travis received. I'm anxious to meet him and wish I could meet everyone who has helped Travis in any way.

I will try to post right after Travis's appointment tomorrow, but that was my plan today, also. As soon as we came back to the room from surgery the pain hit and Travis was MISERABLE from 1:00 until 4:30. Pain medication finally kicked in and things are now calmer in his room.

Just as with Major Matthews, I am grateful to you and wish I could meet each one of you.

With much love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 24, 2007

We had a great day with Haley! I could tell I've been talking about Haley's wedding to whoever will listen because EVERYONE who met her asks if she is the sister who is getting married. I made sure that everyone knows Travis's goal main goal right now is to be able to attend his sister's wedding! Haley and I talked wedding for a while and we know that was the highlight of Travis's day. :)

Travis was allowed to get into a wheelchair for 30 min. today so Haley and I took him on a tour of the Fisher House. There is an incline going up the lawn to the front door and Travis wheeled himself up it, no problem. He also worked with some weights in the PT gym, strengthening his hip and back muscles in preparation for his new legs.

His surgery is scheduled for around 10:00 tomorrow morning. We are expecting a great outcome.

Thank you for standing with us.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 23, 2007

Travis's good buddies Angel Baeza and Steven Mayberry spent the day with him today. Angel and Steven have just completed Boot Camp and are heading back to the School Of Infantry at Camp Pendleton. The day was filled with male humor, laughter, and food. I spent most of the day doing my thing at the Fisher House and running around town to pick up another type of food or beverage for them. When I took the guys to their hotel late last night, they both commented on Travis's good attitude and Steven said, "He's still the same ole Travis!" Praise God from whom all blessing flow.

Haley arrived for a good brother/sister visit last night about 9:30pm. She is very pleasantly surprised by her brother's progress. When Travis rolled over to his side I ask Haley if she could believe how easy that was for him now, and she reminded us that she had returned to Phoenix very early in the process and had never even seen him try to turn over. I'm so glad she was able to fly out here even if it is for just a short time. They have a lot of catching up to do on Travis's progress and Haley's life.

Medically, there is not much to mention. He popped a pressure sore open over the weekend, which is going to slow down the occupational therapy (sitting up, putting on his shirt, etc.) for a while. He has his eye surgery early tomorrow morning, he is either the 1st or 2nd surgery, so hopefully his pressure sores will heal while he is already slowed down for his eye recovery.

I know God has not forgotten our petitions for restored vision in Travis's right eye, but that is of course our top prayer request for the next 36 hours. When I first heard about Travis's eye while he was in Iraq, I prayed, "Lord, he has lost so much, couldn't he have vision in both eyes?" Now I see how much he still has, but my heart's desire is still for restored vision. I know God is able, I pray that He is willing.

So many changes to your lives, also, during these 9 weeks of Travis's progress. I pray for your losses, God's will in your lives, and your heart's desire, also.

With much love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 22, 2007

Our day didn't really get started until about noon. I slept in a little, Travis slept in a lot. He was just rousing when I came back from church. Our local friends, Bill and Barbara, dropped by in the afternoon and watched the end of the D-Back/Giants game and another couple, Dave and Debbie, took me to their home and cooked out pork chops. We brought Travis a pork chop and delicious strawberry shortcake. The Navy Seals dropped by a few at a time to visit with Travis and the rest of the evening was spent watching silly shows on TV. It was a very nice Sunday.

April 21, 2007

During occupational therapy today Travis sat on the edge of the bed for 3 minutes. Yesterday he was only able to go 1 1/2 min. and most of that time his arms were out in front of him to help him keep his balance, but today he was able to cross his arms for a lot of the 3 minutes. Then she handed him a shirt and told him to put it on, he was successful but it was a good thing the therapists were right beside him!

Joseph Poquiz arrived in California this morning and came straight to the hospital to see Travis. He brought an Iraqi flag signed by everyone in Travis's platoon. While he and Travis got caught up, his mom took me to lunch with Caitlin and Joseph's cousin. We knew those two needed some time alone to talk about all that they've been through. When we came back from lunch, Travis was in the wheelchair for his afternoon PT and Joseph was wheeling him around. One of the other injured boys, Elliot, is a Navy Seal and his unit is just home from Iraq, also. Travis and Joseph gravitated to Elliot's room and enjoyed the company of about 10 Seals who are visiting Elliot. Later they included a steak for Travis when they cooked steaks out on the patio. Travis is looking forward to more camaraderie tomorrow during his wheelchair time.

Tomorrow is Sunday and Casey and I should both be at church for the first time since Palm Sunday for him and the week before that for me. Hope you join us in worshipping our risen Savior.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 20, 2007

DEMING IS THE BEST!! First thing this morning we had a visit from a Deming-boy-done-good. Dave Edwards, John Edwards son, who is the trainer for the Arizona Diamondbacks. The D-backs are playing the SF Giants this weekend and Dave took time to drop down to Palo Alto to see Travis. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BELIEVE WHAT HE BROUGHT! Ok, baseball fans, take a deep breath. He brought a #1 jersey with the name DODSON on the back and ALL the team had signed it!!! Is that cool or what! He also brought polo shirts, t-shirts, hats, and sweatshirts for Travis and Casey and a sweatshirt for me. And, by the way, I have now seen TWO World Series rings in the last 2 months. That is surely some kind of record for a LOL from Deming!

Speaking of cool gifts, I want to mention one I'm keeping as a secret from Casey. Amy Perella is one of the people I met at the Fisher House when I met the Fishers. She is the golf enthusiast who went to the Masters. Some gifts have arrived in the mail, but I don't want to go into detail because I want Casey to be surprised.

Enough about our excitement, I know you read this site to find out about Travis's progress. Next week we are skipping Friday. Last Friday was a difficult day and today was also a difficult day. Travis just felt lousy from the moment he woke up. He had his neuro-psych therapy at 9:00, just after Dave had left, but then fell asleep until noon. After lunch he was called to the opthamology clinic which meant he had to transfer over to a gurney. Moving usually causes the spasms to reoccur and adding that on top of the lousy feeling made the day even worse. When we returned about 1 1/2 hours later (it had been considered taking him in a wheelchair, THAT would have been a disaster!) he fell asleep again for a long nap. When he awoke life was SO much better for him. He chatted with his dad on the phone and then we watched the D-back/Giants game on TV (go D-backs!). So do not look for us at TGI-Fridays next week, we're going somewhere to hide.

The ophthalmologists were pleased to hear that Travis could see his hand last night during the movie. They said that was a very good sign. Here are the details of the pre-op conference:
Dr. Rice will perform the vitrectomy, replacing the blood filled jell with saline fluid. Dr. Cockerham will "free up" the iris where it has gotten caught on something (could be a stitch, I'm not sure). He will try not to touch the lens because they are now sure the lens is clear, but touching it will make it cloudy. The cornea is lacerated but stitched up very nicely by the doctor in Iraq. It has not healed completely but will probably have a scar right up the middle about 2/3 of the way. The scar will probably create a fuzzy spot in the middle of Travis's line of sight and so Dr. Cockerham anticipates that Travis will have a corneal transplant at some point.

About 4:00 Travis and I met with Dr. Lai, the attending physician on Travis's team. She reviewed Travis's meds with us, making sure we understood the reason for each one. Next we discussed Palo Alto's goals for Travis and what needs to be accomplished for him to leave this facility and move on to the next stage.

1. His eye surgery and follow up.
2. Wounds healed to the point that a nurse is no longer required for daily care.
3. Calming of the spasms so he can participate in PT regularly.
4. Independent mobility, meaning being able to get from wheelchair to bed, in and out of a car, etc.

She also suggested that we, with the help of the social worker, contact the rehab centers we are interested in and find out what their requirements are. Her suggested rehab centers are Balboa in San Diego and BMAC-Center for the Intrepid in San Antonio. Both have very strong prosthetic programs but she is not sure if they are in-patient or out-patient. If we want to go to a center that is out-patient only, Travis must be able to live in a dorm with a roommate, meaning he must be able to get into his wheelchair and get himself to therapy. It would require he stay in Palo Alto a little longer to get that training. If the center has an in-patient program, then Travis would be in a hospital style room with nurses who would help him and so he could learn the independent skills there. Travis also mentioned wanting to attend Haley's wedding on June 2 in Deming. That in itself requires a substantial amount of independent mobility but it is possible.

Friends, we have a LOT to be in prayer about. Let's ask God to show Himself mighty. Remember, "beating great odds is God's specialty. It is one way He proves to us that He can do the impossible." (Beth Moore) From the first moments of this ordeal, I have asked God to be glorified and to do His will because it is perfect. Let's ask for no less now. But God also wants to give us our hearts desires, and so I'm going to ask for:

• Travis's vision to be restored
• Travis to be able to attend Haley's wedding
• His physical healing to continue
• His health to be restored
• God's selection and timing of the next stage of rehabilitation Blessings multiplied and poured on all of you who stand beside us An end to the war.

May His peace be with you and may you reflect His grace to those around you.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 19, 2007

Travis sat on the edge of his bed today! I could tell how strong his core muscles are going to have to be to balance him because he was only able to sit for about 1 1/2 min. before having to catch himself with his hands. Of course Randy and Karen, PT & OT, were on both sides of him steadying him if he needed it. He did that during both PT periods at 10:00 and at 3:00 (PT has moved to 3:00 each afternoon). It used to be so hard for him to roll over but he can do that easily now. I'm sure the sitting will also develop rapidly.

Randy also stretched out his hip flexors and hamstrings. I was interested in watching Travis sit and hearing what he felt. He commented that his legs were at the angle from his hips that if he had long legs they would be dangling from the bed, but if he tried to scoot farther back onto the bed, he could not sit up straight. Randy said it was because his hamstrings were tight. Travis and I discussed later that if those of us with legs sit in a chair, our hips and thighs make a right angle and we do not feel the pull on our hamstrings until we straighten our legs out in front of us. Now obviously I have not thought much about not having legs until now, but would you have expected Travis's muscles to pull as though he had long legs straight out in front? But of course his hamstring is attached to something and so it pulls tight. I really am finding his rehab fascinating.

The other day Travis mentioned to the eye doctor that he still sees swirls of color before his eyes, but now it seems as though he can see through the swirls a little bit(the dr. went "HMMM" ). Then tonight during our movie he realized that if he held up his hand between his face and the screen he could see his hand and fingers with his bad eye. We're certain that these must be good signs and prayed for restored vision after his surgery.

Just after noon today I was standing by the dining room door when about 8 people Travis's age came into the dining room. They are all part of the Brain Injury Rehabilitation Unit (BIRU) and they eat lunch in the dining room together everyday. I had never seen them until today! After I met them they all went to meet Travis and visited about 30 min. with him. They knew he was here but they hadn't met him because of the contact isolation and hadn't realized it was off. I hadn't met them because I get Travis's tray for him about 11:50 and they come in just after 12:00.

The BIRU is a school that these young people attend to learn life skills again. They balance checkbooks, pay bills, do laundry, ... They live in a dorm setting and class is over at 2:00 each day. Now I see where the recreational therapist fits in, he organizes activities for this group and on weekends they go fishing, to the beach, on picnics, etc. When Travis is able to participate in those activities he will be included and I think some of the guys will stop by and visit Travis some. Just nice to have people your own age to talk with about movies and music.

As always, we had a great time with Michael Walsh, our friend from the DC area. He had a business meeting in town and made time to visit us. Thank you for making time to read about us.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 18, 2007

The plastic surgeon and the wound specialist nurse are so excited about how fast Travis's wounds are healing. There were just a few areas that are not completely healed on his skin graft and the pressure sores are totally covered with new skin. He was allowed to get into a wheelchair today and so Randy the PT looked at the sores before getting into the chair and then examined them after to make sure that they were not harmed. Wish we had thought to do that while in Bethesda.

The ophthalmologist and retinal specialist also came in for another look before the surgery next Wednesday. They said they just wanted to be sure they remembered everything correctly.

Michael Walsh has come to town for a business trip. It has been great to have him back entertaining us. And Joseph Poquiz's fiancé, Caitlin, and her friend, Heather, came to visit this evening. I thought about how nice it must be for Travis to visit with people his own age instead of his mother. (But let's all remember that I am "the chick." haha)

The VA representative is helping me fill out some necessary forms. One of the questions was about specific procedures and the dates they were performed. I used the updates I had written to make sure I was putting down accurate information! We all had a chuckle about it, but I was excited things had been recorded.

Thank you for caring,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 17, 2007

Sometimes you just want to stomp your feet and scream. Travis's spasms really tied him up in knots today from about 12:00-3:00. During that time the plastic surgeon came in to check his pressure wounds, saw the condition Travis was in, and said he would return tomorrow to check them. He also missed PT. But when he awoke from the nap he felt good, even lying on his side for a while to relieve the pressure on his bedsores. He's eating well and in good humor when he's not in pain. Another Travis, I call him Tall Travis because he is 6'6", came by to invite my Travis to go to the dining room and play video games. Hopefully he will be able to soon.

It is wonderful to receive cards, letters, and packages from you. We received 2 packages and 5 letters today. The person who delivers mail commented on the amount Travis receives. Between the mail, the guestbook, and phone calls, we feel loved! Thank you for thinking of us.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 16, 2007

We met another general today, Major General Lehnert, Commanding General of the Marine Corps Installations West. He came into Travis's room and chatted long enough that he actually sat down in a chair beside the bed. A very nice man. Instead of coins, he said he likes to give something a little more unique - he makes pens out of a wood he called "Purple Heart." It really does have a purple tint to it and makes a lovely pen. So I guess Papa will have to fashion a coin holder out of wood with a place to lay a pen in front.

Travis participated fully in all his therapies today. Randy (PT), Karen (OT) and Richard (Rec. T) loaded him on a regular gurney and took him to the PT room where he lifted some weights and stretched his hip flexors. Just as he was about to transfer back to his regular bed I remembered that Ophthalmology wanted to do the measurements on his eye so we wheeled him over to the Ophthalmology office. After the measurements, Dr. Cockerham checked Travis's eye again and said we are good to go on the 25th. Travis seemed to get his pain under control quickly after the transfer back to his bed. He ate supper, talked to his friends back home, and watched Dancing with the Stars with me. We thought Apolo did a great job, how about you?

Prayer requests continue to be:

• his vision and upcoming surgery
• pain management
• bedsores (I think they might be checked tomorrow)
• blood pressure and heart rate (they are lower but could be lower still)
• medications (that they don't cause more problems such as high heart rate)
• therapies (continued participation and good results)
• no infections
• great attitude

Thank you for your prayers on our behalf,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 15, 2007

It is always so good to see home folk, especially if they have moved away from Deming. This morning- Hali and Triston Pekron and their Pekron grandparents, Barbara and Terry, dropped by. As I headed to the parking lot to help them find their way in, I ran into Don Cameron in the hall coming to see Travis, also. So we had a great visit, got caught up on Bonnie and all that Hali and Triston are doing. Hali talked about taking music lessons and learning to read music. Travis got a shocked look on his face and said "Wait a minute; you could play like that and not read music!" And it's amazing to me to see Don on his motorcycle riding all over the country.

Travis was able to roll on his side to watch TV today, something he hadn't been doing because of the pain he's been feeling. I'm certain that was good for his pressure sores. I think all his wounds and sores are going to be checked again on Tuesday or so, I'll be sure and let everyone know how they're doing.

When I read the messages you all send to us I feel so blessed to have such wonderful friends. I feel lucky to have met so many wonderful people in Germany, Bethesda, and now in Palo Alto. And those of you who are far away, I wish we could go out to dinner together and really get to know each other. Maybe that's one of the things we can look forward to in heaven, so let's be sure and look each other up, ok? Do you think we can order a pizza to share, too?

I am SO thankful for all of you and all your prayers. We certainly feel God's presence.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 14, 2007

Travis had a much better day today. Rhonda and I talked a lot last night about what the hospital had said about Travis's needs. It made me remember that Dianne Donaldson, the daughter of a doctor, tries not to ever visit someone in the hospital because her dad always told her it was a place for patients to rest so they can recover. It was very evident today that the calm room helped Travis stay calm and in control of his pain and emotions. The therapists have even hung a sign on Travis's door stating that Travis has required rest time and visits should be limited. Now that he can leave the room, his therapies to teach him how to get out of wheelchairs, etc. are ready to start in earnest, but Friday he was unable to participate in them fully because of the pain. I know I need to learn to run interference a little better and help him manage the little bit of rest time he has.

Rhonda has been shocked at how busy Travis and I are. She said it had never dawned on her that I would be so busy and involved in his therapies. I think she came thinking I needed company and now wants to go home to rest. Coming from MY sister, that is a pretty funny comment!

Thank you for caring enough to read this.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 13, 2007

Today was our 2nd family meeting. All the doctors and therapists reported on the progress Travis is making. The most positive reports were from Neuro-psychology and Speech. Both reported that so far Travis was scoring in the average or above average range on their tests. Both areas said, although not finished with the assessments, no areas of TBI have been found and that if any did show up in the last assessments it was expected to be very subtle. Hurray!

Physically Travis had a difficult day. He battled some spasms continually. Apparently they are very painful. Some tests were run, a plan made, and we look for things to improve tomorrow.

The hospital has reminded me that Travis needs some down time during the day. I am trying to keep things a little calmer in his room. But with that said, my sister, Rhonda, arrived today. Everyone in the hospital knew she was my sister just by looking at her. To us, we don't look anything alike.

The boys in Travis's company are home from Iraq and he has heard from many of them. Let's pray that soon the world will be at peace and all the military will be home.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 12, 2007

The Lord is encouraging me in so many ways. Let me tell you about today's. Early this morning I was in the kitchen and a woman (I didn't even learn her name) needed some butter so I offered mine and we began chatting. I ask if she had just arrived so she began telling me about her brother who is a quadriplegic from the Vietnam war. He has flown here from Hawaii for some major treatment for kidney stones, etc. It was a sad story which she continued by telling me of her daughter's severe injury as an LA police officer and the struggles her parents are now having health-wise. She made the comment that no matter how bad your spot looks, you see someone whose spot is much worse. (You are probably thinking that is the encouragement, but keep reading!) I told her I definitely agreed with that because we are meeting so many people hoping that their son will talk again, much less walk. She then told me about how her parents went to bring her brother home from the hospital all those years ago, having remodeled their home and brought in a hospital bed for the den, but her brother had disappeared from the hospital. Friends had come and checked him out and he traveled with these friends around the USA in an RV for a year. They settled in Washington State on a farm with a log cabin type house and well water. The couple had children and her brother was surrounded by life; the children, farm animals, rabbits, deer! They took a trip to Hawaii, fell in love with it, and all moved to Hawaii. She said every time she calls her brother she hears laughter and music in the background, her brother calls for advice on what kind of new dining room set she thinks they should purchase, and right before he left to come over for his surgery there was an orchid planting party to plant orchids around their fence line in Hawaii. She said she looks at her brother and just can't believe what a full and wonderful life he has! Now isn't that encouragement for the mother of a young man who has only lost his legs and will walk again on prosthetics?!? So we cried a little together and praised God for all he gives us.

It was so nice to come and go from Travis room without robing up. The day had a nice relaxed quality to it and he was able to be taken to the Physical Therapy room to work out instead of staying in his room. He REALLY enjoyed that. PT and OT are stressing how strong his core muscles have to be to keep his balance sitting and moving with prosthetics. Most of his movement will have to begin in his core and not much in the quads (obviously), I've just never thought about how much my legs balance my body and shift to help me turn, etc. Travis enjoyed the feeling of having a REAL workout.

I keep marveling at the wonderful people we are meeting. Last night we met Joseph Poquiz's girlfriend's family and today two of Michael Walsh's friends stopped by. Terrific people.

Happy birthday to my brother, Martin, and may all of you be encouraged today in some way.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 11, 2007

WE'RE OFF CONTACT ISOLATION! Travis was told the news during Physical Therapy about 1:30 pm. He was so excited he stopped and called me to tell me the news. He explained that he was beginning to feel something like a leper and now he is clean. Actually, we were asked to continue wearing gowns and gloves until tomorrow when the room can be scrubbed top to bottom.

The ophthalmologist came to discuss Travis's surgery. It will definitely be Wed. April 25th. My eye knowledge is now a little more accurate. The "fluid" that is in Travis's eye and containing blood is not fluid at all, it is jello, and so the blood cannot get out. The "jello" will be removed and his eye filled with a saltwater liquid which will have no ill effects on either his vision or his eye health over the years. A lens will be ordered and ready to insert if needed. It is not positive that Travis needs a new lens, but very, very probable. The Dr. made the comment that he will be able to see through Travis's cornea well enough to do the surgeries but it is not yet completely healed. I know from the way light reflects off the surface of his eye that it is not smooth but it is much better than it was in early March. I suppose it is something like a cut healing on your arm, it is at first obvious but even if it scars, the scar fades over time.

Dr. Chen reduced one of Travis's medications in an effort to lower his blood pressure and heart rate. Perhaps tomorrow his vitals will show a response to the reduction.

Thank you for praying for us. God is answering many of our prayers in a positive way and we thank Him, and we thank Him in advance for the answers He will provide to our other concerns.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 10, 2007

Murphey's Hospital Law: If you leave the room for a few moments you will miss the person you've been waiting all day to see. Travis fell asleep and I ran to the Fisher House. While there I received a phone call so I sat down and enjoyed a leisurely chat. When I returned to Travis's room there was a note from the ophthalmologist's nurse taped to my chair. Luckily, a phone number was left and I was able to call them right back. Their plan is to remove the fluid from Travis's eye (it has blood in it)and replace his lens. The tentative date is the 25th of April because the lens has to be special ordered.

The wound nurse came in a little later and was VERY pleased with Travis's healing. Bedsores, skin grafts, and the other leg wounds are almost all healed and she adjusted the bed to better fit Travis's needs. She said she had some knowledge about the bacteria that is keeping Travis on contact isolation that she will share with Dr. Lai so maybe that won't be as long a process as we are thinking. She also gave Travis advice on how to move in a bed and in chairs so that the sores are less likely to reoccurr. It was great hearing all she had to share.

The prone gurney wasn't quite as much fun today as yesterday. For some reason it was painful today, so Randy is going to work on padding under Travis's hips. We don't want to create anymore sores or sore spots! If you are curious about the gurney, I was finally successful in emailing a picture of it to the webmaster. Check the pictures, I'm sure it will be in the slide show in the next few days.

Travis's heartrate and blood pressure are running high, the Dr. thinks it is probably caused by one of the medications he is on. So that adds to our pray list.

I'm praying that the reason for Travis's fast heartrate and high blood pressure would become clear and that whatever is needed to be done to lower them will not have a negative effect on his health or comfort.

Thank you for walking this road with us and encouraging us along the way.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 9, 2007

AN EXCITING DAY IN PALO ALTO! About 10:00am, while Randy, the physical therapist, was working with Travis, Dr. Lai sadly told Travis that his cultures had grown some bacteria. The acinobactrin cultures were negative but the cultures for a certain kind of staph were postive so Travis was going to be a contact isolation for a while longer. You could see on Travis's face how disappointed he was. Randy did a few more exercises and then ended early, saying they would continue after lunch. I figured he felt Travis was too bummed to work out. About 30 min. later he returned with a prone gurney, a gurney with big wheelchair wheels in the front. You lay on your tummy and wheel yourself around. He told Travis he had permission for Travis to try it if he was interested.

So, after lunch, Travis rolled onto the gurney and then rolled down the hall. A gown placed on Travis like a superman cape kept the germs on Travis and not on anything outside his room. We had a great time wheeling around outside the hospital. The steering was a little tricky, he would push the big wheels in front to make it go and the little wheels in back would fishtail the gurney. You could tell that Travis found that an athletic challenge just like trying to roller skate. Everytime I straightened him or pushed him because the going was getting tough he would say, "Mom, remember the butterfly coming out of the cocoon. I need to do this myself." He was sweaty and cheerful when we returned to the room 45 min. later. Randy suggested that one of the PT times everyday be spend on the gurney wheeling around and Travis said he would really like that. Look for the picture of Travis on his new wheels in the slideshow.

The speech therapist, Katie, used Travis's 20 Questions toy in therapy. It was a race between Travis and the toy to see which figured out Katie's word first. The game won, but Travis had to keep asking questions until he got it, too. He said it took him about 25 questions and that it was quite difficult keeping the information in his head. Good exercise.

The wound specialist will look at Travis's bedsores tomorrow when his bandages are changed. He is able to spend a lot more time on his sides so I know that is helping. Our goal is 30 min. on left side, 30 min. on back, 30 min. on right side, etc.

Hopefully the ophthalmologist will get back to me tomorrow.

Thank you for your prayers, messages, cards, and gifts. We love you all bunches!

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 8, 2007

We had a day of Easter baskets and Easter guests. Jaclyn Ciccotelli and her mom, Patty, arrived early this morning with an Easter basket full of jelly beans, candy, and toys. One of the toys is an electronic game called "20 Questions." It works just like the verbal game, you think of a noun and the machine asks 20 questions. You presss buttons to answer yes, no, or sometimes. After 20 questions, it guesses what you were thinking. It has been correct about 20 times and we've stumped it only once. "Thermometer", it guessed tweezers.

Bill Ralston came and watched the back 9 of the Masters with us. It felt very normal to watch a golf tourny with the guys except Bill was too polite to fall asleep in his chair.

We received lots of phone calls and Easter wishes, one of which was from my good friend Cindy. She was very surprized to find out Travis's daily schedule, so I'll share it with all of you, too.
9:00-10:00 Neuro-Psych Therapy (my walking time)
10:00-10:30 Physical Therapy
10:30-11:00 Occupational Therapy
11:00-12:00 Speech Therapy
12:00-1:00 lunch
1:00-1:30 Physical Therapy
1:30-2:00 Occupational Therapy
2:00-3:00 relax
3:00-3:30 Recreational Therapy
3:30-4:30 all the "hospital stuff"
Travis gets his supper about 5:00 and he usually votes for us to watch a movie together from about 6:30-8:30.

His bedsores look to me as though they are healing well, I'm hunting down the specialized nurse tomorrow to get her assessment of them, and we should know something about the cultures Monday or Tuesday. I'm also checking with opthmology to see what they have decided. These are our 3 main areas of concern right now. I know God has them on His list as well because "great is Thy faithfulness, Lord unto me."

I hope you allowed your risen Savior to walk beside you today.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 7, 2007

HAPPY EASTER! Christ the Lord is risen today, Alleluia. (I need the little musical notes again). Actually I'm writing this on Sat. night, but I know you are reading it on Sunday morning.

Saturdays are slow in Palo Alto. Travis and I watched 2 movies together, Anchorman and Casino Royal. That is a real change for me because, as with most women, I always feel I should be doing laundry or dusting instead of watching a movie. See how pleasant my life is, I don't have to do housework! And I don't have to cook for anyone but me and it's not really cooking because my new friends have supplied me with food. Casey, darling, I'm getting pretty spoiled.

I know you read this for news about Travis and not my attempts at humor. He did have Physical Therapy, PT, today. I told him to think of it as a Personal Trainer, also PT. Other than that and the movies, we've just joked around with each other. His good friend, Jacqueline Cicotelli (excuse the spelling), is in the area and dropping by tomorrow. She will bring a little of Deming with her and I know Travis will enjoy her visit.

Joseph Poquiz's mom, Joseleen, left for Hawaii today to welcome back the troops. I'm so glad they are safe, but so many others, including Riley, are still there. I told Travis that I had been planning to go to Hawaii to welcome him home and that this little incident was not going to prevent me from seeing Hawaii. :)

Have a wonderful day and I hope you find lots of Easter eggs, but remember it is the empty tomb that matters.

With love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 6, 2007

"The Big Picture." I now know that phrase can have more than one meaning. We had expected the family meeting today to give us the big picture of where Travis is starting, where we expect him to go, and how long we expect it to take. It actually gave us the big picture of who is working with Travis and what they are doing. Each therapist and doctor said they could not fully evaluate Travis because the bedsores keep him in bed, flat on his back and because the contact isolation prevents him from working with books/workbooks that other patients are going to be handling. I think this is why they were so hesitant to accept him in the first place but he is getting more mental stimulation and more counseling here than at Bethesda so I'm glad we're here.

After the meeting, one of the social workers took me aside and talked to me. He is concerned about my being alone since Casey returned to Deming. He offered to have a cup of coffee with me anytime I needed to talk. How very, very nice of him not to forget me, but I told him about my new friends, Joseleen and Mark Katigbak (Joseph Poquiz's mother), Bruce and Fran Corcoran (Lt. Kyle Corcoran's parents), and Barbara and Bill Ralston (friends of Michael Walsh who also have a Marine son). They have each been to visit us 3 times since I arrived Sunday, bringing gifts, food, and taking me out to breakfast and dinner. The social worker also does not know that I talk to all of you every night. Does it sound crazy to say my life is..., well..., I don't know exactly what the word is, but it is a positive word. Somehow this is "the road less taken" and God is giving, at least to me, the peace that passes understanding.

Ready for some trivia? Jack Taylor, the founder of Enterprise Rent A Car, was a WWII Navy pilot off which carrier in the Pacific Campaign? The USS Enterprise. Just as many of you have graciously helped us, he is supplying me with a vehicle while Travis is here in Palo Alto.

I don't think I will ever know all that has been done to help us. You are all wonderful people who have generously given to us in untold ways. When Travis was first injured, Haley felt like God gave her a scripture to hold on to. She found one of Travis's little military issued Psalms and New Testaments in his room and highlighted John 11:4, "This sickness is not unto death, but for the Glory of God, that the Son of God may be glorified through it." He has been - and I pray that He will continue to be.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

April 5, 2007

The plastic surgeon did a little work on Travis's graft site today. Not a big deal, right at the bedside. The areas of his leg where the skin graft did not take were a little "granulated" (I think that was the term) and needed to be smoothed, so the skin could grow across it. I think I have the right idea that the bare spots wanted to heal and were trying too hard so they created too many capillaries to bring nutrients to the site and it became bumpy, looking something like red blisters. So the doctor trimmed it and said that now that it was flat, the skin would grow over it. Remember that I teach kindergarten, so here is my kindergarten interpretation. If you dug a little trench in your beautiful green lawn, the first grass that grows back in that area might be low quality, junky grass. If you leave that junky grass, it will always mar your lawn, but if you dig it out, the good grass will finally spread over the trench. The doctor did tell Travis that they might have to do this again. It did not hurt Travis, no painkiller was given at all, but it was hard for him to balance on his side for the 20 min. that it took. I figured it was a good strengthening activity for his core muscles, but I did try to have a sympathetic look on my face whenever he looked at me. :)

I thought I learned a new term today, but since I can't remember it, I guess I can only say I was introduced to a new term today. The neuro-psychologist told me he was testing Travis's ability to use "executive" something. It is the ability to hold things in your memory and make adjustments to the information. In my, once again, kindergarten mind, I made the connection that an executive needs to know the hours his business is open, the amount of work that needs to be done, and the shifts that his employees work. When something changes, he needs to be able to rearrange that information and make decisions. (If the neuro-psychologist read this explanation he might decide I needed therapy.)

Well, you can probably tell it's late. I notice I ramble a little more the later it gets. But speaking of it being late, I'll mention something about the website. When I was on the east coast and I wrote my update at 10:00pm, it was only 8:00pm in Las Cruces where Courtney lives and she had plenty of time to post it before most people got up the next day. But now I am on the west coast and so tonight when I write this update at 11:15pm, Courtney is surely in bed. Now since Courtney is only 16 (yes, my webmaster is a cute little 16 year old) I assume she does not get up with the roosters, so I'm sure the updates get posted a little later in the morning. Thank you for understanding and reading it a little later in the day. :)

This would be an impossible situation if it were not for all of your support and prayers. We cannot thank you enough.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 4, 2007

I'm hanging on to the phrase "cautiously optimistic." That is the phrase the retina specialist used concerning Travis's vision. He did an ultra sound at Travis's bedside, and some looking with the interesting little lenses eye doctors use, and then said he is about 95% certain that Travis's retina is NOT detached. Because it was a piercing injury and not a blunt blow, if the retina is not detached the optic nerve is probably not injured, either. YEA!! The cornea is healing nicely but he cannot see into the eye because there is blood in the fluid that fills(?) your eye. The fluid maintains the round shape and Travis has good pressure in his eye. I assume that, like a basketball, good pressure means it is not likely to explode or deflate. The retina specialist and the chief opthamologist will discuss whether they think surgery will be required to remove the blood or do they think the body might reabsorb it over time. The lens has been damaged and surgery will be required to replace it with an artificial lens which is exactly what cataract surgery is. And so the doctor is "cautiously optimistic" about Travis regaining some vision in this eye. I believe that is exactly the phrase the opthamologists in Bethesda used.

With all our other concerns about Travis, his eye has sort of slid out of my radar. But I know God has not forgotten our prays for Travis's eye and He has been quietly healing it. I ask Him again today to do His will in Travis's eye, but that our hearts' desire is to have Travis's vision completely restored.

I think it was a little surreal for Casey to be back at school. He said his door was decorated and he'll try to send some pictures for everyone to see. We both feel SO blessed to be working for Deming Public Schools. We could not have better jobs or work with/for more wonderful people! That's how we feel about our friends, too. You all are TERRIFIC!

Thank you for praying for us,
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Haley, and Lauren

April 3, 2007

Casey headed to the airport today at 10:30 am so I'm holding down the fort all by myself. As Travis gets more settled into a routine I'm going to start walking around the hospital grounds. It is a large complex with a road that circles it. I'm going to see how long it takes to walk one circle and plan my exercise around his schedule.

The ophthalmologist and retina specialist are due in tomorrow. I'm going to check if there is an exact time, if not I will just park myself in the room so I don't miss them. Other than that, we should have our regular day of physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech therapy. He was given homework today; a pretend amount of money, pretend bills, checks and register, and he had to figure out if he had enough money to pay all the bills and if not, make a plan. He first rounded each bill and added them in his head, then decided to pay the credit card bill last because he could make a partial payment if he didn't have enough to pay the entire bill. I was excited about his logic. :) Then he had to do the register subtraction on paper without a calculator. He did really well. He made a $1.00 error on the very first transaction but when he found it he knew how to fix each transaction that followed it without re-adding.

The doctors, nurses, therapists, social workers, and Marines had a big meeting at 10:00 today to discuss their evaluations and plans for Travis. I have been invited to a meeting on Friday at 10:00 to discuss those findings. Casey and Travis will both "attend" the meeting via telephone. I have been told they will give us an estimated time of treatment here at Palo Alto.

Our prayer list includes

• Travis's bedsores, contact precautions, and infections
• Wisdom for all the doctors and therapists
• Travis's attitude and determination and
• God's will in all areas of our lives.

With love and gratitude to all of you,
Cheryl Kae

April 2, 2007

Golly, where did the month of March go? It seems to feel that time has frozen and when I return to Deming it will still be February. But this Sunday is Easter!

Travis is being well cared for here at Palo Alto VA Hospital. Teams of doctors came in to continue evaluating him and planning his rehab. Casey had already met them but today was my first "work" day and so each team stopped and explained the process to me and got me up to speed. The main emphasis right now is to heal his bedsores and clear him from isolation. Because of the bedsores, Travis was ordered "bed rest" for the weekend. He was not to sit on his tailbone, except to eat and then he was only to sit up in his bed. A new bed was ordered for him, which arrived today, that will shift his weight automatically throughout the day and night. Hopefully between that and lying on his sides the sores will heal.

The contact isolation is because of a bacteria that he brought back from Iraq. It is not considered harmful to healthy people, but it is harmful to people with compromised immune systems. So we wear the gowns and gloves so that any germs that get on us are thrown away rather than carried out into the hospital to infect the other patients. Because of that, Travis is not allowed to go to the therapy rooms to work. The work is brought in to him and any thing he touches is disinfected before it leaves his room. Naturally that limits the equipment that he can use. To clear him from the bacteria, which colonize on the skin, he is being washed twice a day with a special antibacterial soap.

The chief ophthalmologist and his head nurse came to evaluate Travis. They are going to bring in a retina specialist for consultation.

The physical therapist worked with Travis twice today, stretching his hip flexors and strengthening the muscles that will be used in moving his prosthetic legs. The therapist discussed how easy it is to hold up something short with your arms and how much harder it is to hold up something long. Travis's new legs will be long and take a lot of strength to move and control. I could see Travis working hard with all his muscles, arms and legs, to get strong enough to move easily. The occupational therapist also worked with Travis today. Her goal at the moment is much the same as the physical therapist.

A speech therapist is still evaluating Travis. Friday she had him sequence pictures, make change, figure math problems in his head, etc. Today she had him working with tangrams, a puzzle made of geometric shapes used to create other geometric shapes, and timed how long it took Travis to solve the complete puzzle. She also had him work on logic problems.

Travis also has a recreational therapist. His goal is to make sure Travis can and has recreational activities to enjoy.

The Marine liaison and the social/case workers are just as friendly, caring and helpful as they were in Bethesda. The continuing theme still seems to be "what can we do to help you help Travis."

Tomorrow will be a big day for us. The hospital has scheduled a round table meeting with most of the people involved with Travis. Hopefully we will get the big picture of how we are going to proceed and how long it will probably take.

Casey flies back to Deming tomorrow (Tuesday) to be with Lauren and teach school and coach golf. Travis and I will miss him but Lauren needs him. Throughout our marriage he has used the phrase "divide and conquer" and that is what we are doing now.

If you are praying for us, please pray that I can handle the daily decisions that need to be made and that Casey can run our household. Continue to pray for Travis's spiritual and physical healing and that he can handle the rigorous activities he will be put through.

Love, Cheryl Kae PS The hospital has Travis scheduled with his different therapies from 9:00 am to 4:00 pm.

April 1, 2007

I arrived at Palo Alto VA Hospital around 2:30 pm. Travis and Casey both seemed happy to see me, Casey gave me a quick tour of Travis's ward and the Fisher House. It is very similar to the house in DC except it has over 20 rooms instead of 8. The Palo Alto area is beautiful and the day was warm.

Joseleen, Joseph Poquiz mom, brought her family to meet Travis. It was fiesta time Philipino style in room 134! Her husband, two sisters, brother, 2 daughters, and a niece came bearing MUCH food. We had a good time laughing about Joseph's younger days because they sounded so much like Travis's younger days. I took plenty of pictures and then her husband ended with a beautiful prayer and scripture reading. He talked right into Travis' eyes about perseverance and the plan God must have for Travis's life. We were so blessed!

Just a few minutes later we were greeted by Lt. Corcoran's parents and grandmother. They had read on this site that Travis was in California and they live just a few miles away so they came to meet Travis and encourage us. Lt. Corcoran is Travis's Executive Officer from his company and boy did Travis's eyes pop out of his head when they explained who's parents they were. Lt. Corcoran's mom and grandmother are Greek and so they came bearing MANY traditional Greek desserts, gifts from their Greek Orthodox church friends. Isn't it wonderful to hear that Travis has not only great buddies but also great officers with him in Iraq.

Before I arrived a group called the Blue Star Riders, a veteran's group, came by and presented Travis with an award from their group. It is a blue flag with a silver star in the middle representing Wounded in Action.

Our last guest of the day was a stranger who came to bring the new patient at the hospital flowers and thank him for his service. She was delightful and of course she is not a stranger any longer.

In case you're wondering, the wedding shower was absolutely perfect. Haley was the center of attention, as every bride should be, and it was so special to be around so many from my family.

The nurses that I've met today have been very friendly and I hope to meet all the therapists and doctors tomorrow. Thank you for all your prayers and support.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 31, 2007

Not much going on from Palo Alto. The hospital is pretty dead on weekends. Travis is still getting good care from his nurses, but no contacts with any doctors or therapists. I am sure things will pick up on Monday.

Travis was confined to bed rest to allow his bed sores to heal, so he has not been in a wheelchair since Friday. I am sure they will check everything out on Monday and re-evaluate.

Travis is looking forward to his Mom returning on Sunday and another visit from Poquiz's mom. He now has two Moms to look after him. Isn't God good!

Thank you for your continued prayers and support. We are truly blessed.

Love, Casey,Cheryl Kae,Travis,Haley,& Lauren

March 30, 2007

Travis met all the doctors and therapists today. Casey said from 9:00-2:00 it was team after team of doctors, and therapist after therapist. A wound doctor has been called in to look after all of Travis’s wounds. That includes his leg wounds, hip wound, skin graft from his back, and bedsores. The infectious disease doctor is having Travis's skin washed so that perhaps he can quit contact isolation. Physical therapists, occupational therapists, and speech therapists did initial evaluations.

But the most exciting person Travis met today was Joseph Poquiz's mother. Casey says she's a "cute little thing." She told Travis and Casey that Joseph joined the Navy because he wanted to save lives, spiritual and physical. Casey assured her that Joseph had already saved one.

I was able to visit my kindergarten class and hug my students. It was really a picture of how life moves on. They squealed and hugged me tight. Each told me a couple of sentences about their life, and then quietly went back to what they were doing. That's how it should be. They have adjusted wonderfully.

Today we loaded Haley's bedroom furniture into a trailer to move it to Phoenix. It was a bittersweet day. Exciting that she's moving on with her life, but sad that the years she spent in her beautiful room are over so soon. Her wedding shower tomorrow will be will be fun and we'll see all our family.

Being back in Deming has been great. I ran into SO many people and got to express my gratitude in person instead of over the internet. I wish I could have seen all of you to tell you how much you mean to us and how wonderful we think you are. I'll be rejoining Travis and Casey Sunday in Palo Alto.

God bless you all, and, like my students, may you adjust wonderfully to whatever changes life brings your way.

Love, Cheryl Kae

March 29, 2007

When Travis arrived at Travis Air Force Base (isn't that cute, Travis at Travis) Thursday night Casey reported that his spirits lifted immediately. Casey said something about a party atmosphere with pizza and sodas. Friday morning Travis was taken by ambulance to Palo Alto. Casey followed with a Marine from the Marine Liaison office. Once there, Travis was evaluated physically, redoing x-rays and CT scans, checking all his wounds, etc. A report came from Bethesda that the fluid sample taken from Travis hip finally started growing something, so Travis is being put on antibiotics through an IV to specifically target that bacteria. No doubt Travis hated being poked and prodded, but I'm glad that they seem so thorough.

Both Casey and Travis have already realized how spoiled we were at Bethesda. For Casey, lunch can be purchased in the hospital, but nothing after 3:00pm. Travis is going to be eating the hospital food. No store of any kind is within walking distance, but I'm sure there is someway to be taken to the store at least once a week. Maybe this is how I'm supposed to work on my organizational kitchen skills while Travis is in therapy working on his necessary skills.

Casey and I will be staying at the Fisher House which is across the street from the Hospital. Mail is sent through the patient in the hospital, so our new address for Travis and for us is:

Travis Dodson c/o Sylvester Williams Ward 7D 3801 Miranda Ave. Palo Alto, CA 94304

We're praying for wisdom for everyone working with Travis and for his infection. He is still on contact precautions (the gown and gloves while in his room) and we are praying for that to clear, also.

Love to everyone,
Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 28, 2007

8:30 p.m. (DC Time)

Got a call from Casey, they have just landed at Travis Airforce Base in California. As a matter of fact, Travis is still on the plane as the Airforce unloads other patients. They drove away from the hospital this morning at 7:30 so Travis has been on that little cot for 13 hours. Casey said Travis is miserable. They will spend the night at the hospital on the base and travel to Palo Alto tomorrow morning. Please pray that Travis can get comfortable and sleep through the night.

Love, Cheryl Kae

9:30 a.m.

Travis and Casey are headed to Palo Alto! Just after I clicked on "send" last night at 11:00, Casey came down and reported that Travis had called, a medevac flight was leaving this morning, and we needed to be at the hospital at 8:30 am. Then he called at 4:15 am and said we needed to be at the hospital at 6:00 am. We hustled over there and he and Casey drove off in an ambulance at 7:30. I am staying until tomorrow (Thurs), a flight had already been purchased for me to go home to attend a shower with my family in honor of Haley's marriage. I will join Casey and Travis in Palo Alto after the shower. As with most of this adventure, we're either in a whirlwind or a standstill. :)

Travis's flight is expected to arrive in California 9 hours after it leaves here. It will most probably make other stops along the way. No doubt it will be very uncomfortable for Travis, the padding on the cot is much less than has been on his bed and I don't know how much turning he will be able to do. Please pray for the plane ride, his bedsores, and his therapy at Palo Alto.

Thank you for standing in the gap for us.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 27, 2007

Guess who sat in a real chair and played spades with Casey and me for about 2 hours this afternoon. Yes, you're right, it was Travis!

Palo Alto has really, really accepted Travis as a patient. Everyday Palo Alto would be sent Travis's vitals and lab work, etc. One day Palo Alto would say they accepted him, then the next day have a question about something in his report that had changed slightly. Since Palo Alto is going to be doing brain and physical therapy with Travis, they wanted to be sure he would be capable of working as soon as he arrived, not dealing with medical problems. I THINK they have finally been convinced that he is healthy. We are anticipating a flight on Friday. Maybe we'll be surprized and it will be Thursday. Or it could be next week, but we hope not.

One of the reasons we have been frustrated is because Travis feels like he is wasting time here that could be spent in therapy. Today a Vietnam veteran was visiting the troops and he told us he had been in a skiing accident 1 year ago and had extreme brain trama. When transfered to the rehab. center he had not even been able to walk. Now he looked and sounded wonderful. My conversation with him was about what we could be doing in our room at Bethesda so that Travis was exercising his brain and reworking his wiring. The gentleman responded that playing cards was a great activity and so also were Soduko games, etc. We already had several Soduko books and Travis completed one puzzle tonight. Tomorrow we plan on teaching him a new card game so that it requires more cognitive activity and we dug out the Tetris game so he could work on spacial relationships.

Isn't it amazing how God sends someone to encourage you in the midst of a frustrating situation? I hope all of you know you are part of that encouragement, too!

Today our web designer archived the messages and started a new guestbook. One of the reasons was because Travis's buddies in Iraq are calling him but said it is hard to get on his website. By the time the site had loaded, their time on the computer was up. Hopefully it will be easier for everyone. Thank you, Courtney!

Thank you all for taking this journey with us.
Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 26, 2007

We had a great day! Travis was in a great mood, he looked great and felt great. The gall bladder test showed his gall bladder is fine so that is great. Everything was great all the way around.

Travis's doctors have given the green light to go to Palo Alto and Palo Alto has accepted Travis and assigned him a doctor. Everyone now says we are waiting on a medivac flight.

A Gunny Sargeant who was injured in 2005 was back in the hospital for some follow-up procedures. He came to visit Travis today, and Travis described te visit as "awesome." Here is a mature man who has suffered injuries similar to Travis's and has returned to his family and society. He must have spoken with wisdom and knowledge that Travis could respect because Travis reflected on it the rest of the day.

Another young man, who had been injured in a swimming accident at the beach, also came to see Travis. This young man named Josh has a foundation and website Determined 2 Heal. He answered lots of questions on topics such as what it is like to be handicapped in the University setting and how to deal with/prevent bedsores. He stressed exercise and good muscle tone as the key and as soon as Josh left, Travis started exercising. Obviously another person who made an impact on Travis.

One of Travis's buddys has returned to Hawaii. He called Travis today and said he had been part of the forward team who went to Iraq 3 weeks early and so he got to come home 3 weeks early. Travis seems to think his group will be transfered to a safe place tomorrow and then home (Hawaii) by the 9th of April and home-home on the 20th of April. Boy, Travis is looking forward to hearing from them!

If you have any extra prayers, one of my students lost his dad over the weekend. I got to know him well because he picked Alex up everyday from school. A wonderful man, a huge hole has been left in that family. Please ask God to fill it with His presence.

May the peace that passes understanding fill your heart and may there be peace on earth.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 25, 2007

"And I know my redeemer lives" My computer needs little musical notes so that you know I'm singing. If you go to the First United Methodist Church in Deming, you might remember that song from a youth group dramatic presentation when Nikki and David Nevarez were the youth leaders, I think about 1999 or 2000. Isaac Veeder was God, Travis was the sun, Paige Schmidt was the ocean, other youth were Shay King, Brenna Enzensperger, Josh Taylor, Jenna Frosch. I don't remember them all, but I remember the presentation. I think of it often and it is one of my favorite memories of Travis in church. Well, today at the church service in the hospital, that song was the special music sung by a wonderful singer. I took it as a personal gift from God meant to encourage me. And here's some food for thought from the sermon today. "Only when it is dark enough can you see the stars."

Dr. Fick dropped by early this morning to let us know that Travis' blood work showed a slight elevation in an enzyme. In case Palo Alto asks about the enzyme, he wanted to run a test on Travis's gall bladder. Hopefully it will show the gall bladder working properly. The test was done around noon and we should get the results tomorrow.

Dr. Moses, a member of the orthopedic team, happened to walk by our room today while I was in the hall. He asked if he could say hello to Travis. When he entered the room he introduced himself and explained that he had worked on Travis the first night he was here, and that Travis's injuries had been so significant he had been very concerned. But to see Travis now was the reason he works at this hospital. Surely it encouraged Travis to be reminded of how bad it was and far he has already come.

Here's a little test to see what you've learned about Travis. What did I say in yesterday's update that was significant to his progress? I don't have the exact quote, but it was something like "Travis rolled over to his side and said goodnight." Travis can now roll onto his side by himself! Why don't you try it, not using your legs, of course. First can you do it and then can you stay balanced? Pretty good accomplishment, isn't it?

We miss everyone and pray that He blesses you with one of the greatest blessing of all, knowledge of God Himself.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 24, 2007

I can't believe how many Deming people come to DC and stop to visit us! Today we were surprised by Jenna Frosch. It is so much fun to look up and say, "Gosh, that girl looks just like Jenna. Hey, that is Jenna!" She hugged us and cried with us and prayed with us. She is charming.

While Jenna was in the room, a couple walked up and introduced themselves as David and Sally Rico. He is from Deming, although he graduated from Mayfield, but has moved around and finally landed in DC. He is part of the Jasso family so we had fun connecting all the dots in his family. Pretty soon he said, "OH, ok, so you coach golf with Yvonne's husband, Richard." And you know where THAT conversation led. We are so blessed to be meeting such wonderful and gracious people.

A young man who was injured in Iraq in September came back to visit the patients at the hospital and stopped in to see Travis. He is LCpl John McClellan and he is also from the the 2/3 Marines stationed in Hawaii, but from Echo Co. instead of Golf Co. He and Travis know many of the same people and I'm sure it was good for Travis to talk to someone who understands what he is going through physically and emotionally.

Dr. Fick, one of Travis's doctors from the trama team, came and changed all his dressings and reported on his temperature and white blood cell count and said all is looking good. He said his goal, and the teams goal, is to get Travis to Palo Alto this week.

When we arrived in Travis room this morning he was feeling a little down, but by the end of the day, with all the friendly, helpful visits and the interaction with Dr. Fick, Travis was very perky. He rolled onto his side, wished us a goodnight, and we turned off his lights.

We continue to be astounded - there is really no other word - by the love and support of ALL of you. May God bless you over and over and over for the care you have given us.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

P.S. I forgot to mention one of the encouragements from yesterday. A letter from my brother, Martin, and his wife, Jacquie, arrived. In it were several articles about the Center for the Intrepid in San Antonio. Over and over it was stated that you could learn/participate in archery, fencing, surfing, rock climbing, swimming, volleyball, water polo, horseback riding... I said "Oh, Travis, it sounds like you're the rich kid and we get to go to summer camp!" Do you think they'll let the mom play, too?

Smiles to you all, CK

March 23, 2007

Oh, what a beautiful morning, oh, what a beautiful day. We were encouraged as soon as we arrived at the hospital this morning. Dr. Bolanowski met me at Travis's door and told me the CT scan had shown a collection of fluid by Travis' hip. Radiology would drain it by needle and then it would be cultured for 48-72 hrs. Hopefully this would explain the problem with the fever. About 30 min. later our Social Worker stuck her head in to report that Travis had gone the specified 24 hrs. without a fever and Palo Alto had accepted Travis. She was going to start on the flight arrangements. Obviously the hip was going to play some part in this, but it was such a nice start to a day after such a lousy day yesterday.

As a matter of fact, yesterday continued to be bad even after I wrote the update at 8:00pm. Travis finished the iodine dye about 8:15 and had to wait 2 hrs. to have the scan done. At 10:00 the Navy corpsman came in and needed to change his IV before the scan. Four corpsmen and 6 holes later, there was finally a new IV in his arm. He headed down for the scan at 11:00 and returned to his room at 11:40, and was allowed to eat supper. I warmed up his food, watched him eat a few bites, and then helped him brush his teeth. I headed to the Fisher House at 11:55. The last thing Travis and I said to each other was that it had been such a bad day that tomorrow had to be better!

SO WE WERE EXCITED THAT SOME REASON FOR FEVERS MIGHT HAVE BEEN FOUND AND REPLIES FROM PALO ALTO WERE POSITIVE. After radiology drained his hip it was time to take vitals. His fever was 99.5 DARN IT! We'll see if that is called a real fever or just stress from having fluid drained from a hip.

Travis had a couple of neat visits today. One was a phone call. Joseph Poquiz called him from Iraq! Joseph says everyone is fine and looking forward to coming home in a couple of weeks.

The other visit was from some Border Patrol officers working here in DC. They had previously been stationed in Deming so they came to say Hello to the Deming boy in the hospital. I was not in the room at the time, but I guess they had quite a discussion of the great Mexican food available in Deming. As the kids would say, NEW MEXICAN CHILE RULES!

The problems are not solved, we don't know for sure when we leave, but things were SO much better today.

We thank you for your prayers and thank God for an encouraging day. Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 22, 2007

What a lousy day. Travis's temperature was just over 101 last night about 8:00pm and that is considered a real fever so Palo Alto is stalling on accepting him as a patient. They want him to go at least 24 hours with a normal temperature before he is accepted for transfer. Then it takes 2-3 days for the medivac flight to be scheduled and take place, so we were told it looks like Tuesday at the earliest.

On the good side, Travis pain is so manageable that they have taken him off the narcotic pain medicine. On the bad side, Travis is sweating constantly, much more than he had been, so he is sticky and uncomfortable and his bed is wet. When we ask about his sweating we were told that a lot of it was probably caused from going off the narcotics rather than having anything to do with his temperature or the temperature of the room. Another bad side is that he was doing so well with his pain that he let the phantom pain (his foot hurts, his calf cramps) sneak up on him. The phantom pain is a different painkiller than the narcotic. He was so miserable during our wheelchair ride we had to cut it short and he did not want to do his PT. It took a good 30 min. to get his pain under control.

He has also developed some bedsores and struggled to get comfortable all day. Perhaps the narcotic was keeping that pain manageable, too. But we are all glad he is off the narcotic.

At 4:00 the dr. came in and discussed doing a CT Scan to look again at his lungs, torso, and wound areas to see if any fluids are collecting. That means Travis had to drink the iodine dye and it ruined his dinner plans. The McClen Bible Church Wounded in Action volunteers brought him specially ordered fried shrimp and he has to wait until after the CT Scan to eat.

We did have another positive thing. The Opthamology team came in and reported that they are pleased with the way Travis eye is healing. The cornea has cleared enough that they will be able to see through it do surgery deeper in his eye. They said had his cornea stayed foggy they would have had to do a cornea transplant and that brings all kinds of complications into the picture. They are ready to do surgery but it would hold up Travis's transfer to Palo Alto by about 3 weeks and they do not want to do that. But if he is going to stay here, they would like to go ahead and do the surgery. A dr. in Palo Alto has already been brought up to speed on the case and will do the surgery if Travis is transfered soon. He is a top opthamologist at Stanford and the Bethesda opthamology team has been working with him for 20 years and have no reason to doubt that he would perform a perfect surgery on Travis. Travis specificly ask if he would be able to see out of his right eye after the surgery and the dr. said he had every hope that Travis's vision would improve significantly but, at best, it will probably not be 20/20. It will depend on the damage to his retina and optic nerve, which the dr. won't know the extent of until he gets in the eye and of course the real measure will be when the bandages come off.

As I reflected on the day, I realized how much I had relied on God today. I even laid my hand on Travis eye today and we prayed for his vision together outloud. It is so easy to just enjoy the good days, but the hard days bring us back to the foot of the cross.

Will you help us pray for Travis's fevers, infection (if he has one, let it be found; if he doesn't have one, keep him healthy), his vision and upcoming surgery, and his transfer to Palo Alto. If we are kept here in Bethesda, there must be a reason, and so I'm asking God to send us when the time is right. But the waiting is hard on Travis. He is getting bored and ready to move on to the next step in his recovery. I know the God who created Travis and "knit him together in his mother's womb," and the God who times the seasons to perfection can certainly take care of all these little things.

Thank you, dear friends, for all you are doing for us. We love you all, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 21, 2007

Well, rumor has it that I am not to be the wheelchair driver anymore. Too slow. So I handed the controls to Michael Walsh and one of the first things he ask was "So, what does this do, is it the brake?" "NO, IT MAKES THE WHOLE THING RECLINE AND TRAVIS WILL BE DUMPED ON THE FLOOR!" Luckily he ask before he squeezed. We had a good laugh and I guess that makes Casey the preferred wheelchair pusher.

Daniel Morris's mother was able to come see Travis today. Daniel was with Travis when the grenade was thrown in the room. For more information on Daniel, please click here to read the full story. His mom lives in Virginia and wanted to see Travis before he leaves for Palo Alto. She is a lovely woman and I think some healing took place for both of them during the time they talked.

We're still waiting for the go ahead to go to Palo Alto. Apparently Travis has the bacteria from Iraq "colonizing on his skin" and not inside him causing an infection as we think of infections. The dr. also explained that all of us have millions of bacterias colonizing on our skin. The problem is that, through contact, we might pass the bacteria to someone who has a low immune system and then they might get very sick, but it is not harmful to healthy people. Palo Alto, understandably, doesn't want a patient who might be harmful to other patients, so our doctor told Travis not to be surprized if the nurses begin washing him with an antibacterial cleanser.

Well, Lauren needs help with her English tonight. Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 20, 2007

Travis received a haircut today, so he once again looks like a Marine. We wheeled him around the hospital for an hour and that was enough time to go to the barber shop.

Trevor and Nicky headed back to New Mexico and, since we had to downsize for the military flight to Palo Alto, they took 2 large suitcases of "stuff" back with them. We appreciated Trevor being young and muscular!

Bonnie and Nyles Allen were in DC for business and took us to dinner tonight. Since none of us knew anything about the restaurants we just stumbled into one and it was delicious. The visiting was of course the most wonderful part.

Yesterday Congressman Pearce's office gave us a tour of the Capital. Michael Walsh was with us, too, so we actually had 2 very knowledgeable guides.

The rest of the day was spent just waiting to make our plans for California. I'm sending some more pictures to the website, so check the photo page in a few days.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 19, 2007

One of Travis doctors came in around noon today and said that there are 3 steps in the process of going to Palo Alto. First, he has to be released by this hospital. That part is complete. Second, he has to be accepted by the receiving hospital, Palo Alto. That has not yet been completed. And third, the medical flight to evacuate him has to be set up. That will not happen until he has been accepted by Palo Alto. So we have 1 of 3 steps completed.

We ask his doctor about the plans for his eye and were told that a very well written report has been filed with his paperwork for Palo Alto so they should be able to pick up right where these opthamologists left off.

Travis still runs a low fever every afternoon, today it was 99.4. The doctors do not think he has any infection, but stress that infection is ALWAYS a concern and it will stay a big concern for months and a minor concern for years.

Trevor and Nicky return to southern NM tomorrow after lunch. We have really enjoyed the breath of fresh air they have brought to the room.

Thank you for your prayers, and I pray for the many situations that each of you are concerned about. I know that God will care for you as He is for us and I ask that the time and energy you spend praying for us will be returned to you many times over.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 18, 2007

I hope everyone had a wonderful day with God because I know I certainly did. I attended church services in the chapel of the hospital. Each week a different chaplain has lead the service and they have all been terrific. Today's teaching was from I Sam.17:1-10, part of the David and Goliath story. The chaplain's point was that we all battle giants, but the giant we battle is fear. It becomes a giant sized obstacle, a huge crises that taunts and challenges us. Like King Saul, we're at a loss as to what to do. We need heroic faith against such insurmountable odds. A faith that says no matter the circumstances, I am going to keep trusting. The Israelites said "Look, he is so big we can't win," but David said "He is so big we can't miss." God is able to give peace and guidance. We need to dare to trust God to do the impossible. And we know that God is able to take whatever our situation and turn it into good. God, you are able - God, you are able to give Travis a full and satisfying life. Then we sang "Why should I feel discouraged?... His eye is on the sparrow and I know he watches me." "I sing because I'm free (from fear), I sing because I'm happy!"

Travis had 30 min. in the wheelchair. Trevor was with us so he was the driver, even helping the physical therapist help Travis in and out of the wheelchair and watching the complete PT workout. He didn't sound like he wanted to change his degree plan at school but I think he thought it interesting.

Tonight we met Chris and Helen Cole, friends of Rick and Sue Holdridge from here in the DC area. Wonderful people who sat and laughed and visited with us for quite a while. We prayed together before they left and I realized that we didn't just visit, they really listened. Their prayer covered all we had talked about.

Jesus does that; when we talk he really listens, and then goes before the Father as our advocate and intercedes for us. Thank you, also, for listening and praying and interceding for us.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

P.S. The most frequent command in scripture is "Do not be afraid." The King James phrases it "Fear not." I've read that it is in scripture 366 times, enough for everyday of the year including leap year!

March 17, 2007

Travis spent about 25 minutes wheeling around the hospital in his wheelchair today. We took him to the food court area, which is really quite a ways, bought him a donut and coke, and took him back to his room. There is still snow on the ground so the view was very pretty going through all the glassed-in hallways.

Trevor Milbourn and Nicky Viramontes came to visit him today. They brought a huge goodie bag (suitcase) the highlight of which was food from Travis's favorite restaurant, Si Senor. We chowed down on chips and salsa tonight and Travis had us save the burritos for lunch tomorrow. After they had visited several hours, Casey showed them how to ride the metro. We love the Metro System. If there was one in Deming from our house to the golf course Casey would never need a vehicle.

Before Trevor arrived Travis and Casey spent the day watching March madness and the golf tournament. Hmm, I bet most of you knew that without me even mentioning it.

This evening I received an e-mail from Joseph Poquiz's fiance. You probably remember that he is the Navy Corpsman from Travis's unit and Travis's very good friend. She and her family live 15 min. from the hospital in Palo Alto and she offered her house and any other assistance we might need. Isn't God amazing?

Everyone have a great day, I hope you can spend it with the Lord.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 16, 2007

Travis was taken to surgery today about 10:00. The purpose of the surgery was to replace some tubes that had been draining fluids to prevent infection from growing around them and to examine his wounds and grafts for infection. No infection has been found and an x-ray showed that his lungs are continuing to clear from the "gunk" they collected while he was ventilated. He was just sedated for the surgery today so it did not drain him like the other surgeries have. The dr's have ordered a c-scan of his torso to look for any pockets of fluid that might be growing infection. He has been off antibiotics for over 72 hours and still running the low-grade temperature, so they are searching for anything they might have missed before releasing him to go to Palo Alto. Even the dr's have said that the fevers are probably just the way Travis's body reacts to stress, but they have to medically rule out every other possibility.

The Commadant of the Coast Guard came to visit today along with the Chaplain of the Coast Guard and several others. Another man who was genuinely interested in Travis Dodson. And another coin for his collection.

This afternoon Casey and I were included in a teleconference with dr's and case workers from Palo Alto and Bethesda. It seems like a wonderful place and it was nice to see faces and feel like you have met some of the people who will be working with Travis.

The last few days were beautiful weather here in DC, as a matter of fact I wore a short sleeved shirt and no jacket. But today we walked to the hospital in rain this morning and returned to the Fisher House in ice and snow this evening. The snow plows were driving around and salt had been spread on the sidewalks.

Lauren returned to school today after lunch to much fanfare. Robin Parnell, her principal, said the students had made a banner welcoming her back to school and my school had decorated our front yard with yellow ribbons and red, white, and blue stars. One of my students sent me a pix/flix of him standing by our tire swing and it looks so cute covered with yellow ribbons. I called my school and ask someone to go take pictures for me and maybe we can get them on the website so you can all enjoy them, too.

Travis's good friend Trevor Milbourn is coming to visit tomorrow. We're looking forward to another great visit.

It is so wonderful to have so many friends around the world who, like those around Moses, are holding up our arms.

Love, Cheryl Kae and Casey

March 15, 2007

Travis sat in a wheelchair for 15 min. today. Casey wheeled him around the hospital and the rest of us were his entourage! It was exciting. First we took him down to the front lobby and out the front doors. He said it felt terrific, he had not been outside for 1 month and today was a beautiful day. Then we whirled him through two more halls, back up the elevator, and our 15 min. was up. The physical therapist then worked him in his room for another 40 min. After the dr's check him tomorrow, she expects to be able to increase his wheelchair time about 5 min. each day.

The Dr's are still searching for the cause of his fevers. Blood was drawn tonight to check white blood cell levels and an x-ray has been ordered for tomorrow just to make sure nothing is sneaking into his lungs.

The Asst. Commadant of the Marines came by, thanked Travis for his service, and gave him a coin. Another gracious man. I'm not sure what kind of men I thought were running our military, but the ones I have met have certainly been gentlemen concerned about the sacrifice, health and rehabilitation of all their men and women. I'm reminded of Robert E. Lee and the stories of how he felt about his soldiers.

Nana, Papa, and Lauren left today, soon after Travis's jaunt around the hospital. But this is how perfect God's timing is. The five of us had spread out in Travis's room and there had been other visitors, too, such as Riley, his dad, and Michael Walsh. It was crowded but we made do. We walked our family outside to say goodbye and returned to find Travis had a roommate in his room! How nice that it happened after the company/family left.

So now it is just Casey and me in the Fisher House. It is a little quieter and a little lonelier without our girls.

With love and grateful hearts,
Casey and Cheryl Kae

March 14, 2007

One month ago today...It has been a very short time and a very long time.

Travis's bandages were removed and the graft is about 75% adhered. Casey and I were at a luncheon at the Fisher House and missed the dr's visit. A nurse told us later that 75% is very good, but we want to hear from the dr's mouth exactly what he thinks and what our next steps are. I'm sure he will come by Travis's room tomorrow.

The luncheon at the Fisher House was so we could meet Mr. and Mrs. Fisher, nephew and wife of the original couple who started the Fisher Houses. What very, very lovely people they are. This Mr. and Mrs. Fisher are continuing the Fisher House work, were the backbone of the BAMC Center for the Intrepid (they assured us we will love it there), and part owner of the NY Yankees. He has 4 World Series rings but only wears one, and boy is it big and beautiful!

Travis had physical therapy today and the therapist was very pleased with all that he could do. She had him sitting up in the middle of the bed for several minutes and is going to have him in a wheelchair tomorrow for hopefully about 15 minutes. I'm sure he will enjoy his little spin around the floor.

Somedays I can only repeat the words of Jeremiah 32:17, "Ah, Sovereign Lord, ... nothing is too hard for you."

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley

March 13, 2007

Yesterday, when we went to Bethesda for lunch, someone gave Travis a screening for Tramatic Brain Injury. Apparently he failed the screening. This morning Dr. Bolanowski was in his room talking to him when we arrived. She said the screening is standard procedure for someone who has been in a blast. Just a few years ago, Travis would have fallen through the cracks, and later would have started complaining about his short term memory loss, and family members would have complained about poor decision making and short attention span. Luckily Travis has been identified, so, as soon as the skin grafting is finished, they will begin the process to send Travis to Palo Alto, California for therapy. The dr's and a social worker all explained that the brain can be exercised just like the body, and it can be strenghthened and rewired through activities and tasks.

As was demonstrated today, nothing is set in stone as far as Travis is concerned, but the plan is to send him to Palo Alto at the end of next week (about the 23rd), where he will begin in-patient therapy for both brain and body. The dr's all said that they expect Travis to be at Palo Alto "weeks, not months." When he finishes the in-patient mental therapy, he will be given out-patient status in that area and he will be transfered to Brooks Army Medical Center (BAMC) in San Antonio to continue the in-patient physical therapy and out-patient mental therapy.

Lauren is returning to Deming on this Friday (16th) and her grandparents will be staying with her so that she can go to school and participate in all her activities. Casey and I will be flown to Palo Alto to stay with Travis. There is a Fisher House there and arrangements are being made for us to stay there if there is room.

After the TBI explanation today, we all noticed that Travis slurs his speech a little when he first wakes up and is sometimes slow in responding to questions. We're thankful he was identified so he can get help and pray that the therapies, both physical and mental, are successful.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley (in Phoenix)

March 12, 2007

What a great day for Travis! Riley came by and they talked all day. Travis was more awake and more lively than he has been since he woke up. Our friend Michael Walsh spent the day here, too, and made sure everyone saw a few sights. In the afternoon he took Casey, Lauren, Papa, and Nana to the National Cathedral. In the evening, after Travis announced he needed some sleep, Michael drove Riley and his dad Charlie around DC to see the major highlights.

During the day a dentist came by, said it was standard procedure to check teeth after someone has been in an explosion. The intial exam in Travis' room showed no problems, "not even a cavity." When Travis is able, he will be wheeled to the dentist's office for a more complete exam.

Dr. Duncan, part of the trama team came by and peeked at the skin grafts. He thinks they look good. Travis's temperature has been normal all day! I think Riley has been GREAT medicine!

An update on the people I met the first day in the waiting room here at Bethesda National Naval Medical Center:

Joshua Hoffman - shot in the neck and paralized from the neck down. I do not ever expect to see his dad again, Joshua was being transfered to another facility.

Benjamin Jackson - brain tumor and unbelieving wife. His tumor ended up being benign and his mother is praying the miracle will impact the wife and lead her to belief. They have left the hospital.

Scott Noss - army ranger suffering from major head trama (brain stem injury). He is still in a coma but was moved out of ICU today to the 5th floor because he can control his own body temperature. His mom reports that the brain stem controls temperature so they see this as positive.

We continue to pray for Travis'

• vision
• infections, now and the rest of his life
• attitude
• We are adding wisdom in the advice we are given and the choices we make concerning the next steps in his rehab.

Thank you for joining us in our prayers.
Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, and Haley in Phoenix

March 11, 2007

With the time change, according to the clock, we did not rise and shine as early as usual. Travis called us at 9:00 am and said "Hey, where is my family? You are usually here by 8:00." We laughed, but hustled over and brought his requested McDonald's pancakes and orange juice. He was bright and alert all morning. Pooch, Helen, and I attended church services in the chapel downstairs. The services have been led by a different chaplain each week and are terrific. As always, God speaks to me right where I am.

After lunch Travis was visited by a group of retired Marines. One of them, Charles Henderson, is the author of several books, the latest being JUNGLE RULES A TRUE STORY OF MARINE JUSTICE IN VIETNAM. He grew up in Artesia, played football ("In Artesia you either play football or wear a dress") and had been to Bayard and Deming. We had a good "hometown" discussion. The gentlemen also had some good websites for us to visit.

Dr. Fick, an intern starting his rotation with Travis Monday, dropped by about 6:00 pm. He summarized much of the information we have already been told:

• we're waiting to see what nature does with his eye rather than create more problems by interfering with nature too soon.


• we're giving the skin graft 5 days to adhere and then we will give him the ok to start physical therapy/rehab.


• Travis' temperature is still a small concern. His white count is normal and so the Dr's think the fevers might be caused by medication, etc.

Riley arrives late tonight and we're looking forward to the boys reunion tomorrow morning. We'll probably just step out of the way.

We love hearing from you and know beyond a doubt that you are praying for us. There is no other way for us to have the "peace that passes understanding."

With incredible thanks & love for all of you,
Cheryl Kae, Casey, Travis, Lauren, & Haley (from Phoenix)

March 10, 2007

Nana and Papa are so glad to see Travis, but Nana thinks he must have his days and nights mixed-up. He says he is awake at night, but he sure sleeps during the day. While he slept this afternoon, we took Nana and Papa to the Air and Space Smithsonian. Since Papa was stationed on the Valley Forge Aircraft Carrier in 1949 he really enjoyed the WWII exhibits.

Travis is still running a low grade fever off and on. Just when I think we have it whipped, it starts again. He says his back is a little itchy where they took the skin, but it doesn't hurt. Hopefully the graft will take and he will be done with that part.

Tonight the conversation in his room switched back and forth between what it was like in Iraq and TV shows he has never seen such as Deal or No Deal. We had as hard a time explaining that show as he had explaining what his living conditions were. Two very different worlds.

I called my sister EARLY this morning to make sure I caught her before she went to exercise before work. She very sweetly reminded me that today is Saturday. Oops, sorry Rhonda, you know how it is when you sit in a hospital room, kinda lose track of the days. But I know it is night and I lose an hour of sleep, so I'm headed to bed. As I drift off I will be thanking God for all you wonderful people who care so much for my family and my son.

Love, Cheryl Kae

March 9, 2007

Today was an exciting day. We arrived to Travis' room at 7:45 and he was already gone to surgery. Hurray! The doctors are happy with the results and have ordered bed rest for 5 days so the graft won't pull off.

A special guest stopped by while Travis was in surgery - New Mexico Congressman Steve Pearce! We had a wonderful visit for a little over an hour. Because of some experiences he has had, he was really able to relate to our situation and offered a lot of good, solid, brotherly advice. We were sorry that he missed seeing Travis, but thrilled that he would take time away from his busy schedule to come to the hospital and check on us.

Travis' Nana and Papa arrived today. So the 5 of us gathered in Travis' room and had a party. Well, not exactly a party, but it was definitely a party atmosphere. It was good to see all of us so relaxed, and if you have ever been around Casey's dad, you KNOW we were having fun.

Riley, Travis's really good buddy, is due to arrive late Sunday night, so Travis is going to be enjoying these next days a lot. We are excited for him and know this is the best medicine he can receive!

Thanks for caring. We appreciate the millions of things you are doing
for us.
Love, Cheryl Kae

March 8, 2007

At 7:15 am Travis ask for a sausage biscuit with cheese from McDonalds. What a good start for a great day in DC! Travis is cared for by medical teams, such as the trama team, but there are also many other teams which have information on programs available to him. The social worker assigned to his case came to see us today at the same time as the physical therapist. They were able to explain how he moves from being under the trama team to being an in-patient working on self help skills such as getting in and out of beds, wheels chairs, and vehicles independantly to being an out-patient working on walking with prosthetic legs. They stressed that time lines are not the same for everyone even with the same injuries, and a lot, of course, depends on each person's physical stamina and desire to succeed.

The Infectious Diseases team reported that Travis' white blood count and temperature are now almost always in the normal range and so at this time it looks very positive as far as infections go.

A Marine briefly explained Travis' future roll in the Marine Corps, with more information coming tomorrow.

A representative from Congressman Pearce's office came by to ask if the Congressman could visit Travis tomorrow. We said of course but he is scheduled for surgery and no one (not even the doctors) can tell us what time. Casey and I will be around Travis' room all day so we can at least represent Travis and relay information to Congressman Pearce. We are so glad that the Congressman is interested in Travis and other injured Military personnel and their situations.

Travis' grandparents arrive tomorrow afternoon from Deming and his very close friend, Riley, arrives late Sunday night. He received a huge collage of pictures and well-wishes from his gang of friends back home along with a package of cards and letters. He continues to read your web-site postings sent to him via fax each day. It is no wonder he is improving. Thank you for you time, love, and most importantly prayers. Please continue to pray for all our military and that God, "who changes times and seasons; sets up kings and removes them" (Daniel 2:21), will bring this war to an end.

Love, Cheryl Kae, Casey, and Lauren in DC and Haley in Phoenix

March 7, 2007

Travis has seen his messages from his website! My cousin printed them off and sent them to him. A couple of hours later, as Travis finished reading the last message, he said "that's awesome." We spoke for quite a while about all of you who have taken time to write to him, many he will never even know. One of these day he will be able to see the actual site.

Today he went to surgery at 1:00 and came out at 6:30. Dr. Duncan came to report to us that he will have skin grafts on Friday. After supper he was tired so we left him for the night.

Prayers are still

• For his eye and vision
• Protection from infections
• The skin grafts will adhere
• His positive attitude.